intrusive phone calls 09 Nov, 2018 (38 comments)

Dear Sara 

I would like to ask what other members would do if during a date,...

Read this letter

Having an IE but still active on the site 08 Nov, 2018 (30 comments)

Hi all i would be really interested to hear from others their views and
thoughts on...

Read this letter

Light hearted embarrassing IE moments 08 Nov, 2018 (13 comments)

As much as I love a good ‘Letter to Sara’ most of them are just so heavy! Could we...

Read this letter

Pet Hates 07 Nov, 2018 (36 comments)

Ladies and Gentlemen

Excluding Virtual Kisses and Gifts what are your pet hates...

Read this letter

Advice needed 06 Nov, 2018 (20 comments)

Dear Sara

Having used IE a few times now and have never been brave enough to write...

Read this letter

IE Etiquette 06 Nov, 2018 (8 comments)

Dear Sara

I keep reading across several letters, that there is an...

Read this letter

Blocked 17 Oct, 2018 (62 comments)

Hi All. I recently introduced myself to a local-ish lady who asked for my PW, which I duly...

Read this letter

To groom or not to groom?. 15 Oct, 2018 (64 comments)

That is my question.

Ok so I like to perform fellatio on a guy but I have a thing...

Read this letter

Birthdays with an IE 18 Sep, 2018 (29 comments)

I would dearly love to know how you all acknowledge or mark the birthday of
a lover. Do...

Read this letter

Fantasy 14 Sep, 2018 (40 comments)

I have met my men just over 2 years on this site and has been absolutely the best 2 years of...

Read this letter

Self-knowledge 14 Sep, 2018 (19 comments)

Dear Sara,
When I joined IE 8 years ago I thought I knew exactly what I wanted having...

Read this letter

Advice needed 01 Aug, 2018 (84 comments)

Dear Sara,
I am wondering whether anyone else is put off replying to a message if the...

Read this letter

Could someone please give me advice ?? 01 Aug, 2018 (53 comments)

I am looking for advice on where you go with an IE lover, I thought it
would be...

Read this letter

Why can't some men handle rejection? 04 May, 2018 (104 comments)

Dear Sara,
I recently had a brief conversation with a guy who I thought had a GSOH. After...

Read this letter

Has our attitude to age differences changed in recent years? 16 Apr, 2018 (91 comments)

I think we all know that generally speaking we are unlikely to attract someone who is...

Read this letter

Should I be worried? 05 Apr, 2018 (43 comments)

Dear Sara

I'm after some advice on how to approach an issue I have with my...

Read this letter

Why did he walk away before we'd even met? 13 Feb, 2018 (78 comments)

Dear Sara,
Why did he walk away before we'd even met?——

I...

Read this letter

New to this 12 Feb, 2018 (29 comments)

Hi Sara,I have never used a dating site before. I was looking for some decent conversation,...

Read this letter

What your lover isn't saying to you 28 Jan, 2018 (68 comments)

For those of us ladies with a bit of class and sass, getting ready for an
encounter is an...

Read this letter

When the wife knows 27 Jan, 2018 (41 comments)

This the second time I’ve been on this site .
I’m a Carer 24/7 for my husband...

Read this letter

Replying to Messages etiquette 26 Jan, 2018 (32 comments)

I have been on here on and off for several years and have met some lovely
women, some have...

Read this letter

Bizarre! 25 Jan, 2018 (30 comments)

Hi Sara
I have just had a bizarre experience I thought I would share with you. It is...

Read this letter

Should I settle? 02 Jan, 2018 (35 comments)

I am wondering whether those of us who are of an older age than most on this site settle for...

Read this letter

Stood Up Again! 28 Oct, 2017 (116 comments)

Once again this evening I have been stood up. When I first joined IE this happened to me several...

Read this letter

Truth or dare? 27 Oct, 2017 (67 comments)

I'm 57 and it's pretty clear that age is a big factor in people's searches, so I will...

Read this letter