E. Edward Grey

About Me:

I am a long time married man living to the North West of London. I'm now into my mid 60's but am told I don't look it and certainly don't feel it! I am looking for some extra excitement in my life and yours and the opportunity to explore our sexuality and fantasies.

I am easy to get along with and very straightforward. I don't have time for game playing. I know why I am here and what I am looking for. I'm well educated, have lived and worked overseas, can hold a good conversation and have a good sense of humour. I don't take things too seriously.

I'm tall (6ft 3ins), well built with brown / grey hair and in reasonably good shape. I exercise but am not a slave to it. I also like my food and drink so that and the exercise are a bit of a conflict. I dress as required, from a suit and tie for work to jeans and a t-shirt for casual and most things in between.

Ideal Partner:

Hi and thanks for looking at my profile.

I'm looking for an illicit affair to bring some missing fun and excitement back into my life and hopefully yours. I am not looking to change anybody's marital status, especially mine, but I am looking for much more than just a one night stand. Ideally I would like to meet reasonably often but not too regularly. Ideally, a certain sense of anticipation needs to build.

I am also looking for the opportunity to meet a lady who is looking to explore her submissive side as part of an illicit affair. I should add that this profile was written before 50 shades came out so I am not jumping on the current fad. It is something I have experienced before and would like to repeat and explore some more.

You will likely be married although not necessarily and quite possibly very much in control of your life. But secretly you may have had fantasies about relinquishing that control and exploring all those "wicked" thoughts, maybe even some experience of it. This is not all about inflicting pain, nor living a BDSM lifestyle. It's about the subtle issue of consensual power and control over another person. If you've had such thoughts or some experience, you will know what I am talking about and I am well aware that it takes time to build the necessary trust in such a relationship.

I should also make clear that I am looking for this as part of a relationship, not the whole of the relationship and that it should be fun too. I enjoy socialising and a relationship needs to be built on more than just sex. Lunches, dinners, drinks, e-mails, texts are all a part of it although always respecting each others day to day lives. This needs to add to our lives and enhance them.

Personality is more important than looks. Looks are not everything and I don't really have a particular type, height, hair colour or figure that I'm looking for although there clearly has to be a mutual attraction. I'm attracted to everything from slim to very curvy but I need to be up front that I'm not attracted to seriously overweight women. Hopefully you will have a body and a mind that are both worth exploring. Most importantly you will have the right attitude.

My interests are not rigid and my ideal partner also needs to be within a reasonable travel distance. Central / North West London and the surrounding home counties would be ideal. I can manage weekdays during the day and evening. Overnights are possible occasionally but weekends are difficult.

So if you like what you read please get in touch. Many profiles do not mention any thoughts of submissiveness so if yours doesn't but you are nevertheless interested, then get in touch as otherwise I might just miss you! I do look at many profiles and have to say that those from the profile generator all seem the same and tell me virtually nothing. Virtual kisses and gifts much the same. You are going to have to be able to communicate to hit it off with me.

It helps get a dialogue off the ground if you can explain up front what your interest is. Is it the submissive bit? Is it a serious desire, have you any experience or are you just curious? I have no problem responding to those who are just curious but I do like to know that up front.

If your profile talks about the need for discretion and you then ask for my password before you will even swap any mail then you clearly don't understand the meaning of the word discretion. I will only give out my password once I get to know a bit about somebody and feel comfortable doing so. That doesn't mean it needs to take ages, I appreciate we do need to see each other but I'm not just dishing out my password to anybody that asks.

I look forward to hearing from you.

Other Interests:

Nature, Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Rock, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics, Motor Racing, Travel / Sightseeing

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