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45, london

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Married, Athletic body
6'0'' (183cm) or above
Looking for: Friendship, Romance & Fun, Casual

Other,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Engineering
Education:  Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Eye Colour:  Brown
Hair Colour:  Black
Religion:  Atheist

Looking for Female between the ages of 21 and 99

Star Sign: Pisces
Last Active: Within 2 Days

About Me:

I like to be alive. I want to be more alive. I want Dopamine, Serotonin, Oxytocin. All at once. Maybes that become possibilities that become ‘Yes, NOW’. At my best I lack all conviction, at my worst I compromise. I like to say what’s on my mind and hear what’s on yours. We both like words but know this isn’t a book club.
What I like most is outrageous demands and, and, and…melting chocolate on my tongue, cold salty wind from the sea, the smell of mint, drawing on misted window panes. Cut grass, cinnamon, vanilla. My lover’s hot breath on my neck, licking mango from her fingers, a hot shower flowing over us. The way peaches spill their juice when bitten. It’s taken a long time to realise all that but not too late, I hope. Too late is the worst.

Clearly, an affair means these moments are stolen. They are to be enjoyed but never held.

I’m most probably unlike your husband, as you are unlike my wife. That difference is important. Surely that is the point. I’m not for you if you are looking for anything pale. My skin is dark, as are my eyes and hair. I have hair on my chest and an athletic build. I like to smile and to make eye-contact. I am emotionally secure and despite the evidence not up my own ass

Ideal Partner:

You celebrate your muliebrity. A woman who is confident and at ease with herself.

Circumstances brought you here. Pulled you here. Despite your initial hesitation. The distant drums signaling something is missing becoming louder and louder. A back-beat which keeps you awake at night. Whatever the reason- vanity, revenge, loneliness, lust. Let’s face it, monogamy is unnatural. Not content to measure out your life with coffee spoons You want what comes next.
The why is clear, who is more difficult. The mathematics of attraction is complicated. Maybe it’s more of a recipe than algebra. Omakase or a layer cake. It’s cerebral, physical and a meeting of needs. If you have a list of ‘must have’ characteristics- must have this level of intelligence, that availability, height, outlook- we probably aren’t suited. Would you like fries with that? We would work if you want something that needs to be felt more than constructed. As clear in the dark as in sunshine.

This time you are looking for pastels rather than primary colours. Far from the strained dictionary of this website. Your attraction will be harder to label, more ephemeral, more about how a person makes you feel and how you can make them feel. Skirting limerence, but never crossing the line

You want to talk about what is on your mind. How you feel and how you want to feel. You appreciate that someone listening and asking questions is a sign of interest and affection. Our conversations becoming increasingly passionate, caring, reflective, demanding, open, carnal and increasingly punctuated by silliness.

Send me a secret or a lie and you will get one from me in return.

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