Advice please Gents!
I have met a great man on here, we clicked right away, fancied each other instantly and got on well. First date was amazing and the kissing even better! However, once we've moved to the hotel date, I soon realised that he had some erection issues and was rather on the smaller side. He did work hard to satisfy me and overall it wasn't catastrophic, but I feel that this is very limited for my appetite. I believe that an affair should be everything you can't have at home. I definitely can't settle, but would like to exit without hurting his feelings or ghosting or giving a bs excuse. My question is mainly to men... what is the best way to deal with this?
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Allyoursme - 20 Mar, 2024 - 09:42PM
You should specify your preferred size in your profile. Job done, for the lifetime you're on here.
ExoticOrchid - 20 Mar, 2024 - 06:32PM
So the OP isn't being bombarded with judgemental sanctimonious comments because she's female unlike the make PP on the other thread complaining about small boobs!!! 🙄
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Thinkingwomanshunk - 20 Mar, 2024 - 04:47PM
He was probably a little embarrassed himself if he had a problem getting it up. Give him another chance maybe suggest a little blue pill.
He may be a grower not a shower and a little extra help might help him reach his full potential
1653827 - 20 Mar, 2024 - 03:18PM
It’s not that deep.
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giggly hamster - 20 Mar, 2024 - 02:59PM
Honestly there’s no right way to tell him he’s not big enough for you.
Tell him that it’s not working and come up with some excuse about your husband keeping an eye over your shoulder and be done with it. Stick it in your profile afterwards that anything under a certain size shouldn’t apply. But I’d wait a couple of months before throwing that one out there. That way neither of you get to have the awkward size conversation.
Done.
TallgiyUK78 - 20 Mar, 2024 - 02:45PM
Wow, I'm a bit agast at some of the comments here from the gents - I guess I know understand why some of the ladies on the site have to be defensive.
Agree with some of the helpful comments, just be direct and tell him that you are not keen to continue.
He will likely know that his performance was not optimal and hence may already be expecting this outcome.
Letmeindulgeyou - 20 Mar, 2024 - 01:27PM
You need to make sure it's not first time nerves
If you really can't get over his size then end it politely, it should be on your profile to avoid repeating the same scenario over again.
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Suzanne1983 - 20 Mar, 2024 - 12:24PM
Its wonderbra women lol
Firstly his errection issues are probably just nerves. Let him take charge. Feeling incharge makes men more confident and allows you to embrace your feminity.
If you like this guy his pecker size doesnt matter. try positions that are difficult with a larger one. Have fun exploring and get sime imagination women!
giggly hamster - 20 Mar, 2024 - 11:58AM
If everything is great apart from that, then perhaps just buy the biggest back massager / rolling pin / hammer drill you can find and bring it along with a bucket of lube.
Tell him you’re kinky and into toys and they’re not going up him so don’t worry.
Hammer yourself senseless and then lay back in the orgasmatronic afterglow while he does his mouse shagging a house brick thing. Everyone’s happy 😊 simples. 😁
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