WintersNight

About Me:

WARNING: It's long.... Very long! ;)

Grab yourself your favourite drink, get comfortable, kick those shoes off, breath, let those shoulders down and relax, this may take a while….. reading this back, sounds like a massage is on the cards ;)

Now, I thought I would give this a go in finding my soul mate, my tick to their tock. I know the sort of creature I seek, but the environment we may find ourselves in and the time we have available may vary, The journey is as important as the destination. I'm looking for that one, yes one, very special person, you know, the type that you think about randomly during the day, the type that brings a secret smile to you face in a crowded place. Now despite being married (as most here hopefully) I seek that energy, that desire, that secret passion pent up and ready to explode! I'm looking to find someone who will embrace my soul as much as my body, as I will theirs. Like ships passing in the fog, I'm sure I will bump into you, I just don't know who you are yet and when this will happen but I have patience !


If you asked me a year or two ago, I would have said that you would never have seen me here, but things change in your life, some nice people complement you and you come to realise that life is for living, experiencing, tasting, feeling and if you hesitate, it will pass you by!


I'm looking for someone who feels the same way, I will be there for you as I hope you will be for me. I require some fun and laughter, experience moments together either locally or away somewhere special. Now for those who have read this far, well done!, and even better, a great gift awaits ;o)


As for what we will do together, our choices are endless. I want to walk with you in the countryside, lie down in the grass, disappearing from sight to admire your beauty. I want to run with you in the rain and get soaked to the skin together and kiss. I want to hold you in my arms, halfway across a bridge, looking down the river, as if we were the only two people left on this planet. I want to stay with you and go places we shouldn't go and not act our age. I want to see a show with you and yearn for that interval kiss. I want to lay in front of an open fire and hold you close, smell your perfume, feel you breathe as you lay with me, touch your soft skin... I want to sit on a beach, listen to waves crash on the shore, watch the birds go about their business and drift into each others eyes as the sun goes down. I can go on and on, but I guess you get the idea? What are your visions of what this should be like? UPDATE: after feedback received, I’ve made it a bit easier and hopefully reduce the inbox traffic (oooh hark at me :) Check out my photo before contacting me if you know where to look?

I'm honest (except for the obvious), caring, attentive, romantic, sensual, strong in character and in heart, brave, foolish, confident with old fashion values (are you thinking, yeah right? :o) I guess (strong mum / father died young). Hopefully together we can live a little.

Adventurous, lived parts of my life close to the edge and but mentally stable (felt I had to say that :) I'm discreet and will do whatever I can to meet your requirements, and of course I expect the same in return, rabbit stew is not my favourite!

If (big IF) I find the right person, we will want so much of each other, that we will make the most of our limited time together and always look forward to the next time! I look after myself as much as I can, cycle where possible (weather dependant), but always think I should do more.

I've lived an adventurous life thus far (before marriage :) from sky diving to scuba, motor sport and I've travelled quite a bit, for example, Israel, Cuba, Russia, USA and other more normal summer destinations, so consider myself knowledgeable of the ways of the world. I'm now retired early and have purchased a campervan, to explore the UK and spend most of the summer in Italy, Switzerland or France, want to join me for a sneaky trip? ;) or perhaps you have something to show me, just the two of us can explore :)

Now the difficult bit I have been before and have learnt that looks seems to be important to a number of women on this site and I understand the reasons why. While I do not really seek someone who is driven by looks, I thought I would be a descriptive as possible for all viewers without putting my photo on the front page! But nearly ;)


You will probably look up to me :o) as I'm over 6' tall, how short or tall you are doesn't matter to me. I'm average build, I'm NOT tall dark and handsome (well the last?...) I'm fair skinned, sprinkled with a collection of freckles, ocean blue eyes that I am told that they can see in to the soul and red hair with glimpses of blond (rapidly heading towards grey in a few years) that gives it some depth, usually kept short, and usually short beard. You either get this or not. No tattoos (nothing against them) all my bits attached last time I checked I think my best feature is my hands, not for how they look, but what they can achieve! ;o)


Soooo ladies who dreaming of film star looks, then I'm not your man! I think I am presentable, in good condition.!


I'm probably not the one you would head for in a bar, but having said that, I may hold the door for you on the way in..... what I trying to say is that if you are driven purely by looks and no depth, then I'm not the guy for you, please save yourself time and look at some of the other good looking men on here, some I even like! No hung ups on that front. Having said all this on the looks front, I'm probably doing myself an injustice (add modest to the list above :) at the end of the day, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and your either get me, or not.


So if you have got to this point and are not drunk, fallen asleep or just lost the will to live :o) , (P.S. Don't message me saying my profile is way to long, I really don't get why up put the effort in to say that?@£%?) then why not take the extra few minutes to say hello! :) I will bite, but ever so softly ;o) and I will take my time. If you equally have got this far and thinking I'm not for you, I have at least taken a little part of your life in the time you have spent here, so I wish you all the success in what you seek and wish you well in your search :o)


Happy hunting! :o)

Ideal Partner:

I have no fixed picture of what I’m looking for but I will try to paint it, at least in part below...

You’ve seen the age range but it’s only a number, I look at the inner heart and what it wants to do. I’m requiring someone to be honest with me (I know we are both telling at least one lie, but if between us we can be truthful, then I would be happy) Why lie anyway, look upon this as a fresh start!


I’m not testing the water, I’m serious about this. I’m not looking for a replacement wife, as I hope you are not looking to replace your husband, and I’m not looking for someone to share my troubles with. I’m looking to find someone to enjoy, explore and just have juvenile fun, while secretly knowing there is somebody there! Of course, I’m looking to meet up at some point. Practically, local would be great as I find the further away you are, my white charger gets tired and the frequency goes down, BUT if the right person came along, then I will find you wherever you are as I do like to explore new places :) I assume you are married, so our time together will be limited but this I believe makes it special, as if dreams come alive, our fantasies lived, or our youth recaptured and put to good use!

As you have probably guessed, I do like to write, strange as I don’t read much but would like to find someone who can equally express how they feel, in writing or in person, as I’m sure my availability is limited compared to most on here, but hope to make up for it in the quality of what time we do spend together and I’m always available to chat with where I can.
I will attempt to reply to all that write to me as soon as I can, may be a few days, as I like my replies to be given the time they deserve, not rushed, this is only good manners after all?, I’m sure I have enough stamps somewhere! :)


I’m looking for someone with passion, love and those feelings like butterflies in the tummy when we meet :) to make it perfect, a man can dream!

Hopefully you are a non smoker or light, with the intention of giving up :) Reasonable level of fitness, some stamina required you know!

Physically, I have not set picture in my mind, my weakness are captivating eyes balanced with a secret smile, if you don’t smile then we are in trouble already :) If you can give those looks of wanting more, then you can melt me on the spot!


You can be dark, blond or purple! It really doesn’t matter. You should be a mix of tenderness, strength, passion, confidence, vulnerability, lust, restraint, sexy, soft, witty, dry, formal and informal. Changing between these like the breeze will ensure you will always have my full attention ;o)


I’m seeking that deeper connection, that electricity when we touch, the endless depth in our eyes when we gaze at each other and the feeling of a hug that you do not want to end! I want to do those things that we just wouldn't with our partners! You tell me what I mean by that! I love to give massages, something about the feel of a woman’s skin, so if you are up for me to practice on you, let me know! I hope you will occasionally think of me when we are apart and be part of me when together.


I’ve ticked most of the boxes in the type of relationship, do they really mean anything? But would like to think I will find someone who would not disappear overnight :o) I need rescuing from my tower (how about that for equality!) and would love to roll down my hair, if I had long hair, For that right woman! IMPORTANT: Circumstances have changed for me recently so Daytime meets are easy for me, you can have me all day ;) with the occasional planned evenings, weekends are the most difficult, the tower is locked down then!


Good luck in your search to all that read this :o) But if something has caught your eye, don't be shy, get in contact, especially if you don’t normally message the men! do it now, it only takes a hello...

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Astrology / New Age, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Alternative, Music - Pop / R&B, Literature / History, Cycling, Shopping, Singing / Playing Instrument, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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