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53, Biggleswade (work London)

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Married, Slim body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Short Term Relationship, Casual, See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  IT/Communications
Education:  Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:  Blue
Hair Colour:  Auburn
Religion:  Atheist

Looking for Female between the ages of 40 and 54

Star Sign: Aquarius
Last Active: Within 24 Hours

About Me:


I consider myself to be easy-going, positive, warm and caring.

I spend a lot of time outdoors enjoying nature as an antidote to work. Also into music; mostly performing (jazz and classical) which keeps me busy. I go skiing every year. And I like to read fictiion and non-fiction. I prefer (gastro) pubs and cafes to restaurants which are oftern too stuffy and formal.

Work is crazily busy, and important, but I try to keep it in perspective, and I'm protective of my weekends.

I'm slim and fit (I run). Just under 6'. My hair is full but greying - i.e., not completely grey (the "auburn" in my profile - merely a memory...). I try and take pretty good care of myself.

Content generally, but looking to recapture some of that silly 20s-something passion, and I hope, something with substance and which endures.

Ideal Partner:

I'm married so interested primarily/realistically in something casual - at least at first, but who knows? And I'm only interested in hooking up with one person. (Who has the time or energy for more than one? Sheesh...) Despite the "casual" when we're together you'll feel wanted, loved and, I hope, turned on.

I'd prefer if you're married or partnered and are looking for something special on the side (with or without your partner's consent - I won't ask) - which is kinda where I'm at. If this sounds like what you’re looking for, drop me a mail...

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Alternative, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Hiking / Camping, Singing / Playing Instrument, Mountaineering, Ice / Snow Sports, Movies / Cinema

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