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57, Oxford

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Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Short Term Relationship, Long Term Relationship, Casual

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Regular Drinker

Occupation:  Self-employed
Education:  Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:  Green
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Agnostic/None

Looking for Female between the ages of 35 and 59

Star Sign: Aries
Last Active: Don't just have a look, say hello

About Me:

Almost a year ago I had a life changing brush with my own mortality which significantly changed how I see the world. I realised that I've taken everything for granted for too long. I'd settled into a comfortable rut in which nothing very exciting ever happened.

My kids have grown and mostly left home, my wife is very busy with hobbies and her own business and I'm now semi retired. Faced with this I looked myself in the mirror and decided I had to re-awaken my adventurous former self. Having travelled, worked and lived all over the world through my 20s, 30s and 40s suddenly I recognised that a trip to Oxford had become exotic. I don't want it to be... I want some excitement back, but don't have any desire to leave my family life behind. I want a secret lover and friend, someone wanting that excitement back too.

I'm a well spoken public school educated gentleman. I am able to keep a secret and am honest. A paradox that I'm sure many of us share. I'm 5ft 11inches. So a shade off that 6ft that so many of you seem to be seeking. I don't wear heels very often.. I've got all my own teeth and hair still. It's going a bit grey I admit, but that's sexy right? I occasionally have a beard as I hate shaving, but can be clean shaven if you really don't like stubble. I'm trimmed neatly elsewhere..

I have several rather nice fragrances I like to wear. I've never really understood what differentiates a male aroma from a female one so I experiment. If I like the smell I'll wear it.. I treat life like that.

I'm not one for luxury and get far more from the natural environment than personal belongings. I enjoy all sorts of food and always like to try something new. Travelling and living across a wide spectrum has taught me a lot..

I'm more kinky than my appearance may portray. I adore bodily pleasures of many kinds.. and am up for exploring possibilities with anyone so inclined. I'd love the opportunity to explore my sexuality some more, while I still can..

I work part-time for myself so can readily meet up, and it's not unusual for me to have to be away from home for a night or two..

Ideal Partner:

My ideal partner isn't too far away from Oxfordshire, has spare time, especially during week days and is confident enough to actually meet up. She's curious about people, and non conventional, she open and forthcoming and of a happy disposition. Technically savvy is good too.

She's probably done this before or at least thought it through in great detail. She understands the thrill, the excitement and the pleasure a secret liaison can bring.

In terms of looks, I'm a sucker for a red head, but to be honest there's no real pattern I can spot in my lifetime encounters. Just be a gorgeous person who wants roughly what I hope I've described here. Age... Well, I have always fancied ladies from 35 to 60 all my adult life. Much younger than that I don't think would work and older I've just no experience of..

I'm not looking just for sex, but for a likeminded soul who is up for exploring themselves whilst still able and willing. In all senses.

I'm looking for someone who enjoys the physical side of a relationship as much as the mental. I enjoy pleasing others almost more than being pleased myself. I've been too long without this in my life and seek someone in a similar position.

You must be able to hold a good conversation on most current topics.

If you're a Tory voter, Brexiteer or Trump admirer we're NOT likely to get on...

If you like what you've read, please add me as a favourite and I'll get back to you as soon as I can. If you're a super sleuth, even better, you'll figure out how to get my attention. I love initiative.

At the moment I've not seen many profiles that chime just perfectly within the distance that I think could work... prove me wrong? I'm hoping you'll spot me as I look for you and then we can get things moving... x

Other Interests:

Nature, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Food and Wine

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