pauloderoy
65, Renfrewshire
Married,
Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for:
See how it goes
Caucasian/White, Non-Smoker, Non-Drinker
Occupation:
Retired
Education:
Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:
Grey
Hair Colour:
Brown
Religion:
Church of England
Looking for Female between the ages of 30 and 74
Star Sign:
Pisces
Last Active: Message him before he's gone!
About Me:
Hi, I am a married retired professional person. My wife spends all week working, and most evenings at home too, and we don't spend much time together at other times either so I get very very lonely ...but I am therefore only generally available during the day, not evenings or weekends.
My hobbies are mainly intellectual. I listen to a lot of music, of eclectic tastes. Read a lot. Play computer games (sounds silly I know, but I enjoy them). I write quite a lot for my own amusement, mainly fiction. I like to chat, and enjoy a good conversation about more or less anything you want to talk about .
I have two adult children who I love dearly, and am fond of pets.
Loneliness is an awful thing ..... I get pretty bored, spending hours on my own ....I am looking for someone who is kind, patient, funny (as I think I have a good sense of humour), and a good conversationalist. I love cuddles if i get on with someone (though of course, that must be mutual), and the simple pleasures in life.
I like talking ....I consider myself to be empathic, and pretty understanding ... and it is the person that is important, not necessarily what they look like. I have got to the age where you realise that beauty is, anyway, only skin deep.
I would like to develop a friendship ....someone who I can spend time with, and consider to be a friend as well as maybe more. I don't expect a lot of contact ...just what suits your needs.
Hope that gives u a little picture of myself. Paul
Ideal Partner:
I am looking for someone who is not put off by my age .... inside, I am still young at heart. I dont think I am some quasimodo looking guy ....so consider myself reasonably presentably. I like a good sense of humour, and someone who can talk about something other than sport.
I think I am quite affectionate and enjoy physical contact ...cuddles etc
I need someone who is discreet as, being married, I am only available during the day on weekdays .... I can drive though, so can come to you or meet wherever is convenient. I cannot be contacted by phone (except by text message or perhaps discrete calls during daytime hours ... So, texting or calling me on my phone after 4 in the afternoon, on weekdays or at all during evenings, or weekends, is a no-no ...sorry. )
This is my first time using a site like this and I do so out of the need for occasional non-judgemental friendship and company , if things work out.
I need someone who can be a friend as well as a companion, and I need to feel some kind of empathy with them. I am not just looking for anyone simply because they are female.
A love of music would be good, and some shared interests, as my wife has no real interest in anything that I do as a hobby.
I am very lonely, and would love to meet someone who understands how that can feel. I don't want a long-term relationship, as I already have one of those ... but I would love contact with someone which I can look forward to from time to time.
Are you the right person? If I find the right person, I will not be wanting to flit from person to person. One good companion/friend is all I need. Are you that person? Don't be frightened that I will be looking for a lot of commitment ... I just want a little fun, pleasure and happiness in my life.
I need to point out that I have no intention of leaving my wife ... as I love her dearly ... Ideally, any relationship we have would compliment our lives, not replace what we already have.
Paul x
Other Interests:
Music - Country, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Computers / Internet
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