CHRISinnit

About Me:

I'm just a guy looking to hang out with a gal who shares some of my values and able to engage in good conversation and good love making.

I'm by no means Mr. Perfect but I take pride in who I am and make an effort to look after myself. I'm spatially aware of what goes on around me and understand how my actions may impact on others, so remain respectful of that and stay away from people and places where I feel unwelcome.

I stay clear of people with toxic personalities who seem to enjoy causing chaos around them in which they thrive. I'm the quiet guy at the back of the crowd, not the noisy attention seeking prick at the front who claims to have everything a woman wants. If you like this guy, then I won't be wanting to spend time with you as your life's probably as screwed up and unstable as his. Equally, if you're the attention seeking woman at the front of the crowd, I won't be interested as I'll be looking for the quietly confident woman towards the back of the crowd who doesn't need to display how wonderful she is to everyone.

6'5" tall giving a good ability to look over the crowd toward the back. Brown hair slightly greying (not to be confused with grey hair with remnants of brown), healthy brown eyes, articulate (although this ability starts to diminish after a couple of G & T's), ex-international basketball player and remain fit & healthy although I do admit to needing some time down the gym.

There's been a distinct lack of intimacy in my life for many years and looking to change that with someone who can inspire me into a meaningful relationship and someone I can look forward to being with. Just to reassure you, now that you know of my celibacy, my love making package is fully intact, in full working order, plentiful but well out of practice.

If meeting the 'one' requires me to be discreet, then so be it. You won't need to worry about me as I have plenty going on to keep me busy if required. Life is for living and loving, not screwing around with peoples emotions and security.

In the process of becoming single at some point this year after 30 years marriage. Mutual decision so there shouldn't be any baggage. I'm in no rush so won't be playing the field and am prepared to wait for the right person. Am after quality, not quantity.

My general attitude to life - "was what it was - is what it is - gonna be what it gonna be". I've enjoyed the good times I've had throughout my life (was what it was), not necessarily enjoying things at the moment (is what it is), but looking forward to what possibly lies ahead (gonna be what it gonna be).

Ideal Partner:

Looking for a genuine woman living in the UK who's got their shit together. European Cam girls or wannabe mistresses wanting a lifetime of materialistic gestures need not apply.

Someone clean, pretty, slim & curvaceous and who's equally comfortable in jeans & tee-shirt or revealing dresses (there's as reason I didn't include shell suits). Equally comfortable in wellies, fk-me boots, trainers or high heels. Someone with natural beauty who doesn't need masses of makeup to feel comfortable and feels just as good covered in mud. Someone intelligent who's able to engage in decent conversation, subject to the amount of G&T's we may consume. (Not into drunks but let you off with tipsy talk).

Someone who has no issues being naked around me (am a lights-on kinda guy). Like any guy I'm stimulated by what I see but also respond to the soft touch and passion of a woman's kiss and voice.

Someone sensual, erotic, gentle and loving.... not into rough & tumble, role playing or anything bizarre. I like the thought of you having bisexual tendencies but obviously not essential, just part of my bucket wish list as I love the thought of another woman bringing you pleasure as I also make love to you. I love the female form and enjoy finding your most sensitive areas and watching how mine & your touch brings you pleasure. For me, i'm highly turned on by the pleasure I see in you.

Someone who likes being with me, sharing experiences, walking hand in hand and sharing time with me in all situations, relaxing at the end of the day cuddled up on the sofa and talking through our day (like wot people in love do).

I would prefer to know what you look like if we're to start communicating. Chatting with a stock or fake picture of 'not you', isn't my idea of getting to know someone, no matter how genuine and remarkable you make yourself sound. I'm no oil painting myself and what you see is what you get. I'm told I scrub up nicely and look better in the flesh than in my photos.

Other Interests:

Nature, Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Alternative, Music - Dance / Electronic, Nightclubs / Clubs, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - World, Gym / Aerobics, Shopping, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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