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Do you believe men have unrealistic expectations on what a woman should look like beyond the age of 45 in terms of of body when naked?

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Cheekychopps - 20 Feb, 2024 - 08:53PM

I’m a lover of the older women. I never judge or even imagine what her body looks like naked. Part of the thrill for me is actually finding out when things progress to the bedroom. I understand what you are saying, the things is the porn world is full of older women with fake boobs, in the real world I enjoy the person who I’m lucky enough to be with.


1625197 - 26 Sep, 2023 - 06:10PM

Perhaps some do, but I think being overly focused on your partner's physical appearance (naked or otherwise) is a sign of immaturity, so be greatful they are showing you who they are early I guess!

I prefer to worry about looking as good as I can for them, and just be happy they want to spend the time of day with me!


1624162 - 24 Sep, 2023 - 09:32AM

Everyone has their own thoughts on this and that’s why we all choose different people, personally I am not turned on by a muscular ladies it doesn’t float my boat but give me a natural woman with some curves I am happy. Why? Because I want someone to be happy in their own skin as I am slightly flawed so I feel that I would be accepted more readily by someone with bumps too.

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Beccak - 23 Sep, 2023 - 09:24AM

I will admit I do expect a potential affair to be fit and fairly muscular, I am simply not excited by an average body or a thin body.

I would burst out laughing if Malcolm from accounts was trying to be masculine, or Peter the cyclist with all the prowess of an ironing board.

Sorry guys but you got to hit the weights/ pressups, a far better use of your time than sending me message about how kind you are

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Boudicca - 22 Sep, 2023 - 05:52PM

I have found that men are more realistic and accepting of older women’s bodies than women themselves are.

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1623593 - 22 Sep, 2023 - 04:26PM

I don't think men see the way a woman sees herself, so are the assumed expectations coming from the men or the women?


SecretSt - 22 Sep, 2023 - 02:40PM

Fear not ladies, we boys get older too, and with that our perception and appreciation of beautiful women changes accordingly.

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Beckysharp - 22 Sep, 2023 - 07:01AM

A couple of people have told me that the gym reference in my profile could be intimidating and put some guys off messaging me @johnhenry. I considered taking it out when I was looking but I’m so into the gym that I didn’t in the end (maybe I am a self obsessed narcissist!!)

In terms of what I look for, both my current and previous lover are in decent shape but not ‘gym fit’ and no 6 packs. But my type would probably be the same no matter how fit/unfit I am. No idea 🤷‍♀️

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JohnHenry - 21 Sep, 2023 - 11:21PM

…….but supposing you stumble across someone who is in good shape. Do you feel intimidated? Is it a ‘red flag’ sign of self obsession/narcissism ? Conversely, does being overweight suggest hedonism, lazy or something else? And finally - is a body type indicative of a particular personality bias?……My experience suggests (in general) ‘fit’ ladies want ‘fit’ men.


JayJames70 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 08:58PM

I can’t speak for other men but I’m certainly not unrealistic on how the ladies in my age range should be like.

Everyone is different and to be honest I would accept my IE partner for however she is because not one of us (especially not me) are perfect are we?

I think it’s important to accept and respect someone however they are - as long as there is an attraction and chemistry the rest is just part of the overall package.

Maybe it’s just because I like to see the positive in most things and see beauty as not just surface deep 🤷🏼‍♂️😘

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