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Elegant Flower
57, Central London
Divorced,
Average body
5'2''-5'6'' (157-169cm)
Looking for:
Friendship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes
Caucasian/White, Non-Smoker, Light / Social Drinker
Occupation:
Self-employed
Education:
Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:
Hazel
Hair Colour:
Auburn
Religion:
Atheist
Looking for Male between the ages of 55 and 69
Star Sign:
Gemini
Last Active: Hidden Profile - Status unknown
About Me:
One late evening, while putting up Christmas- decorations, I decided to enhance my private time more and to seek intimacy on a more vibrant level. I am a sociable, creative, adventurous and curious creature, and I am looking to express my individuality.
I enjoy intelligent, challenging, witty, honest and flowing conversation on all manner of subjects. I consider any drama, drastic changes or indiscretion unnecessary. I am alert and dynamic and I dislike wasting time. Life, and the world, is for exploring. I am well-travelled, speak several languages, adapt to different cultures, and love both the stimulus and learning, which new horizons can bring.
I am as happy to laze about on a velvety beach, as I am when going for a bracing walk along a stream with a dog; I enjoy ambling in urban environments (museums, street-markets, flower-stalls, specialist food stores, auction- houses, bookshops, cafes, restaurants, galleries, theatre, concerts, movies, parks); I will warm my hands on a mug of mulled wine on a snowy mountaintop and then place my warmed hands on your cheeks; I love driving along winding country lanes and exploring new places; or sitting in an airport-lounge with a great book and quietly watching you, etc.
Am just as comfortable lounging about indoors, while one or the other prepares a little meal for both of us. I am of course aware of the reality, in that conducting an affair rarely affords us any time together, such as in the manner as described above, and therefore, if you have similar values, hopes or aspirations, then that is what matters the most.
I am very curious as to what might fire up your senses.
For example, nothing makes me feel more alive than the scent of a peeled orange on your fingertips; a salty sea-breeze leaving your skin feeling a bit sticky; a freshly cut lawn, some damp leaves, or crushed moss underfoot; a palm-full of frangipani-or stephanotis-blossoms gathered in a small bedside bowl; the residue of a freshly pulped mango licked off a finger; cooling Moroccan mint tea swirled on my tongue; the scent of your shampoo wafting from the bathroom in the shower's vapour; wrapping myself in your shirt, as I walk across our room, etc. Oh, and chocolate truffles from the finest chocolatier, partially melted in my mouth, then shared with my lover.
Sound is as important: a voice that is more of a mellow Mocha than a watery Nescafe; the oddly reassuring rhythm of a whirring overhead fan on a sultry summer afternoon‘s love-making; the patter of summer-rain, with the windows ajar; the sense of anticipation, when a cork is being pulled from the bottle; my lover's slow exhale near my neck.
As for touch, the feel of ripe apricots; walking across a floor-tile warmed by the sun, as one steps out of the shower; the exquisite comfort of 400-thread count sheets; but mostly, sleeping skin to skin.
As for visual elements, you will win me over with an engaging and open smile; I can come alive in late afternoon light, just before the sun dips and others start winding down their day's routines; I am thrilled by the drama of rolling landscapes and stormy skies; I will stop and pick up a pair of exotic shells, each with its own time-worn, secretive beauty, and I will hand you one of them to slip into your pocket: the next time you find it again, you will derive a quiet pleasure from the shared memory of our experience.
Vitally though, and above all else, you will draw me closer to yourself with that powerful, knowing and demanding look in your eyes, which conveys just how very focused and in- tune you are with your own longing, a gaze, which communicates a ravenous desire to explore a fabulous landscape beyond that which is considered strictly vanilla.
And since we are on the topic of anything, which is not strictly vanilla, please know this: I highly value the importance of trust. You see, in life, if people happen to like you, they'll listen to you, so if they trust you, they' would probably also do business with you. But if you’d never trust someone enough to do business with them, then why would one even consider sharing the intimacy of a bed with them? Whatever the eloquence of a prospect’s dexterity with language, if my instinct tells me not to give him my trust, then I shall listen to my intuition. Because, if I choose to give a lover my trust, he must treat it like a rare and special gift.
And NO, please do not waste your time approaching me under the guise of a secondary profile-name, when you already know perfectly well we did not hit it off during our initial exchanges here, unless you would like to be seen as being manipulative or sneaky.
I am well-organised and reliable, and am also adaptable to surprises, any challenges and to short-notice, impromptu changes.
I am in the correct weight-range for my frame and age; have glossy, straight and auburn/ brown mid-back-length hair; brown eyes with an olive/hazel tinge; healthy skin. I pay attention to grooming and health. I might wear my hair bouncy and open, in a ponytail, a chignon or piled up, Audrey-Hepburn-style.
I feel comfortable in my body and I have an open face. I like to smile and to make good eye-contact. You may respond more to my expressive eyes or to my full mouth, or to the dimple on my chin, or you may be drawn by my long neck or want to be touched by my dainty, groomed hands. I do not know specifically which aspect of my appearance might attract you, and I do not see much point in singling these elements out, which other people seem to be doing on dating sites.
I am particular about my dress-sense throughout every layer of clothing, right down to my undergarments (the aforementioned entails clips, eyelets, hooks, buttons, straps, lace, velvet, silk and satin, etc), be this for casual occasions, work, time in the country or in urban life, or formal events eg parties and cocktails, in heels or or not. I keep a capsule wardrobe, and I am conscious of detail, colour-combinations and accessories. I am as happy in a little, knee-length black dress or a pencil-skirt, as I am in trousers, whether I wear a tailored item or jeans. I embrace my femininity and enjoy wearing stockings, even under my jeans. I love subtly tracing the outline of the suspender clips through the layer of my clothes, it makes me feel deliciously feminine. I am told I am 'chic'. You will consider me a perfect lady in public.
If you prefer to wear trainers to a restaurant, and if you don't enjoy getting yourself regular haircuts, or, if you like to adorn your neck with an ostentatious gold chain, then we are unlikely to gel well.
(I once met a business-man, who was also a great writer and blogger, who had been a judo-master in his youth. It turned out that his entire upper back's surface was covered in an intricate, giant Yakuza-style tattoo, of which he was rather proud. His back's rough, sandpaper-like skin felt like that of a reptile's. As you read on, close your eyes, and imagine trailing your fingertips or tongue across a burnt and dried out toast's surface. It is hoped you will now understand why I did not let the relationship develop after that).
All in all, I make an effort to look presentable and I do expect the same courtesy from a gentleman.
Ultimately though, we both understand that an enriching and fabulous relationship is built upon mutual respect.
Ideal Partner:
You are a man who is confident, discerning, at ease with himself and with a witty sense of humour. You are well-educated and you like to further your personal development and learning. You are looking for a relationship which is also enriching on an emotional level. You are in a situation at home, where you sometimes wonder ‘Is this it?’ and you want to feel more appreciated for who you really are. You sometimes think about how you don’t want to lie on your deathbed one day, regretting that you did not always follow your heart. You appreciate the importance of respect and trust, the value of good communication,(including via the written word, be this through e-mail, sms or otherwise), so as to keep the flame alive during times apart. Communication is key.
(Hence, KINDLY NOTE THAT VK-SENDERS WILL BE IGNORED AND ANY VK-MESSAGES ARE INSTANTLY DELETED!). You are a great listener, ask open questions and you are interested in creating an extra dimension in your own life, which you feel your marriage may not be offering you. You are an independent- minded thinker, keep yourself informed, have an international outlook, you are emotionally intelligent and you generally enjoy life. You are attracted to women with whom you can have a smart and often, surprisingly good conversation. You are driven by more than just simple frustration or a roving eye which brings you here.
You are inquiring, reflective, sensual, in charge, feel comfortable about taking the lead, intellectual, tolerant, eloquent, witty, passionate, caring, tactile, demanding, tender, compassionate, forgiving, candid, libidinal. All in all, you are craving a certain kind of sensual abandonment, something which your every-day domestic arrangements simply do not offer you.
The basis for our relationship needs to be built on rapport, mutual respect, trust, curiosity, fun and friendship, if we are to create any dynamic of attraction, for us to register a frisson, thereby enabling us to make a genuine, ongoing connection, to ignitie a longing, through which we seek seduction, while creating an intensity, and ultimately, becoming lovers. I don't seek to share carnal pleasures with anyone. I am not interested in one-night stands.
We will not heap unrealistic expectations upon any initial meeting, and if nothing else, we will have spent half an hour over an easy-going chat and a coffee/ tea/wine/ snack. It's OK not to hit it off, and should this be the case, we can both walk away, without having to be dishonest about that,and yet we can be enriched by an interesting observation about ourselves, or with an amusing anecdote to take away with us.
For example, I might tell you the story about the gentleman who wears a specific colour of socks for each day of the week, ever since he was a child. We met for a drink on a Thursday. Thursdays are for red socks. I did not find his obsessively regimented, unquestioning mind-set alluring, and we parted ways amicably.I still hope he found a nice lady.
You don't become attracted to someone only for their looks, or their clothes, or their intellect or for their status, but much rather because they sing a unique song which only you can hear. This is a melody, which resonates with you and moreover, because something about that person, something which you find rather difficult to define, captures your attention, engages you, percolates and lingers with you.
On enjoying a connection: "Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around" (L. Buscaglia)
Other Interests:
Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Latin, Music - World, Gym / Aerobics, Dancing, Ice / Snow Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine
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