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53, Abingdon

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Divorced, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Education & Science
Education:  Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:  Brown
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Atheist

Looking for Male between the ages of 45 and 59

Star Sign: Scorpio
Last Active: She's waiting for you!

About Me:

I'm a low-maintenance rock music (I love going to gigs) and football lover (Oxford United season ticket holder - they may only be league one but it's my team and I love them!).

If you're into Jungian personality types, then it may mean something to you that I'm INFP-T; that makes me a mediator, apparently. I'm astonished by how accurate the description of the INFP is. I'm a positive thinker who loves life and I don't let much get me down, although I do become inwardly irritated with people who just don't think things through. I'm not the super-effervescent type, either. I just try to go along with what life deals me with a cheerful disposition, to make the best of what I can control, brushing off that which I can't.

I have no interest at all in playing with people's feelings or any of the daft psychological games, petty playground politics and second-guessing that people can get involved in when they're in a relationship. I just want to have some fun. I've done the motherhood bit (son - aged twenty-five - obviously, the centre of my universe (Copernicus lied!) - lives at home (it's pretty tough for that generation to get set up with their own home, these days) but otherwise independent and very easy-going) and since he's reached adulthood, it's time to enjoy life as me and not simply as 'someone's mum'.

I'm initially interested in people who are up for some friendly chat, a bit of dating and something that could be categorised (if it really must be) as friends who have taken things to a sensual, physical level. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A RELATIONSHIP and am weary from eye-rolling at the men I've met who think that they may have induced an attack of commitment in me. It's never going to happen.There is no opportunity to choose 'single' to describe my relationship history so I have selected 'divorced'; I am not: the concept of marriage has always been a source of bemusement to me and I have never been foolish enough to try it. I am pathologically single. It makes me happy. I'm here because men don't want to leave their wives and partners, whom they love, and that makes me feel comfortable. I won't promise exclusivity (which is fair) and if I say you're the only one, I'll be lying. However, that doesn't stop you being the sole focus of my attention when we are together. I want to make you feel good. I very much enjoy flirting and exploring the cerebral side of a man.

I DON'T RESPOND TO VKs OR GIFTS but I will respond to messages if you have bothered to write a decent profile. I'm a bit of a grammar fascist so I probably won't respond to anything ungrammatical or badly punctuated. I realise I'm putting myself in a glass house by taking that stance but good communication skills are important to me. While I'm far from prudish, if we exchange passwords and you have phallus shots amongst your pictures, I'm not going to respond. I prefer a bit more mystique and dignity.

I love the style of classic beauties such as Isabella Rossellini, Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn and, while I would never equate myself with such women, I do try to emulate that classic style. I'm 5'7" and average size, with some curves. I hope my best features come from between my ears.

Ideal Partner:

Non-sequiturs follow: Intelligence, self-assurance without arrogance, self-sufficiency and the ability to sustain an intelligent conversation are qualities that turn me on. Generosity of spirit and genuine warmth are important but so is having a realistic view of the world and its flaws. I like affection but am not into commitment. I will role-play romance and try to make you feel special but probably not really feel it. I cannot bear drama in these things. Your wife is the one to put up with your moans and groans, not me. I'm here to embellish and excite, not to listen to the latest dissatisfactions of a grumpy old man. Let's get a little drunk and have a little fun. You're paying for the hotels. I'm aware that I seem rather stern in this summary but it's hard to convey your true self in writing.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Movies / Cinema

Gifts Received Recently :

Pearl Earrings Strawberry Daiquiri Deck Chair A Single Rose Milkshake Box of Belgian Chocolates

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