Advice please Gents!
I have met a great man on here, we clicked right away, fancied each other instantly and got on well. First date was amazing and the kissing even better! However, once we've moved to the hotel date, I soon realised that he had some erection issues and was rather on the smaller side. He did work hard to satisfy me and overall it wasn't catastrophic, but I feel that this is very limited for my appetite. I believe that an affair should be everything you can't have at home. I definitely can't settle, but would like to exit without hurting his feelings or ghosting or giving a bs excuse. My question is mainly to men... what is the best way to deal with this?
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pokingpanda - 08 Mar, 2022 - 10:38AM
Tend to agree with Sportster. Sure he will be disappointed & will be aware of the situation, but if it doesn't feel right or not what you expected then why carry on only to cause hurt later. Say you enjoyed the dates but the spark or feeling you were expecting just didn't happen. We are all on here to experience things we can't get elsewhere so rejection is part of the exercise unfortunately.
For us chaps rejection can be hurtful as we have the added burden of having to pay to be active on this site, but if you can't handle the ups & downs one may experience then perhaps this is not the right place to be.
Hope this helps x
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1499112 - 08 Mar, 2022 - 09:21AM
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1117169 - 08 Mar, 2022 - 09:20AM
He will be very aware of what the problem is and most likely feeling quite down and depressed about it so be kind and let him down gently. I suggest you just say that you enjoyed the meeting but need some time to think about what you really want and that you will leave the site for a while so can you do that
To give it some credibility you will need to resist logging in here for a week or two. If you dont and start looking straight away he will know its bs and hurt even more. Hiding your profile does not work by the way as its still possible to see if you have logged in by the way.
He will get over it.
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