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Advice please Gents!

I have met a great man on here, we clicked right away, fancied each other instantly and got on well. First date was amazing and the kissing even better! However, once we've moved to the hotel date, I soon realised that he had some erection issues and was rather on the smaller side. He did work hard to satisfy me and overall it wasn't catastrophic, but I feel that this is very limited for my appetite. I believe that an affair should be everything you can't have at home. I definitely can't settle, but would like to exit without hurting his feelings or ghosting or giving a bs excuse. My question is mainly to men... what is the best way to deal with this?

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1558991 - 12 Nov, 2022 - 12:50PM

Tell him pop blue pill give you booooost🤣🤣🤣


1558991 - 12 Nov, 2022 - 11:46AM

Lololol well say best way deal with it wham bam thankyou sir😂😂


JonP1974 - 12 Nov, 2022 - 11:25AM

If you are looking for more than just sex, then consider if he is the one and perhaps introduce stimulants and toys to help your pleasure. If you're mainly after the sex, then message him and be honest, say you like him but the physical side isn't going to work.


Chezley - 05 May, 2022 - 10:15PM

Paula

You just want some sleazy gossip to wank off to.

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Paula99 - 05 May, 2022 - 09:38PM

I think we should get Chezley and Spirtster in on this one...I am sure there will be some issues to iron out..🤣🤣


1516124 - 05 May, 2022 - 09:08PM

This sounds very similar to a situation I’ve been in. Wonder if it’s the same guy! 🤔


Zoobar - 12 Apr, 2022 - 10:53PM

First and foremost please don’t mention his small cock.. like many have said there could be a few reasons.. nerves is a big one.. the problem with messages is you build it up.. swap lots of naughty messages.. say lots… on the day.. in the room.. is a diff story.. let’s call it stage fright… lol.. there a lot of pressure to perform… he may also need a blue pill.. that’s not an issue.. let him try again.. if nothing changes just say it’s not working out.. we are all adults here… there is no need to be horrible.. kiss and hug and keep looking…

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1508936 - 12 Apr, 2022 - 09:51PM

Just tell him straight out that his little mushroom doesn’t cut it
And deep down he will already know this anyway


1515202 - 07 Apr, 2022 - 06:13PM

I once had a man just like that. It took 3-4 hotel meets before things really started taking off. @MissionClassified spot on. If you like each other, just be patient and assist him. Don’t big him up, but be honest with what you both need to work on improve matters. My IE and I maxed out our Dayuse time on meet 4 with the most amazing session. He hasn’t called in a while, but I wouldn’t say no if he did!

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1117169 - 06 Apr, 2022 - 07:37PM

@Mission Classified LFFWB

I thought a males worsted nightmare was a very badly fitting suit 😁

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