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SecretFriend4you

57, Away from Home

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Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, Short Term Relationship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Self-employed
Education:  Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Agnostic/None

Looking for Female between the ages of 35 and 69

Star Sign: Libra
Last Active: Will put a smile on your face

About Me:

I am a happy, laid back independent confident man. I seek one woman of similar character for adventure, mutual fun, exploration, fulfilment, friendship all with discretion and respect. Mutual fun respect and pleasure are key to success.

I have a mind and a body, both enjoy stimulation. I think outside the box and have an irreverent and active mind that colours my sense of humour. I am sensual and care about my partner’s needs and desires as well as my own. Humour and laughter are essential elements a kindred spirit in these secret pleasures. A lover to make feel wanted and desired and look forward to a chance to meet again.

I am worldly and well educated however not super intellectual or a highbrow snob and happy to talk and find fun in most things. Scandi Noir and people and plot centric drama mixed with action for my TV and Film time. Comedy wise I like Mock the week and would I lie to you also live comedy. Food tastes are also broad healthy and fresh rather than processed and full of long life additives.

Personality, humour and a positive attitude are top of mind. I would describe myself as a well grounded professional sadly in a long platonic marriage seeking a woman in need of a playmate.

Discreet (isn't that assumed on here?), respecting boundaries and fully understand the rules. Wit, personality and an attentive tactile nature. A yearning for someone to share some precious time together for our mutual pleasure and making memories to savour till next time. Really enjoy kissing an underrated art (and touch/massage) but a meeting of personalities is just as vital.

I manage my own time so am flexible and able to plan meetings to suit within reason. Daytime, evening even an overnight (would be real treat if things blossom). Adventurous and open minded so excited to meet someone new and spend time discovering each other and what is fun.

Logistics need to work. I seek one lover and want to be able to meet at least once month more is much better. I am self employed and flexible on availability working part time only with a grown up family. I spend some time separate from the family so should be able to fit around your availability if needs be. Hampshire, Dorset and Surrey (Western half) are easy locations to meet. I do visit Central London as Work takes me there so if you have regular opportunity to meet in London that would work too. Managing my own time I can make time in the day or evening for assignations, grabbing opportunities is the nature of an affair might be fun having an unexpected opportunity too.

I am normal and broad minded and fed up being in a sexless situation. So seeking someone with a need of a man eager to please enjoy laughter kissing and physical and mental connection. If we hit it off let's have fun.

I have to say I have been on here before so appreciate people who reply to replies and if its no interest, well I am a big boy and do understand what we are after is not common place. Hoping to meet someone interesting people not just play email ping pong and one that leads to a fun fulfilling friendship.

First meeting somewhere neutral and relaxed to test compatibility and sense if there is a spark. Finding out about each other face to face is hugely more fun and effective than endless messaging and tge real guide to if things might work. Email banter and word play can be fun but in the end it is a hunt for the right person to get physical with. Staying in touch as we get to know each other better between meetings.

Experience, imagination and desire for good company in and out of bed all waiting for a woman able to enjoy and utilise.

I am 5 10 tousled salt and pepper hair prefer casual dress when not suited and booted traditionally clean shaven. A few extra pounds and a very trimmed beard grown during pandemic whose removal if it is an issue is an option. Pre COVID kept fit with exercise when I get a chance (Tennis and gym about 3 times a week) I am fit and healthy own teeth, hair and original body parts (I do need glasses to read anything these days).

Attraction is idiosyncratic and appearance is only one factor. Smiles, expressive eyes and face mean as much as anything and signal personality that is the real deal maker.

My personality, intelligence, imagination and character are my best features but I am not plucked from the ugly tree just not a 25 year old Adonis anymore. Attraction is important so photo is available to swap and willing to meet for a coffee or drink somewhere convenient, discreet and neutral as attraction in the end is about personal interaction.

Ideal Partner:

I am looking for one woman who is communicative, intelligent, good company and likes to smile, laugh and not too serious in nature but serious in finding a friend for intimate fun. Communication, conversation, kissing and with mutual trust uninhibited intimacy are sought with a friend and lover.

Someone who has at least thought this through or maybe not your first time although wouldn't like you to have lost count.

Status is not important but similar needs, availability and practical stuff has to be there as well as passion and fun attitude about this. Just be honest I am open minded and non judgemental lots of different situations bring people to here just be honest and have compatable objectives. I don't want strings that bind but there needs to be a connection and genuine mutual liking and respect as this is not intended to be a one night stand but a mutual solution the piece of life's jigsaw we both find missing now.

Someone who cares about her health and not upsetting apple carts. Ideally just wanting me for me and able to meet for long enough to have some quality time and quality intimacy. If you have a fantasy or adventurous desire that's fine try me as long as nobody is hurt I have an open mind but straight forward mutual attraction is enough to have fun together too. I really don't have a "type". Attraction seems to be a bit unpredictable but would like someone at least reasonably fit and who has energy and fun about their personality, good self-esteem if that makes sense.

I have found attraction when not expected and no attraction or attraction that turns hollow fast when personality and chemistry simply aren't there.

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