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60, London, Cheshire

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Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Regular Drinker

Occupation:  Executive
Education:  Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Other
Religion:  Atheist

Looking for Female between the ages of 21 and 99

Star Sign: Leo
Last Active: Within 3 Hours

About Me:

hello there, I'm a professional middle aged man who has a good marriage except in one aspect - it's now a purely platonic marriage. I've no plans to change my home life or personal situation but I also have no desire to spend my best years without a sexual partner / lover. I am at a point where, after years of working in professional firms, I am now working for myself and managing my own time. Because of that I can be available either in London or Cheshire during the week (evenings / overnight) ... all by virtue of the magic that is the West Coast Main Line.

How best to describe myself without resorting to the dreaded IE profile generator?? Well, I've had a few affairs in the past so I understand the importance of discretion and keeping a secret. I'm more than happy to keep my personal life separate from my IE life. My previous affairs have always been with one woman at a time, I'm not into juggling multiple partners, that's not my thing. I'm neither fat nor thin, am usually clean shaven, don't have any piercings or tattoos. I dress smart casual rather than formal, I'm still reasonably fit and supple and keep working on staying that way. I suppose I'm comfortable in my own skin. I have all my own hair (grey) and teeth, surely a bonus!. Of course, personal grooming and hygiene are essential (I can assure you that showers are taken daily and all extraneous hair is taken care of) Do I really have to say this? I guess I do as I see so many women making this point.
I'm also funny, well read, socially aware, and I would hope that post coital conversation won't drag. Am I looking for a sexual relationship? Of course I am, but one that also involves more than just hotel sex. As far as the sex itself is concerned... yes of course I enjoy it and I hope you do too. I would hope to be able to make my partner as happy as possible in that respect. I'm also completely open to taking the sexual relationship into more interesting / uncharted territory if you are!

Having said all that, I have been accused by one woman on this site of being a risk to her sexual health because "I've had affairs before". Well, I assume we've all had affairs before or are in the process of trying to have one. I practice safe sex, until such time as I'm in an exclusive relationship and we're both comfortable with the state of each other's genitals, like duh!

Ideal Partner:

It seems a bit presumptuous that I should say what it is I want or expect in a partner. I think it's more for you to decide if you like what you read in my profile and reach out accordingly if you do. All I would ask is that after a few exchanges we agree to meet up and see how that goes. Photos only tell part of the story and while I enjoy the to and fro banter of an online relationship, there's nothing better than meeting up and squeezing hands and kissing for the first time ...is there?

Just from a practical point of view, someone who lives / works in London (or the same in the North West) during the week and can make a regular evening or overnight meet up and hotel stay over work.

I'm really open on this....my only issues would arise if you're a brexiter, Daily Mail reader, vote Tory and are only looking for a pen pal / online relationship! I mean, we want to have fun, right... and enjoy each other's company!

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