EyesLipsHands

About Me:

If you were to go by what others respond with, I'd say I was warm, inviting and easy to get along with. I can be gregarious and quiet, depending on the situation, and what may be required. People often say I have 'emotional intelligence'....

On the other hand 'others' also say I'm deeply dark and mysterious...seductively secretive...allowing people to generate their own impression of what they see and meet with me ...because I am fiercely opposed to being defined by category, profession, age, embellishments, car, etc..(you can fill in any gaps I've left)...what I prefer is to just 'be'..and see if thats enough..as thats what I do with others...I just allow them to 'be'...I go with my feelings and gut reaction/instinct..due to the fact I trust that a whole lot more than my conscious mind...'how do I fee'l rather than 'what do I think'...

I'm passionate about life, tactile and very good with my hands. I love to engage on many levels and find the hottest 'link' is the mind first; imagination, anticipation and vivid, fizzing, electrical engagement are imperative - I know what this site is, but there's nothing wrong with connection, even if it is transient or temporary.

I'm at a loss to try to explain why, but that subconscious level of 'connect' has disintegrated with my significant other, leaving me to engage here - because I know I need that passion back in my life - to 'feel' it again, to know I am alive and experiencing life to its full.

I love to live, I love to engage, I love to feel, I love to touch, I love to give - and give fully, I love to banter, talk and flirt.

I stay healthy with gym, martial arts and 'woman friendly' keep fit. I'm positive, light-hearted and sensual. Again, I know what this site is, but I can be intensely present, in a good way.

I love laughing, caring about others and I'm pretty confident.

Everything has to be discreet, but real pleasurable for us both. I'm looking to re-connect with myself and in doing so, would love you to be on that journey.

I'm about 5'10", people say I'm taller, so I'd rather underestimate than over. I'm broad-shouldered and in good shape.

I shave my head but my hair is black, groove in my chin, large almond-shaped brown/hazel eyes, full lips, symmetrical face and light-caramel coloured skin. I do get plenty of female attention but have to be careful as I am a professional and don't like to 'play' close to where I frequent.

I'm quite masculine, but have a caring, empathetic edge. Possibly more of a 'you' person than a 'me' person.

I'm an eternal optimist, always half-glass full and looking for the beauty in life.

I'm well-read and deep-thinking. I love good comedy and can be equally at home with mindless banter as well as meaningful debate.

I love using my eyes, hands and lips.

Ideal Partner:

Chemistry, mental/emotional engagement, animal attraction, sexiness, gentle confidence, demure ease, comfortable eye-contact, someone who is present and can forget the world.

Please be caring, considerate and love to touch and be touched.

I love the female form; beauty, attraction is more than the look, so there is no 'ideal', however, if I 'was' to be pushed I am drawn to slim, athletic, petite women - but that is not an exact formula, as I've been 'out of the cycle' by being married a while. In other words, I'm open.

Other Interests:

Arts / Crafts, Astrology / New Age, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Pop / R&B, Literature / History, Boxing / Wrestling, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Gym / Aerobics, Martial Arts, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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