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CoKo21

65, Edinburgh

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Married, Average body
5'2''-5'6'' (157-169cm)
Looking for: See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Self-employed
Education:  Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Blonde
Religion:  Atheist

Looking for Male between the ages of 55 and 74

Star Sign: Cancer
Last Active: Within 24 Hours

About Me:

I am a bright, warm, affectionate, tactile woman, looking initially for a good friend who, if circumstances and chemistry are right, could become much more. I am not looking for an exit from my happy, companionable marriage. But, ultimately, I am seeking a relationship - key word - that is more than 'no strings fun', which, to me, implies the most fleeting level of acquaintance. I am seeking someone in my life who is relatively long-term and who, emphatically, is NOT a stud! Please don't send me photos of your nether regions. I have absolutely no interest in being just a notch on your bedpost - so no players required. We need to be on the same wavelength and enjoy the delightfully humorous aspects of life - and would also like someone who is warm, bright, caring, sensitive, a good listener as well as a talker. I'm not particularly in tune with gym fanatics, pc obsessives, car or other gadget bores. Having had a few bruising experiences with narcissists, I would also prefer to avoid in future.I have no problems meeting someone a little younger than myself - up to, say, 5 years, so that would now be late 50s. I know much younger guys are all the rage for some ladies of my age, but I have neither the confidence nor the experience to take that particular path. Younger men do get in touch, seeking a relationship with an older woman - it is hugely flattering, but please understand that the idea is out of my comfort zone, so I will always say no. A more mature relationship always appeals - I love the quiet confidence and, generally, realistic expectations of most older men. I am looking for someone who is not in any great rush, who is patient and kind, gentle and realistic. I also want to meet someone urbane and stylish - not in a sharp suits kind of way, but stylish in appreciation of culture. I've been told lots of times that I don't look my age, but I must emphasise that I AM still this age chronologically - I am not trying to fool myself, or you! Would love to meet someone who enjoys great books, excellent films, interesting travel, good food and wine. Detest text-speak and find 'lol' the biggest turn-off - just sounds far too pre-pubescent. And please don't bother sending me a virtual kiss - it's just too lazy and I will never respond to one. If you like the sound of me, then write to me - and engage with me, reveal something of your delightful personality, don't just go for the ultimate cop out of 'how are you today?'or 'want to chat?'. Be inspiring. Flirt with me. Be witty (love that). I am absolutely not hung up on people's looks. What is more important to me is to feel an empathy, an understanding, a sense of similar values. But, naturally, there does need to be a mutual spark of desire in order to ignite a relationship - and that cannot be engineered. Have been told that perhaps my standards are too high for a prospective affair! But why would one ever compromise about such an important step?

So, what do I bring to the party? Well,I am about 5'3", my hair is fair and short-ish, I wear specs, have a cheeky diastema, and I am the British average size 16, certainly not huge but absolutely no sylph, so if a gamine physique is where it's at for you, then I'm not your gal! I emphatically do not believe, and never will, that pushing a lettuce leaf around a plate is a satisfying meal. And I will not forego a very enjoyable glass of red over dinner. My 'mantra' is to enjoy a life of modified hedonism, so that I can enjoy to the full the only life I am very likely to have. And the hedonism applies to being here, of course! My best features - I'm good, relaxing company, very affectionate, and have a great sense of humour. I am kind, accepting and an attentive listener. Whether you are attracted to me or not depends on individual preferences. And vice-versa, naturally. I like to relax so my dress is modern casual, though I also like dressing up for special occasions, though, let it be noted, I am not into the high heels and sexy undies clichés. I would not demand any clichéd or stereotypical behaviour from you so would be delighted if you return the favour!

Ideal Partner:

For me, a compatible personality wins over looks - if we can talk and laugh together then it's an auspicious beginning. The qualities that are important to me are: warmth, someone tactile, bright, sophisticated, literate, emotionally secure and mature. Especially mature in attitude. I am not looking for a string of contacts, or a player, but for someone special - someone genuine, nice, comfortable with themselves and their life, articulate, honest (within the confines of this kind of relationship, I do appreciate the irony!). I like kindness, intelligence, a dry sense of humour, a quick wit and genuine warmth. For ease of meeting the Central Belt of Scotland is preferable, though other areas are not entirely out of the question. And I am seeking a long-term relationship/friendship. Casual encounters can be fleeting fun and would have appealed about 20 years ago. Now I would like something more tangible. But I do understand 'the rules'. I have had an extremely long-term affair previously, which was wonderful and entirely discreet - but, sadly, circumstances changed. If I could have this kind of long-term, mutually rewarding, mutually affectionate relationship again it would be amazing. But I would also like to meet someone who is not in a rush. That's where that mature attitude comes in again. I'd like us to get to know each other and like each other, to be friends as well as lovers. For me, that enhances all experiences.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Politics, Literature / History, Singing / Playing Instrument, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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