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Sebastian Castellio

47, Oxford

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Married, Athletic body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Regular Drinker

Occupation:  Advert/Media/Entertain
Education:  Graduate/Masters Degree
Eye Colour:  Blue
Hair Colour:  Other
Religion:  Church of England

Looking for Female between the ages of 30 and 59

Star Sign: Capricorn
Last Active: Within 2 Days

About Me:

"...one was oneself because one felt in the air something of the authentic life, however fragile and short-lived"

I do a passable impression of a grown-up, most of the time. I live a good life. I try to make the world better in my own small way. I am kind to dogs and to little old ladies. Children like me.

On the other hand, I procrastinate wildly in between fits of unfettered enthusiasm, read too much, listen to music too much, ride my bike too far and too fast and, usually, don't fall off. I escape to the hills at the first opportunity. I have long searched for the most remote, secluded, undiscovered pub and think I might, perhaps, have found it. I hunt around cities for little alleys with falling-down bookshops and greasy spoons that time (and Environmental Health) forgot.

It's the second me that has signed up for this thoroughly disreputable website. Forget all this "don't rock the boat" stuff: as long as the boat doesn't capsize, we're good. Think partners in crime, think out-of-breath giggling and improper assignations in unsuitable places at inappropriate times. The little old ladies would be scandalised. But we're not asking them, are we?

No apologies: I do not have a "rugby player physique". Rugby sucks. Rugby is basically the Somme with goalposts. You try spending your formative years being mauled on a relentlessly drizzly, muddy field and see how much you like it. Still, I guess I'm rugged enough for modern life - and besides, it's all about hockey, showjumping and the pommel horse these days, isn't it? (I don't do those either.)

Otherwise: slim but not skinny, clean-shaven, smiling and easy on the eye. I am not going to use the IE tickboxes for this as they suggest "short-haired" and that makes me sound like a gerbil. (I am not a gerbil.) Out in Oxford but I do the whole London thing often enough. Better with words than with a camera, to give you advance warning of lamentable photos.

Ideal Partner:

IE's standard-issue adjectives are rubbish. I'm looking for someone who is: Conflicted. Irresponsible. Intoxicated/ing. Unpainted. Unvarnished. Uncompromising. Unrepentant. Bright-eyed, bushy-tailed, bitey. Slipshod. Relentless.

You might have an interesting scar, either physical or psychological. (Come on, it never did Harry Potter any harm.) You might have that slightly wicked deadpan look that can render a man helpless with laughter at 50 paces. You might be an accountant who is secretly working on the Great British Novel, or a Booker-winning novelist who lies awake at night dreaming wistfully of double-entry book-keeping.

Or maybe none of these. Ignore all this and just be awesome, in any way you choose. Surprise me.

(And because people do ask: I really, honestly, genuinely don't mind if you're 55 or 35. Or whatever nationality you or your parents or grandparents might have been. I do mind very much that we can have a riotous evening laughing and joking and spilling things over each other and talking until we're hoarse. In this age of plague and pestilence, let's be the absolute best we can be.)

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Music - Alternative, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Rock, Music - World, Hiking / Camping, Cycling

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Bottle of Cologne Concert Tickets Silk Boxer Shorts A Beach Ball Pint of Lager Silver Cufflinks

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