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Hotel Nerves

Have you ever had the experience of an ie having their nerves get the better of them and leave the hotel room before the sexual encounter? How did you react? Did you see them again? Did you speak to the again?

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Funguy77 - 06 Aug, 2023 - 12:54PM


Had a lovely drink see post below I’ll be #gutted if I blew it

I’m on a mission to find the right one but it’s been a long time and I think I’m over thinking and putting to much pressure on myself.

Funguy77 - 06 Aug, 2023 - 12:49PM


Yes lovely lady from here absolutely adore her she’s everything I would look for .Had what I thought was a very nice drink and chat but think I’m a little too forward and confident may have put her off 😩Hope she doesn’t see this and run a mile …

Sandypops - 06 Aug, 2023 - 11:01AM

I suppose no one really knows how they are going to feel if it's their first time.
The only time I've had a man wracked with guilt afterwards was when I had sex with a man who was newly separated and I was his first sex partner since. He actually cried. I really felt for him and just held him. He and his wife ended up getting back together.
I'd just like to add that the sex was awesome but only that one time and in their natural bed 🤦🏻‍♀️ or I'd have thought I'd done a bad job 😂😂 but we can't always help those feelings!

It's weird but I only have excited nerves, and thankfully no one else I've met intimately has seemed nervous since.

Personally, I don't bother with meeting non intimately lots first, but then I'm still finding 'my feet' in all this.
But gosh how I'd like to find a man who wants to 'find my feet' that's such a turn on for me - sorry if that's weirded anyone out 😂

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Beckysharp - 06 Aug, 2023 - 09:30AM

Sounds like a different one to the one you met last week after 3 months but has complications?

Busy guy 😉😂

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Sandypops - 06 Aug, 2023 - 02:33AM


Hope your date went well 💦😉

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Funguy77 - 05 Aug, 2023 - 03:22PM

Wow this conversation is to good to be on the second page lol

Let’s bump this right up I have a couple of stories about a pal of mine and a hole hotel floor bed hopping. I’ll clean t it up and post as I have a IE tonight xx

1612031 - 18 Jul, 2023 - 09:59PM

I always get nervous when paying the bill. That bloody minibar is the devil.

1529050 - 11 Jul, 2023 - 07:17AM

Xpurensimple - 09 Jul, 2023 - 08:01PM

For me the hotel meet is never the first date. I need to meet the person in the flesh a few times before we book the naughty fun date

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1589978 - 09 Jul, 2023 - 08:01PM

Could it a case of "no thanks, I'm doing this person"? Mostly in cases where the first time people meet in person is in a hotel after loads of filtered photos? You see them naked and you're like "nahhh"!.....just a thought. We may be blaming nerves when it's the person in front of us.....just saying

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Parttimebf - 08 Jul, 2023 - 09:20AM

There was one time when I stopped the whole sexual act.... not because it stemmed from guilt.. no.. she was drunk. Glad I stopped it. Cos the next day she asked me if anything happened.

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