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When do you know……?

It is so difficult reading between the lines of text messages. Ladies, how do we guys know you are interested, or just being friendly? What vibes should we be looking out for, and what kind of responses strike a balance between being keen back but not disrespectful?

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1617470 - 27 Aug, 2023 - 12:23AM

Eww I've just read the most arrogant profile. Turned me off straight away!

Funguy77 - 12 Aug, 2023 - 08:00PM

Guys and girls I’m a classic over thinker 🤔 💭
What’s your advice to me . I believe my chat is extremely good but recently I’m not getting very far or at least I don’t think I am …

Comment your thoughts x

Parttimebf - 08 Jul, 2023 - 09:44AM

Some people find better alternatives closer to home. But yeah.. be nice if they actually told you that right?

Parttimebf - 08 Jul, 2023 - 09:44AM

For me being Chinese it's pretty easy. Women who can see past media perception of Asian men already decided I'm attractive enough to warrant an open friendly conversation. And it was clear the level of interest at first meeting... the problem was that these were from normal dating sites... I pretty much only tell them.my situation there and then... too late.

Hopefully I'll have some good experience here.

Culture Lover - 22 Jun, 2023 - 09:26AM

Only been on here a short time after leaving a couple of years back. What got me was the number of women who are short and want really tall men! Why? I'm 5'7" so don't see the problem with 5 foot one or 2 women.

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AdorableOne - 21 Jun, 2023 - 11:29PM

Don't overthink it is the short answer.

If a lady goes quiet it can be for a number of things, from running out of wine lol to being busted by her husband. Changing her mind about having an affair, to just being on the site to try and find her husband :p

It can be annoying when you've put a lot of effort in and end up with nothing but you only need to get lucky once! When you do, it just happens naturally.

Don't take things to heart, spin the wheel and try again, Good Luck!

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Jay122 - 21 Jun, 2023 - 08:50PM

I am pretty new on here and this has been tricky for me also. I have been engaged in message exchanges thinking that there are the beginnings of a connection with a lady to then suddenly go quiet without any further contact. I guess it could be that they have met someone else or personal circumstances have changed, but hope it’s not something I said!?! (I did check back over my messages due to paranoia) .

EmnEm123 - 20 Jun, 2023 - 02:55PM



String a proper sentence together, that’s grim!

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1582640 - 09 Jun, 2023 - 04:52PM

I’ve a pretty wife, had a previous pretty wife, had quite a few very attractive girlfriends, and in the rw attract more women than I deserve but cannot act on this as it’s all friends circles.

But on here the sense of entitlement is off the chart, so many average women execrations of top looking guys. I just read one described as cuddly saying ‘oh and you’ve got to be ripped’.

I know guys who play along for some bed fun but they aren’t truly attracted to these women

Beckysharp - 06 Jun, 2023 - 12:38PM


If I was looking for love of my life of course I’d compromise on bald (or stages of)

For a lover. Nope!!

However lots of women love the shaved head look so I’m sure you’ll match eventually. I think a lot of IE is knowing what we offer and therefore what we can reasonably expect in a March?

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