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Is age nothing but a number?

Is age nothing but a number? I'm enjoying chatting to some younger men on here, but is actually dating a younger man (or woman!) a good idea?

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Dotty Green - 10 Nov, 2023 - 10:40AM

O here we go - first two threads about the same subject!

NO it is not a good idea - but hey you do what you want to do. Younger men normally have younger families, more commitments, too skittish, too immature...

Go for someone around your own age! Much MUCH better

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jj.julie.jj - 10 Nov, 2023 - 01:42AM

I have a preference for younger lads but it's not the end of the world

marklondonengland - 09 Nov, 2023 - 06:01PM

When I first used this service I set the age preference as 18-99 believing that people would take it at face value when I said on my profile "I'm not worried about age so long as we get along" ... I got so many comments from people saying "you obviously just want anything then..." Eventually I set an age preference because people were so critical of me saying age isn't the deciding factor here...

ExoticOrchid - 09 Nov, 2023 - 05:57PM

M and m - 05:44PM


Mind and matter - 09 Nov, 2023 - 05:44PM

Most crucial things are "just a number".
Can't repay your mortgage? Don't worry and tell your bank that money is just a number!
Your millennial nephew is being fired for always showing up late at work? He'll shrug and say to his boss: "Dude, time is just a number!"
Your husband has gradually turned from leopard to hippopotamus? So what - weight is just a number!

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ExoticOrchid - 29 Oct, 2023 - 08:44AM

achilliesj - 10:23PM

Says you yet you have a set age range on your profile 🤔 so obviously age is *not* just a number!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️

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achilliesj - 28 Oct, 2023 - 10:23PM

Aye, respect others desired ranges but otherwise yes, just a number 👌

Kabaddia - 28 Oct, 2023 - 06:51PM

I'm here to give the ladys gud time age for not matter

Beckysharp - 28 Oct, 2023 - 06:42PM

I agree with that WaterhouseD. Although tbf you’re only looking for younger on your profile 😂. Not even your own age?

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TheLostForester - 28 Oct, 2023 - 06:11PM

Well, it’s a number, that’s a fact, as is the reality that time is only running one way. I’m on the other side of 50 and as much as I enjoy speaking with younger individuals, I would feel a little uncomfortable about that developing into anything else, not because it’s not an appealing delusion that the young might still find you attractive, but because I remember being young and that thought never occurred to me looking in the other direction.

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OneLifeDontWasteIt - 27 Oct, 2023 - 08:52PM

I absolutely agree that people should abide by people’s age range as stated on their profiles. It’s useful and should be adhered to.

And in terms of “how much older”, I would say as old as they both feel comfortable with. Why should they care what other people think.

TheBoredHousewife - 27 Oct, 2023 - 08:46PM

OneLifeDontWasteIt - 27 Oct, 2023 - 07:10PM

How much older are we talking about?

Legs&Eyes - 27 Oct, 2023 - 08:36PM

OneLifeDontWasteIt - 27 Oct, 2023 - 07:10PM

Don't disagree at all... of course as adults all are able to make their own choices..

However, I do take issue with the 26-30 years olds that contact me, despite my age range showing 45+, and tell me in quote a forthright / assertive manner (like I don't perhaps have the cognitive ability to make my own choice in such matters) how they will be the best Ive ever had, and that 'age is just a number' (YAWN!!!).....

That's when I have an issue at the pushiness the 'younger' guys seem to have.

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OneLifeDontWasteIt - 27 Oct, 2023 - 07:10PM

Why should a twenty year old who’s mature, self aware, interesting and interested be excluded especially if they are seeking an experience with an older person?

Adults should be able to go with who they like and as follow their passions and desires once they’ve thought about them and understand them fully.

Connections and chemistry don’t follow rule books and manuals.

Illicit_Alpha - 27 Oct, 2023 - 03:08PM

5 years younger and upper age is limitless for me

boav91 - 27 Oct, 2023 - 07:14AM

So I think it gets to a point where age does not matter as much and it is more about the connection. What that age is depends on the couple. I take the point that it feels a bit weird if they are your kids ages but then it depends also what you are after. There is something about being a similar age to have shared experiences to connect over, if you are looking for connection. My kids don't understand the idea of not being permanently connected to friends and queuing up to make a tel phone call in university halls for example.

The younger ones who have contacted me on here I don't think have really been genuine and I preferred to contact people a decade either side of my own age. If you are out together it looks right. It should not matter but it does. Turn out at 50 though I suddenly became the toyboy ' just, which is a lot of fun in itself

1625618 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 08:13PM

I think love is love and lust is lust.
But if you are old enough to be a parent of said conquest or young enough to be a child of a conquest.
It doesn’t sit right me me.
Fuckin guys the same age as my kids is just weird.

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1631106 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 03:50PM

I much prefer older ladies, just my preference I guess. xx

MichaelKnight2021 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 03:29PM

+ or - 10 years is the limit for me...

Recently joined IE and thanks to this forum...I realised I made a grave error on my profile!!!

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Dotty Green - 26 Oct, 2023 - 02:49PM

It is a no for me - happy with guys around my own age only.

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Beckysharp - 26 Oct, 2023 - 02:40PM

‘She loved the idea that a younger man was turned on by her’

That’s the experience of every woman ever 😂😂

Most women don’t want a significantly younger man but for those who do there are many many options. Lucky things!

marklondonengland - 26 Oct, 2023 - 01:21PM

In the past I met an IE lover from here and she was 21 years older than me. We connected because she had a very interesting profile and many similar interests to me - music, art, photography etc... I said hello and she immediately said that I'm too young for her. I replied and said I'd be happy to chat with no pressure just because it looked like she is an interesting person.

We talked and ended up having an affair for many years. Sometimes we would spend an entire afternoon making love in hotels before she would go home for dinner. She loved the idea that a younger man was turned on by her and that also excited me - but I also just loved that I found someone interesting and exciting. We are no longer lovers as she has a terminal illness so sex is no longer possible, but we are in touch as friends... it can work out!

Just avoid the people who keep talking of age - the ones with an age fetish, looking for a MILF etc... that's not going to work

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Beckysharp - 26 Oct, 2023 - 11:59AM

I disagree Boudicca there is nothing better than seeing a middle aged man looking for 21 and up. It means I can easily rule him out and know we wouldn’t be compatible without even having to read his profile!

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Bobbie100+ - 26 Oct, 2023 - 11:39AM

Depends on what your looking for, and understanding that the attitude and ability of everyone in an age group is not the same.

Boudicca - 26 Oct, 2023 - 11:29AM

Depends on what you’re looking for. This is an affair site not a dating site.
I like to see men with age parameters, there’s nothing worse than seeing a man in his 40’s/50’s/60’s looking for women from the age of 21. Makes me feel very uncomfortable.

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1630140 - 26 Oct, 2023 - 10:42AM

Half your age plus 7.

bobbydenero - 08 Mar, 2023 - 04:07PM

Yes, it is just a number. I know 20 year olds who act like they are 60 and vice versa. It doesn't mean a thing.

TheBoredHousewife - 02 Mar, 2023 - 03:19PM

Beckysharp - 02 Mar, 2023 - 02:01PM

Live photos, video msgs, voice messages etc
And not only done reluctantly when I request them 😊

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TheBoredHousewife - 02 Mar, 2023 - 03:17PM

FluffyClouds - 02 Mar, 2023 - 01:57PM

I just pissed myself laughing imagining that 👜👜

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Beckysharp - 02 Mar, 2023 - 02:01PM

This is why I always request a ‘live’ photo before meeting someone!!!

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FluffyClouds - 02 Mar, 2023 - 01:59PM

James_Nott -

We know that. I'm sure you wouldn't be really 'it' with someone you weren't attracted to face to face, or maybe you're not fussy at all.

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FluffyClouds - 02 Mar, 2023 - 01:57PM

I did have one meet where he kept licking his tongue around his mouth frequently in a suggestive and lecherous way. The fact it was attached to someone who looked 15 years older than his pic really didn't help matters and made me feel 🤢 Got worse when he got up and sat right next to me and tried to move my bag to get closer and which I was hanging onto for dear life.

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James_Nottiingham - 02 Mar, 2023 - 10:54AM

...its dating, not marriage.

Dotty Green - 02 Mar, 2023 - 09:59AM

This is me done..... I now will not be able to look at someone without noticing their tongue .....

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Eliza Boo - 01 Mar, 2023 - 11:04PM

Googling furiously.....

ExoticOrchid - 01 Mar, 2023 - 10:49PM

Speaking of tongues, did anyone see that guy with the longest tongue being interviewed on Breakfast TV???

ExoticOrchid - 01 Mar, 2023 - 10:46PM

I'll be noticing men's tongues now 😱

Redfirefox - 01 Mar, 2023 - 09:50PM

Omg girl! 😂 Ugh slimey slug tongue quivering on his teeth. I want to barf 🤣
My ie guy on our first meet will no doubt be checking me out, my hair , body , face etc to see if I’m his type.
Me : C’mon dude let me check out your tongue. Slime or cracks and I’m outta here…

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TheBoredHousewife - 01 Mar, 2023 - 08:48PM

lanarkshireguy - 01 Mar, 2023 - 07:23PM

Try messaging some to find out!

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ExoticOrchid - 01 Mar, 2023 - 08:35PM

LG - 06:49PM

I read your comment whilst eating ... needless to say I lost my appetite 🤢 ... at least you saved me from gluttony 🤣 ...

(I've met someone similar ... he actually said see I look just like my photos ... he probably did twenty years ago when the photos were taken)

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Beckysharp - 01 Mar, 2023 - 07:32PM


If I was looking I’d be checking out your profile 😉😂

(I’m not atm). Good luck!

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lanarkshireguy - 01 Mar, 2023 - 07:23PM

Would anybody date a 38 yr old scottish professional.

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Eliza Boo - 01 Mar, 2023 - 06:49PM

E.O, Fluffy, Becky - Makes me feel a bit queasy really. And disappointed, and i so want to respect men, but they just make it so God damn hard!

🙈 I am sure alcohol and meds cause age damage. Anyway, as he was listening, or deciding what to say his tongue was resting on his teeth, and it was kind of quivering, trembling with uncertainty. And it looked slimey. And i have a problem with face-slugs anyway. Another elders mouth, his tongue had deep cracks in. I bet he used to be a smoker. Fluffy... i do not want to snog these mouths! I do not want my breasts held by old hands...please don't make me! 🙈 🤣

My long term fling from here is 4 years older than me...I am OK with that. His tongue can do whatever the hell it likes to me 👍😂

I appologise in advance of posting this...

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ExoticOrchid - 01 Mar, 2023 - 05:45PM

FluffyClouds - 01 Mar, 2023 - 05:36PM

Agree ... I have seen profiles where the man's age is late 50s or early 60s and their maximum age limit is as low as 39 ... WTF ... sure, that's what they want but don't complain when they can't get it or as you say, they are taken for a ride [not the kind they are hoping for, haha].

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FluffyClouds - 01 Mar, 2023 - 05:39PM

LG -
Another guy said 53, with an unsteady tongue and watery eyes. His pictures were not recent to the past 8 years at least.

🤣🤣😂 I really laughed out loud at that one. How do you mean 'unsteady tongue'? !!

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FluffyClouds - 01 Mar, 2023 - 05:36PM

EO -

As BeckySharp (I think) put it in an earlier post, I get the 'ick' too when I see men 50 and over putting female age required from 21. Then when they get messed about, no date transpires or find their wallet decidedly lighter if they get that far, they complain. All I can say is 'more fool them'.

It's refreshing when you see a man have reasonable age parameters.

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Paula99 - 01 Mar, 2023 - 04:17PM


Bravo … a woman with common sense as well as brains 👍

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Redfirefox - 01 Mar, 2023 - 01:45PM

When I first joined IE my age range was 30-54.
The young to mid 30’s guys I’ve spoke with seem to be lacking in committing to a proper affair. It’s all talk. Seriously mate find an only fans chick and talk dirty there because men like that bore me to tears.
Now the other age ranges show a maturity, respect and dedication I find highly arousing.
There’s nothing more sexy than a confident man that knows how to communicate properly with a lady and knows what he wants. 🤤🔥

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Eliza Boo - 01 Mar, 2023 - 12:45PM

So many older men on here have great bodies, fit, athletic, run, work-out religiously. Wiry and fit as fleas. But all that straining has an effect on the face and neck - and hands never lie. Even the tongue and teeth show true age (there's a reason women pay £90 a pop for moisturisers and wear factor 25 daily). By all means they should put in their profile that people say they look young for their age and offer their pictures, but tell the truth and leave it up to prospective dates to decide.

I met a guy who professed he was 54. Sure he was slim, spry, had the cool sneakers and glasses...but he was 60 if he was a day. Another guy said 53, life of sport and athleticism behind him - but I could see the age in his skin and hands, he was 57. Another guy said 53, with an unsteady tongue and watery eyes. His pictures were not recent to the past 8 years at least. I think they were surprised that I hadn't lied about my age!

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ExoticOrchid - 01 Mar, 2023 - 12:34PM

Beckysharp - 01 Mar, 2023 - 12:00PM

I see that quite a lot of older men's profiles ... those who complain are usually looking for women much younger than themselves ... go figure!

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Dotty Green - 01 Mar, 2023 - 12:11PM

Warwicks Reality - 28 Feb, 2023 - 08:15PM
Out of interest how old are you (Not checked out your profile so I have no idea)

As a lady in her early 50s (this is not a come on either as I am happily with my IE) when I was looking I think I had my range set from 48 - 60, so far the oldest guy I have seen turned 60 during our affair def did not look his age and had great stamina,

One of the reasons I prefer around my own age is that I know we will have things in common.. just makes more sense....

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Beckysharp - 01 Mar, 2023 - 12:00PM

But does that apply to the women you’re considering too @runner6969? According to your profile you wouldn’t date anyone older than you 🤷‍♀️

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Runner6969 - 01 Mar, 2023 - 10:32AM

I don't like being rejected purely because of my age; particularly as I've lived with the burden of looking significantly younger all my life. so, engage me in conversation, look at my photos and/or meet me - then reject me, if you wish, but not because of a number.

Purple dreamer - 01 Mar, 2023 - 10:24AM

I have nothing against people dating younger people not sure it would be for me a couple of years no prob but not someone young enough to be my son

Girl4treat - 01 Mar, 2023 - 09:31AM

@Lorelai G I agree if a man or woman knocks 5 to 10 years off their age and then put 55 or 60 years and write 'am younger than my years or young in mind' they will disappoint on a first time. Just as a woman or man who knocks 5 sizes off will disappoint face to face.
I don't mind age gaps. it is the obvious vast chasm age gap that sinks... writing 56 will not make anyone 56. A well maintained 65 should be proud of it...

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1581027 - 01 Mar, 2023 - 07:13AM

The age range I'm looking for is +/- 5 years ideally. I want to be able to walk down the street hand in hand without turning heads as I'm general I'm an overly self conscious individual.

If said lady was much older than I, my concern would be (as a person of colour), that passersby may think I was an 'import' brought over by a lonely spinster after meeting at a hotel resort during a foreign sex trip!

Nevertheless I could go higher or lower if a genuine connection was made as that conquers all.

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1568156 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 10:34PM

Ps the sudden surge of interest is a little late 🙄.

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1568156 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 08:15PM

I do think there is some bias here, I have a couple of good friend single females who are in their early 50's. Both would be great IEs if they weren't too close.

However getting somebody on here in their early 50s to take an interest in me is virtually impossible. Ah well ladies on here, your loss due to pre conceived ideas about age.

Lovetoeat69 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 07:12PM

Age is a huge factor, no point seeing someone 25 years older or younger, literally zero similarities other than arm candy. Not the rule but pretty much dead on for all

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Eliza Boo - 28 Feb, 2023 - 04:59PM

Ttam01. The women on here will vouch that most men already do knock 5-10 years off their age! We've all met so many guys who have done this. It's like a woman saying she's size 14-16 and then the guy is disappointed when she's a size 20 on the date. Age like true size can't be hidden on a date. You can trust me on that.There will be lovely ladies either side of your true age, I'm sure.

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Beckysharp - 28 Feb, 2023 - 04:05PM


For some reason men who would date a 21 year old but not someone their own age are always instant Icks for me. Maybe same for women who would consider you in their age brackets 🤷‍♀️

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Dotty Green - 28 Feb, 2023 - 03:34PM

Richie. - 28 Feb, 2023 - 01:38PM

Sounds like fun. I think most affairs can fizzle out due to availability not just due to young children..... 18 months though it sounded like it was a good affair.

Location I think does have its drawbacks, I think being London based makes things slightly easier.

However, I am am not out looking for a younger guy and I stick to my age or a few years either way.

ttam01 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 03:31PM

Regretting being honest about my age (60).As I'm happy to share pics before meeting, i can legitimately claim to be in good nick & pass for 50-55.However, IE ladies that say looking for men in their fifties either 'non replies' or give 'not wanting 60+' as reason to pass on offers to chat with a view to meeting. Personally, happy with dating a woman of a similar age or younger.Other than 'spark', having free time & being reasonably local are more important factors than age for me.If you fancy someone & enjoy their company, age doesn't matter.

1579641 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 01:38PM

I’ve just come out of an 18 month affair from here and she was 40 when we met, although it was great fun and flattering it came with problems, mainly young children and availability, I’m trying not to repeat that but there’s very few women near my age in my area

Jaysplays - 28 Feb, 2023 - 01:27PM

I actually struggle a bit on here, I've had many women in their 40s say I am too young and shouldn't be here.

So being a younger guy isn't all benefits!

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Paula99 - 28 Feb, 2023 - 01:22PM

Not sure I like the idea of a guy in stockings and suspenders but each to their own ….there isn’t much that shocks me …😂

The ‘age is nothing but a number ‘ topic is like pulling teeth …the answer is No No No No and another No for the road 😕

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MatureWorcsBBW - 28 Feb, 2023 - 01:09PM

I love MEN who will dress up in stockings and suspenders for me.

The onus on women "dressing to impress" isn't an ideology I buy into nowadays.

But I love men who dress to impress me obviously

Paula99 - 22 Jan, 2023 - 11:19AM

To get back to the original topic ..yes this does incline to ruffle my feathers with the extra gifts 😖

It does say on my profile please do not send gifts or VKs but it’s like knocking there is no one at home 😕

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This is the way - 22 Jan, 2023 - 10:11AM


Nooooo. I love stockings and suspenders! 🤣

Cheesypuff - 22 Jan, 2023 - 10:07AM

Paula99 - 22 Jan, 2023 - 09:46AM

You have enough of those already? 😁

Paula99 - 22 Jan, 2023 - 09:46AM

New gifts are definitely needed ….there are a few that need scraping like the stockings and suspenders and the feather 🙄🙄🙄

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Cheesypuff - 22 Jan, 2023 - 09:11AM

There's still room on the updated gift list below Doner Kebab and Fleshlight for a couple of new additions.

ExoticOrchid - 22 Jan, 2023 - 09:02AM

Sg743621 - 12:48PM

Clearly ... especially for a shopaholic like me!

However, the choice of gifts to buy is severely limited I'm afraid ... perhaps Cheesy could add this to his list of suggestions?

This is the way - 22 Jan, 2023 - 12:48AM

EO - 10.36pm

Oh to have so many credits to buy such wonderful and thoughtful gifts!

You need to get them spent, clearly!

ExoticOrchid - 22 Jan, 2023 - 12:38AM

P99 - 11:38PM

If only they were actual 💰!

Cheesypuff - 22 Jan, 2023 - 12:20AM

Paula99 - 21 Jan, 2023 - 11:38PM

Yeah they seem pretty much a pointless feature, another site update to add to my list of suggestions 😉

Paula99 - 21 Jan, 2023 - 11:38PM


.. they just get saved in your account and I don’t do anything with them either☹️

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ExoticOrchid - 21 Jan, 2023 - 11:26PM

Cheesy - 11:07PM

You can get them when you log in at certain times ... lunch time and Sunday nights. I don't do much with all these "credits" and they just accumulated.

Cheesypuff - 21 Jan, 2023 - 11:07PM

ExoticOrchid - 21 Jan, 2023 - 10:36PM


Is there a guide anywhere to how you actually get them? I know I get some whenever I subscribe but that can't be the only way?

1395366 - 21 Jan, 2023 - 10:53PM

First time on here what is everyone talking about x

TheBoredHousewife - 21 Jan, 2023 - 10:52PM

Cheesypuff - 21 Jan, 2023 - 09:53PM

I’ll take mine to frolic on deck 365 days. Cheers mate 🥂

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ExoticOrchid - 21 Jan, 2023 - 10:36PM

Cheesy - 09:35PM

How about 1,031,125??? 💰🤑💰🤑

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Cheesypuff - 21 Jan, 2023 - 09:53PM

Talking about numbers shall we play a game of who has the most credits?

I'll start, I've got 269480
I had more until recently but I've been treating all the ladies of East Anglia to Yachts.

Has anyone got more than that?

Dotty Green - 05 Jan, 2023 - 09:18PM

Daved23 - 05 Jan, 2023 - 06:55PM

Slower and creaky …. Cheers 😂😂 as an older lady I’m def not slow or creaky (well can obv be slow when it’s appropriate 😈)

Cheesypuff - 05 Jan, 2023 - 09:15PM

I'm not sure I agree with this presumption that age equals experience. People learn and experience things at different ages and at different rates, a 30 year old could easily have had more sexual experience than a 60 year old. And what does experience mean anyway, you can experience anything and everything but if you don't learn from it then it means naff all.

TheBoredHousewife - 05 Jan, 2023 - 09:05PM

Daved23 - 05 Jan, 2023 - 06:55PM

Are you predominantly looking for an older woman?

Daved23 - 05 Jan, 2023 - 06:55PM

The more mature you are even though you get a bit slower and creaky you still have the experience of life and in the bedroom. Older ladies are more patient and know how to please a guy or another lady.

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Cheesypuff - 02 Jan, 2023 - 09:17PM

FoxyMan - 02 Dec, 2022 - 07:50PM

Keep waving that sword FoxyMan, wave it proudly with all your might. I'm sure a foxy middle aged dusky maiden will impale herself on it before long.

WaitingtobeFound - 23 Dec, 2022 - 01:28PM

Well I am 72 and am attracted to and by younger men but my lower age limit is 50. Below that age most men are looking for oldre as a notch on the bed post.

Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2022 - 06:01PM


….they have read on the internet 😂

Paula99 - 20 Dec, 2022 - 05:58PM

Age brings emotional maturity ..reliability and shed loads of experience…younger guys have non of that …just a ‘matter of fact ‘ statement they h

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theoriginaldave - 20 Dec, 2022 - 03:43PM

Ofcourse it is. I have seen 60 plus people acting like teenagers and vice versa. It is how you feel and which company you keep that drive your being. Me, I am 56 going on 18 and loving it.

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Pleasurepole - 14 Dec, 2022 - 06:58PM

Most people on here have set a specific age range on their personal preferences. Some may be set in stone, others some flexibility. Then I would say a small percentage do think maybe age is just a number. Whatever your view is let’s hope that there is someone out there for each and every one of us.

Nelson826 - 05 Dec, 2022 - 09:42PM

Age is definitely just a number, what really matters is how young the soul is. A connection between 2 people can not just be defined by a number, that spark needs to be there, the passion and desire, without all that what is the point

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FluffyClouds - 04 Dec, 2022 - 09:55AM

Foxyman -

There are some attractive men in their 50s on here. The thing is, you're a Master searching for a sub, so that's niche and more difficult to find on here maybe. Looking for something specific is always going to be more tricky.

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Paula99 - 03 Dec, 2022 - 11:44AM


My last lover was 55 when I met him and he’s still the strongest guy I have ever met… he’s in better shape than most guys half his age .. mentally and physically don’t give up you are not over the hill… 😉

Dotty Green - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:50AM

TheBoredHousewife - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:33AM

Indeedy!! As it does work for some of us

Dotty Green - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:49AM

Beckysharp - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:24AM

Ah I never checked out his profile ….

I can only speak for myself as a woman in her 50s and my personal taste 😂👍🏻

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TheBoredHousewife - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:33AM


So he is! 😉😂
Maybe he just needs to find someone his own age 😉

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Beckysharp - 03 Dec, 2022 - 09:24AM

Ah but @foxyman is looking for a woman in her 30s or 40s DG 😉

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Dotty Green - 03 Dec, 2022 - 07:23AM

FoxyMan - 02 Dec, 2022 - 07:50PM

Think I’ll have to disagree with you … my current lover is 56 - very attractive (no Daddy issues here either !) - I fancy the pants off of him and we’re enjoying some fantastic sex - both completely sexually attracted to each other.

My IE before him was 58 .. I wasn’t sure whether to meet him initially, I did, again huge sexual attraction.

I’m sorry you feel at 53 you’re past it - I’m 53 and definitely not past it nor are the guys I have met on here. I tend to look and find attractive men my own age - few years either side.

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FoxyMan - 02 Dec, 2022 - 07:50PM

I think I am coming to my last rodeo, I think once you hit 53 women do not see you as a sexual character, in less they have Daddy Issues, and that is another problem, there is something to be said for putting away your sword, its old, and it does not look good to fight a losing battle,

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Conradd - 02 Dec, 2022 - 07:11PM


Depends on the woman and if there’s theatre and setting the stage and if we feel entangled

Conradd - 02 Dec, 2022 - 07:05PM


For me sex is more about 2 writhing minds exploring the outer limits as opposed to how one strokes a clit

chdesign1208 - 02 Dec, 2022 - 04:17PM

I feel that age is just a number. Many women feel the same and find that dating older men is much better than younger men. Younger men do not seem to get things right so I am told

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1563427 - 01 Dec, 2022 - 09:21PM

I think it's what's inside a person that makes who we are.

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1563427 - 01 Dec, 2022 - 09:17PM

I maybe shooting myself in the foot, but as I'm nearing to becoming a full-blown pensioner on the 12th, I certainly do not act my age. More 45 than 66! Life is too short.

TheBoredHousewife - 01 Dec, 2022 - 08:16AM


Brilliant 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

Littlebird361 - 30 Nov, 2022 - 11:37PM

Man goes to his doctor and says I need some help, my wife and I are having difficulties with our sex life. Doctor says, from your records you appear to be 93. Man says that's right. Doctor says, may I ask how old your wife is. Man says she's 89. Doctors says, when did you first notice these difficulties. Man says, twice last night and then again, this morning.

Can you beat that Conradd?

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Happygolucky666 - 30 Nov, 2022 - 10:45PM

For me it is and i have no limitation as long as you can make me feel good and you can ride my vibes

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1533992 - 30 Nov, 2022 - 09:58PM

Stamina ?

Given that the clitoris is said to have in the region of 10000 nerve ending i think a little finesse is more important. Tipping the velvet

TheBoredHousewife - 30 Nov, 2022 - 07:48PM

Conradd - 30 Nov, 2022 - 05:31PM

I’d expect no less from you, with your manly athleticism 😉

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Conradd - 30 Nov, 2022 - 05:31PM


Jelly legs and squelchy bottom (sounds like a country solicitors practice ) would be how I’d leave her

I’m so romantic

Champagne Gem - 30 Nov, 2022 - 02:58PM

I’d have to think not. Though there are definitely anomalies and worthwhile exception.

maxdomme - 30 Nov, 2022 - 06:59AM

for a fact, age is a number. What matters is the heart and attitude.

TheBoredHousewife - 30 Nov, 2022 - 06:41AM


2 hours is the bare minimum I would do, if it was a purely pound session. But we know that the physical act is a lot more than just hip action 😉

So stamina for me these days would be a max out of the Dayuse, and limited only to the time constraints put upon us by the hotel. We go in fresh and come out with jelly legs, utterly exhausted 😃 Time is never enough when we’re having fun!

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mipaulac - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:57PM

It sounds like you need a younger man who has over done it on the billy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

1560046 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:55PM

Why not? As long as you realise it will only probably be a short fling then go for it. When I was in my teens and twenties I would have loved to have an older, experienced woman take me in hand (pun intended) and show me how to please her. I think the Mrs Robinson fantasy is pretty much at the top of every young man's wish list and if you can fulfill that fantasy for some lucky guy then do it.

Conradd - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:45PM


Stamina I keep seeing mentioned by you lovely gals. What do you mean by stamina?

I can only gauge by myself, I like about a 2 hour session, followed by more the same night if she’s hot. Is this stamina or do u mean a guy who pounds away like a steam hammer?

max309 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:09PM

I have an affair with great success, with a women who is 17 years older then me, it was great!!.

1563655 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 08:49PM

age does matter…as much as i wish it didn’t!

i’m 49 years old but look much younger which is lucky you’d think, but i really don’t think so as i get attention from men under 30 and over 55 neither of which i’m attracted to or have anything in common with :(

The younger men i’ve had contact with do not have the wisdom or confidence that i’m looking for and thr older men are old before their time and never want to do anything and lack stamina ;)

i’m keeping faith and still hoping to meet someone i connect with (regardless of age) but i can’t help letting previous experiences affect my judgment.

attraction is such a complicated thing

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1516746 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 08:08PM

As I’m contemplating an affair I mentally surmise my likes : intelligent,good conversationalist,interesting,charming,in shape ,handsome to me , fun and adventurous in bed …everything I bring to the table myself…
Unfortunately not one man over 45 has managed to bring that too ..
I’m about to give up ..😞

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1547430 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 03:58PM

Many young people have a mature outlook and conversely there are older folk who are either deliberately or unconsciously shooting from the hip like a teenager would. From that perspective age is most definitely only a number!!

gezzer07 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 02:56PM

Age is definatly just a number .Peoples lifestyles differ im fitter now and got more stamina than fifteen years ago

Breakfastinbed - 29 Nov, 2022 - 12:08PM

I'm getting older now so it appears my appeal to women is getting less on here. A lot of us are getting older and it can be hard to accept. I am still me though, maybe a bit more experienced and hopefully wiser. I keep myself in pretty good shape and there are a lot of younger guys who don't. Surely the person matters!

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1552141 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:33AM

I’m 60 and there’s very few women’s age ranges that include me, after I’ve said hello to all 4 of them in my area then what? I find myself messaging younger women which must be annoying for them, I’m not really looking for someone under 50 but it’s not easy, I’ve had 2 affairs with 40 year olds from here but young children get in the way unfortunately

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OakAshThorn - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:29AM

I think it's all about connection. I can be in a room full of people 30 years younger, and there will often be ONE younger woman with whom I will lock eyes.. and who looks back with what is basically "recognition"... Quite embarrassing if it's one of your daughter's close friends, of course.

Also noticed of course though that on my return to IE after a 10-year break, the number of profile views has gone WAY down. I think that's to be expected.. fast profiling goes "not him, he's over 55"..

Aphrodites_Lover - 29 Nov, 2022 - 11:01AM

Maturity comes into this rather than age I think. I'm not sure I would date women under 40 as I don't think they are mature enough to handle the challenges and stresses of having an affair.

Would like to be proved wrong and I do kind of invalidate my own argument as I had my first affair in my late 30s :s I guess its down to the individual but lets be honest there are a lot of mental gymnastics that you need to get your head around. If you are looking beyond a one night stand, you will have emotions for them, be crushed if a date you've put a lot of energy into, been looking forward to has to be cancelled and if the relationship has to end for whatever reason, the last thing you want is somebody rocking up to your doorstep!

Then on the flipside I want a lover, not a mother and find some women can act like you are one of their sons which isn't cute or erotic in any way!

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Smartypants65 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 09:57AM

Jessica, you had me at ‘sexy’

TheBoredHousewife - 29 Nov, 2022 - 09:57AM

Christian0 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 09:34AM

It’s not harsh at all. It’s what you find attractive. I have tried to challenge myself with older men too, and psychologically it is a hurdle I have yet to overcome.

Hopefully there is a woman on here that is looking for a man like you. Good luck!

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1566133 - 29 Nov, 2022 - 09:34AM

Hard to admit but even though I’m 49 I find it psychologically hard to get my head around being with someone who is 60plus and that’s only 11 years older.

Am I being too harsh or are we allowed an upper limit close to our own?


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JessicaRampantRabbit - 29 Nov, 2022 - 09:02AM

It works the other way too…I love sexy older guys x

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Lwtbf - 23 Nov, 2022 - 01:12AM

Age doesn’t matter though I find the okder the better cerebrally Just more laid back comfortable assured that makes chat easier. Probably also heard it all before. .

1558713 - 26 Oct, 2022 - 05:34PM

Age is just a number. Life is too sort. If there’s a physical attraction and / or mental connection then go for it. We are all here for fun and excitement. Can’t comment for the men but a lot of the ladies on here look a lot younger than their stated ages

Paula99 - 16 Oct, 2022 - 06:49AM


I am in 🤣

Ex O...

Your so grounded ....love it..😊

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Eliza Boo - 15 Oct, 2022 - 11:25PM

Paula 99 - I'm going to form a cult of sexy mature women. You have to join...it is imperative...

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ExoticOrchid - 15 Oct, 2022 - 05:31PM

I've said this hundreds of comments down the line ... in general, up to say about 50 years of age, you can go up, or down, say 10 or 15 years easily for both men and women.

However, when you get to your 60s, going down 15 years is fine BUT not up!

For example ... I'm 65 ... I can go up to 15 years younger BUT definitely not 15 years older ... if nothing else, there's the medical aspect ... yes, there's Viagra but there's also the danger of heart failure for a start! It might be great for the guy to snuff it mid- sex but do I want to be left with a dead IE and trying to explain to the hotel, paramedics and the POLICE??? Hell NO!!! 😱

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1483842 - 15 Oct, 2022 - 04:59PM

Not for me personally. Only a man who is emotionally mature can take on a woman and all it's personal growth and glory, like me.

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Paula99 - 15 Oct, 2022 - 02:24PM


I still prefer the guy to take the lead in the bedroom but I can easily swap ...but it does depend on how much chemistry there is....how much you can copy each other and use it to your advantage...put charisma and style into the equation and you get 'great sex'...

The issue I have with younger guys/women the sex is boring and vanilla because let's face it...its all that they know...age brings experience and baggage which makes generally better sex

I will add you do need some physical attraction without that it's a non starter..

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stoicix - 15 Oct, 2022 - 01:41PM

That's fair @Beckysharp. If I were you I will do the same.

I got carried away a bit explaining the stats! Shame on me.

Hope everyone's doing well. Bright autumn day, in London at least.

Good luck to your naughty adventures :)

Beckysharp - 14 Oct, 2022 - 10:41AM


Cis gender female- I assume you mean women?! Anyone describing me in such an odd way would be a definite no!

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stoicix - 14 Oct, 2022 - 10:21AM

There’s been a history of focus on man’s pleasure. Even biologically only the man needs be “pleasured” to keep the race going.

But we are conscious people now, and armed with the knowledge of how to game the system. Let’s keep each other equally happy folks 😀

Eliza Boo - 14 Oct, 2022 - 09:20AM


If sex had tribes I recon you and I graduate from the same tribe!!! Xx

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stoicix - 14 Oct, 2022 - 07:29AM

This is officially now the most active flirt forum, congrats folks!

Funny that the topic is about age but this forum has the vibe of teenagers who have skipped class, without teacher's permission, and discussing the new found intriguing world of sex in an abandoned farm near school. Bravo ragazze e raggazi :)

Dotty Green - you said it! Now handle the raining men in your profile backyard.

Bored Housewife - handholded in 20s, happy :)

hmm, loved the subtle reference to ropes. I am a Shibari learner. I get where you are coming from. You may be submissive, like majority of hetero cis gender female. Some are not. But even in the traditional "man takes the lead in the bedroom" scenario there's room and merit for a little bit of guidance. Every lady I met have their preferred zones and touch, movement and pressure for them. Heck, the so called g/c/a spots are in different places. So men cannot use past experiences. And surprise surprise (not really) everyone have their unique style for that ultimate org

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Oct, 2022 - 11:31PM

PS54 - 10:39PM

Don't know about the cheeky grin but you can definitely share "banter" here on the Forum. 😉

topcat2 - 13 Oct, 2022 - 11:25PM

No when you get to a certain age the girls do not look at you like wise women in there seventies and Eighties and beyond cannot be considered attractive not by me anyway

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Oct, 2022 - 11:05PM

In this context, I assume "mature" as a polite term for "old" as in age.

Therefore I'm definitely "mature" as in old ... though also mature as a person! 🙂

PerthScot54 - 13 Oct, 2022 - 10:39PM

Lol I hope it is but fronting up about my age on here doesn’t seem to be doing me any good I’m 60 going on 25 well ok a bit of an exaggeration but when I’m out and about women flirt with me - guess it’s not possible to have a cheeky grin and share banter here .. my writing skills clearly don’t match my smile

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TheBoredHousewife - 13 Oct, 2022 - 10:17PM

stoicix - 13 Oct, 2022 - 08:19PM

Not sure if I’m ‘mature’, but I’m definitely not a prude 😊
And I’m not here to teach or guide a man. Experiment and explore with, yes. But no hand holding as he navigates the ropes - no pun intended.

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Dotty Green - 13 Oct, 2022 - 10:04PM

stoicix - 13 Oct, 2022 - 08:19PM

I’m definitely mature 😉

stoicix - 13 Oct, 2022 - 08:19PM

I didn't associate maturity with age. I meant one who had a lot of experiences, experimentations, knows what they like and don't like, happy to communicate and even guide their partner to their pleasure, knows what the range of things that the partner may like, willing to try them, willing to ask ,suggest, and experiment, explore together.

Having said that in my case it's 100% comes with age. Won't say a young girl in 20s or even early 30s will exhibit the above. If I had to put a number 45+, more or less, knowing full well some will have life experiences to have this maturity earlier, some will have this later.

Who here would consider themselves mature? :)

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Dotty Green - 13 Oct, 2022 - 08:57AM

stoicix - 13 Oct, 2022 - 06:48AM

I haven't checked out your profile so not sure what age you are - but I am always intrigued as at what age do us lovely ladies become mature ??? Is it over 40? over 50? over 60? genuinely interested to what you chaps consider to be mature.

stoicix - 13 Oct, 2022 - 06:48AM

Everyone's experience will colour their opinion on this.

As a man, most of my relationships/affairs have been between -7 to +3, with some outlier at -19 (recent) and +23 (when I was 23). Irrespective of their societal standing, some will come across as mature beyond their age, some not so. However both may be ok depending on what you are looking for. Assuming same with men, ladies?

However, when it comes to sex, boy o boy, hands down mature ladies just rule here! They are Olympians in bed :) And my experiences with them made me having to learn and practice sexual health, female pleasure systems (hate that word, but whatever) and various intimate disciplines. My evolution as a lover is certainly thanks to them. Grateful to you, if you are reading, mature ladies :)

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1342610 - 12 Oct, 2022 - 02:13PM

Would love to meet an older woman it’s just finding one near me

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TheBoredHousewife - 11 Oct, 2022 - 06:33AM

naughtynathan96 - 10 Oct, 2022 - 11:55PM

Oh, what a shame. I’m already jockey at my local donkey derby. Paired with a fine ass that rides long 😉

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naughtynathan96 - 10 Oct, 2022 - 11:55PM


They have been so far, always looking for the next one if your interested;-)

Chezley - 10 Oct, 2022 - 07:43PM


Classical guitar. A year on and the women are showing interest.

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mipaulac - 10 Oct, 2022 - 07:19PM

Very naughty....... sounds like you run training courses and know a few tricks lol

1553124 - 10 Oct, 2022 - 02:57PM

32 ready for IE. Please DM

TheBoredHousewife - 10 Oct, 2022 - 01:55PM

naughtynathan96 - 10 Oct, 2022 - 11:41AM

Ride of your life as well 😉

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naughtynathan96 - 10 Oct, 2022 - 11:41AM

Just that, I have seen 20 somethings act like they are 60 and vice versa. I love an older woman, just the confidence level gets me going and if you manage to get one into bed then your stamina better be up to the job at hand.

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ExoticOrchid - 09 Oct, 2022 - 11:17AM

EE123 - 05:38PM

My thoughts exactly!
I suppose fantasies are difficult to answer? 🤔😉

EmnEm123 - 08 Oct, 2022 - 05:38PM


Once again, I ask ..

What happened to your 10/10, that you were scared of falling for, as you have such a beautiful wife, with a wonderful sex life?

You never answered.

I'll keep asking.

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Oct, 2022 - 02:12PM

Conradd - 11:06AM

I used to take Salsa classes years ago and we were always, always short (no pun intended!) of men to partner with ... so try dance classes ... win win for everyone! 🕺💃

Conradd - 08 Oct, 2022 - 11:06AM


Talking of ways to meet women, I stumbled upon the fact the majority of vegans are female, and apparently they aren’t in general exposed to masculine red blooded men much…

Vegan club?

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Paula99 - 08 Oct, 2022 - 07:08AM


What course are you doing ?


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RuralGoddess - 06 Oct, 2022 - 03:18PM

Yes, it is a number. I'm in the camp of 'leggysheila' and there have been time that my panties do come off for our young friends.

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Chezley - 06 Oct, 2022 - 10:15AM

Chezley is in a quandary. A year on doing college classes I'm now faced with targeted interest. Honest I never touched 'em. But I've somehow grown on them and they are on my case ever so slightly. I need to learn Russian And better Chinese. Thankfully in two different colleges.

So fellas it might not happen immediately, but its one of a few good ways to meet younger women. Try it.

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Red Succubus - 06 Oct, 2022 - 06:33AM

You would have thought the younger generation would be more likely be the flakey ones….but in my opinion the older ones can do it just the same. I think it might be a man thing a lot on here fall in love with the idea of an affair but when it comes down to it they just can’t so go all flakey or ghost. I think the younger ones do it less, however dating a young man is not for me. Been there, done that, won’t be doing it again. I think it gives some a bit of an ego boost 😕

Luscious Lu - 05 Oct, 2022 - 11:29PM

New to all this and amazed at how many men a lot younger than I show interest in me..... stay interested and want me!! Gobsmacked tbh...also amazeballs! Bring it on!

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elbowrock - 05 Oct, 2022 - 11:21PM

Age has little bearing although, with that said, the average taste in music between the generations tends to stop me going younger!

leggysheila - 05 Oct, 2022 - 11:01PM

I'm the wrong 👎 side of 65 so I tend to look at men my age or older. Mind you I would take my panties off for a 18 year old XXX

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1549873 - 05 Oct, 2022 - 07:26PM

Is there a particular age group that is less likely to flake or ghost at the last minute after having settled on a time and place to meet for the first time 😂🙄 if so please let me know. Age matters nought to me really although I wouldn't want to go older than +20 years

Let'sjusthavefun - 05 Oct, 2022 - 03:55PM

That all depends on the maturity of the individual.. so age wouldn't affect my decision.

Countess J - 05 Oct, 2022 - 03:34PM

In all honesty I find I have nothing in common with anyone under the age of 35. I prefer my men with lots of snow on top, a uni degree, a well used passport and ones who use words like besotted, smitten and cherish!!

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1551981 - 05 Oct, 2022 - 03:23PM

Not sure its either a bad or good idea. When I was younger, I dated a woman 20 years older and it was...AMAZING. And I've recently had an affair with a woman (okay, at work) who was 20 years younger than me. Also AMAZING!

Eliza Boo - 05 Oct, 2022 - 03:19PM

(Tumbleweed blows past...)

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Dotty Green - 05 Oct, 2022 - 03:05PM

sexyconormac - 05 Oct, 2022 - 02:30PM

Whatever the opinon, I have arrived ladies

Yes yes we have all been waiting with baited breath for you to arrive .........

sexyconormac - 05 Oct, 2022 - 02:30PM

Whatever the opinon, I have arrived ladies

HQlove1808 - 05 Oct, 2022 - 02:29PM

I am 32 and I don’t see age as a problem.
It’s all about connection for me..

I’d we connect then why should my age or their age be a problem??

1540216 - 05 Oct, 2022 - 11:45AM

As an older male (75) age is definitely a barrier to be seen as being attractive, regardless of description of physical and mental attributes. Why do I get messages then from a lady who's desired are range is 35 to 55, and lives over 60 miles away?

1551707 - 02 Oct, 2022 - 07:29PM

A cliche yet true, I find the reverse is true in that English younger women seem to feel an older guy cannot satisfy there needs and desires?

1551011 - 30 Sep, 2022 - 02:45PM


Why do you have women below 55 in your age preference then?

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DAVYBB - 30 Sep, 2022 - 02:22PM

Older women can be as horny as any thirty year old rather be with an over 55 any day

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ExoticOrchid - 29 Sep, 2022 - 09:39PM

S69 - 03:00PM

Surely they are also attracted to your modesty? 😉

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Scoundrel69 - 29 Sep, 2022 - 03:00PM

Age depends on the individual and how one has aged. I have an athletic body and maintained it through a combination of sports, exercise and heathy living. My relationships over the last 20 years have been with ladies 15 to 30 years younger. They find me attractive thanks to my intelligence, charisma, attentiveness, maturity, free spirit and my physical prowess. I am also adventurous and daring and believe in living life to the full. I do not consider my age to be a disadvantage but the opposite. That said, some women in their 40s and 50s seek a younger man because they think he will give them the most sexual satisfaction.

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Conradd - 25 Sep, 2022 - 01:20PM

Dotty has been clear she’s not looking for anyone since meeting her IE man.

It perplexes me how anyone fails to understand such a straightforward position.

Back to age; I’m definitely a deeper lover than I was when younger when I thought locating the clit was a master stroke

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harryw - 25 Sep, 2022 - 12:15PM

I'm an older man and I prefer to date women in my own age group I often get messages from much younger women and I don't usually reply to them as I don't take them seriously.

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freshair200 - 25 Sep, 2022 - 11:40AM

Age is certainly more than a number if we let it be.
For me, and I suspect most older people, although we're older in body our minds are just as they were many years ago - happy, friendly, flirtatious and everything that goes with that.
In my youth I dated older women and similarly have dated younger women.
As they say, if the hat fits, wear it :)

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Mistee - 24 Sep, 2022 - 12:27AM

Oh I like a younger man! Nothing wrong in that.

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Hello42 - 22 Sep, 2022 - 09:36PM

I’ve been with older men in the past, it’s worked better than similar and younger for sure

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Chezley - 22 Sep, 2022 - 11:10AM


And now you NEED to be right.
Shame, insult and guilt.

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Dotty Green - 22 Sep, 2022 - 09:27AM

Chezley - 22 Sep, 2022 - 04:48AM

Erm I am NOT whinging, you went and read my profile, you made an assumption.... I just pointed out you were being a silly sausage and were wrong - I know I know terrible to have a women point out to you, a man, that you made an error. If you had read my posts properly you would not have made this assumption.

Been nice engaging with you but I will now stop - you will be talking to yourself if you mention my name any more - life it far too short to be bothered about a silly billy troll like yourself.

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Chezley - 22 Sep, 2022 - 04:48AM

Dotty and Fluffy

You can both stop whinging.

You are on the same flight as the rest of us bombers, and you are over the target.

You are going to get shot at.

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FluffyClouds - 21 Sep, 2022 - 02:54PM

Chezley -

If members are clear in their profile that they're not looking at the moment and aren't showing as online, then there's no problem.

I am suspicious of the ones who aren't showing as online and their profiles imply they are still searching. I always think they're the ones who can't be trusted tbh. I mean, why would you set to not show yourself online unless you were hiding your movements on here from someone?

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Dotty Green - 21 Sep, 2022 - 11:13AM

Chezley - 21 Sep, 2022 - 05:06AM

I have NOT said I am still looking on here - I have said multiple times I have met my IE and I am enjoying the banter on the forum. I changed my profile and I do not show as on line. I have met my chap and as far as I was aware there was no law against to carry on and enjoy the fun of the forum. If I get messages I politely say I am seeing someone.

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Chezley - 21 Sep, 2022 - 05:06AM


So are you looking or not?
The profile says no. Here you say yes?

1547168 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 08:25PM

Imo, when both people are past their twenties, and there is atttaction. Then age is just a number. But it also depends on the individuals

Lbgood11 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 05:06PM

My current IE is older than me by about 20 years and in all honesty I prefer it. He more experienced, relaxed, there’s in theory no danger about “falling” for one another as we’re at completely different stages in our lives.

Best decision I made on here by far. Any people nearer my age I met either had young family commitments or to be blunt had completely unrealistic expectations or dare I say arrogance. Also definite lack of experience and still in the selfish lover mode.

Go with who you click with, age is definitely a number and not a bad one

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topcat2 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 02:30PM

Well it depends where you are in life and how you get on with the person,.

laugar164 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 02:28PM

For me I like to meet a lady around the same age as me give or take a few years. I always wonder what's the motive for a really young lady making contact with an older gentleman I've heard of horror stories in the past

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Dotty Green - 20 Sep, 2022 - 11:27AM

secretflirt68 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 09:26AM

I just do not feel comfortable engaging with a much younger guy - I just feel as has been put before - you are entertainment or a bet ....

I do tend to stick around my own age give or take a few years either way, just seems to work as we both tend to be looking for the same sort of thing. Now don't get me wrong an afternoon of mad passionate sex with a young good looking does sound very appealing...... but it's not what I am looking for right now.

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secretflirt68 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 09:26AM

Like many people on here, I think it works in ranges. I'm very suspicious if I see a profile of a lady that's in their 20s, looking for someone up to 90! It's either a fake, a hooker, or such a terminal lack of attention to detail that I'd be completely bored and uninterested in them. I've had some great sparky conversation with someone claiming late 30s, but as I'm in my 50s, I would be expecting that anyone under 35 would probably be a bit distant. In terms of ladies older than me, it's somewhat of an unknown - a lot depends on outlook. If the fire is still burning, then I don't see any issue.

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Paula99 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 08:46AM


Considering you have a head/ego the size of Birkenhead..how does that work?

Your hypocrisy never fails to amaze me...in one of your ridiculous statements you said you would still want a 10/10 if you were old and fat( similar wording )....you expect perfection but your not prepared to get your own house in order....🙄

For the record...there is no reference to others ...this comes from Mr brainbox himself..😊

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1542317 - 20 Sep, 2022 - 06:23AM

Porky 99

I don’t want to be mature

Do you want to be slim? Or is it a case that you can’t?

Paula99 - 19 Sep, 2022 - 11:23PM


You are immature and it's not a case of whether you want to be...

You can't...its impossible 🙄

FireGarden - 19 Sep, 2022 - 11:15PM

Well, for some people the stars align themselves and you meet someone regardless of age, and everything feels right, and it all falls into place ...

On the other hand, most of the time in practice the folks in Steely Dan ("Hey 19") had a point or two!

Conversation and rapport is certainly made easier when the two of us have can relate to certain events and have a similar outlook on things. You know what I mean, like remembering the magical hope of those "Choose Life" t-shirts on the Friday night and Monday morning it was the reality of "Free Mandela". Like remembering where you were when Marvin Gaye was shot. And I can go on but you know what I mean ...

Then again, it has been said that all is fair in love and war, so just toss out what I have said and let the universe work its magic without us being too prescriptive :)

1542317 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 07:59PM


Who said I want to be mature ?

Paula99 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 07:48PM


That shows how mature you are🤫

1542317 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 06:27PM

Aga only becomes a problem if you are looking for a relationship

If it’s just no strings fun then it’s irrelevant as long as it’s legal obviously

I’d be just as happy banging an 18 year old as I would 60 year old if they are hot, it’s all I care about

SuzieC - 18 Sep, 2022 - 11:21AM

Age in itself is just a number, it's the maturity that counts for more. I actually find I am drawn to older or much younger men.

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1544829 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 10:58AM

I think older men (about 60 😇) are the best age & experience that you women are in need of 😜

haresh - 18 Sep, 2022 - 09:44AM

Age is nothing but a number on the internet. However when you meet someone then it's real.

I am 57, not interested in women under 44/5
sure you may be able to chat with them and all the chemistry may seem right, but physically you the age you are.
I'm pretty fit, probably more fit than most 20 yr olds, but I don't kid myself about my age.
And also what is the point of lying about it.

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1531984 - 18 Sep, 2022 - 09:12AM

Age is not just a number.

Sun_Beach&S.... - 17 Sep, 2022 - 10:15PM

You telling me a 20+ year old girl os attracted to 60+ year old man 🤣 yeah this ain't fairytale lol

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Somniata - 17 Sep, 2022 - 09:27PM

I think it depends on the age gap. If the gap is too wide, it can make for awkward conversations when you refer to things like music or events that took place in the past. In fact if you are from different generations attitudes on certain things may jar, no matter how open minded you may be - just my opinion. Anyway, I don't mind slightly younger men, my husband is a few years younger but acts like he's already clapped out!!

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1395366 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 08:12PM

Hi I’m new on here x

1486394 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 07:22PM

It's a Great idea if the Chemistry is right .....

Paula99 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 06:37PM

Age isn't just a number when it concerns IE relationships..

If you look at the success of these in terms of older man/younger woman...and older woman/ younger man..

Older man/younger woman...this is the one that works the best ...in terms of age let's say the man is 45...his maturity age is about 38...and secondly let's say the woman is 30..her maturity age is about 37...so in reality they are on the same page ...add wives/husband's and more important ...kids into the equation.. doable..

The older woman/younger guy this is much more apparent...the woman she is 55...makes her maturity 62....the younger guy he's 38...his maturity age is 32....add partner kids...totally different dynamic...doable but limited

I am just guessing the maturity ages based on my experience..😁

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1548526 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 04:59PM

Absolutely, I’m 74 and still got a lot to offer a lady.

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Teddy2983 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 03:14PM

I don’t think it matters if you’re attracted to each other x

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RosePetal0007 - 17 Sep, 2022 - 12:29PM

If you don’t look or feel your age I think it’s great as long as both are attracted to each other…

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Rafterman - 17 Sep, 2022 - 10:33AM

Age matters not.

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Where'smySpark - 27 Apr, 2022 - 06:56PM

Age is but a nimber. I met a lovely lady who is 13 years my senior. Didn't think it would work but she is amazing, sexy, kind, respectful and caring and has been my IE for well over a year now.

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HampshireMale2021 - 05 Apr, 2022 - 08:13PM

Some teenagers act like pensioners and some pensioners act like teenagers and everything in between, neither is wrong, just down to personality.

Regarding attraction, I find it impossible to define, age, race, size, hair colour, class don't matter to me but you know it when you see it.

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1514809 - 01 Apr, 2022 - 11:33PM

Hi! For me age isn’t an issue either younger or older, if there is a spark or connection then that’s what matters. The only risk with somebody much younger is maybe that they might not be as wise or discreet as you might like from someone you meet here! But that’s a huge assumption..

leggysheila - 01 Apr, 2022 - 11:25PM

I'm 66 years young and I'VE been touched up by guys in their twenties I don't mind 😊 XXX

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1469532 - 01 Apr, 2022 - 12:13AM

I’m really 27 (small) I just put 57 (LARGE) Because someone said size matters!!!!!

FluffyClouds - 20 Mar, 2022 - 05:34PM


Never once have Benny or Minty flitted into my fantasies or dreams. Had an excellent dream of George once, it involved a camera helmet on my head after a works role playing session, but that's another story.

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Mad World - 20 Mar, 2022 - 03:24PM

Never mind Clooney & co, what about Benny from Crossroads or Minty from Albert Sq ?
Why can’t we use those upstanding pillars as benchmarks ?

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Paula99 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 03:08PM

George Clooney isn't just about his age ..yes he's a great looking guy.. confident.. warm..doesn't take himself too seriously...and naturally charming. It's all about the persona he projects.....its in built.
Its the same for Jennifer Lopez in my mind the most beautiful woman and with personality to match ..naturally sexy....with or without cash.

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1117169 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 01:30PM


"Old" in your 40s! Come off it!

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ExoticOrchid - 20 Mar, 2022 - 01:22PM

Moretry - 09:40AM

Hear, Hear ... absolutely! 👏

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Doricles - 20 Mar, 2022 - 09:43AM


True ... and apparently if Cher has one more facelift she’ll end up with a beard 😂

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1509010 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 09:40AM

Age isn't just but a number, that's what people say to make themselves feel better about being old! I'm in my 40s very different ball game from someone in their 20s. Whereas I don't need lube for example, a woman of a certain age may not be able to function without lube. A man of a certain age may need help from the blue pills whereas a man in their 30s may go for ages without any help. And we say age is just a number? Of course it's not just a number. I embrace being old (funny people think I'm in my early 30s) knees are starting to hurt but that's age. I love it that I've made it this far, I'm old and proud

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1483184 - 20 Mar, 2022 - 09:01AM

Brad George and all the stars have limitless cash to throw at looking good , it’s a part of their job .

Doricles - 20 Mar, 2022 - 08:48AM


I’m sure Brad and George will both look good at any age.


Doricles - 20 Mar, 2022 - 06:53AM


I think if you’re fortunate to look like either Brad or George you’ll look good at any age.

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Peaches1 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 11:39PM

I'm not being funny but I've had this combo with a few people. I'm quite clear of my age range on my profilebut I continue to get messages of 50+ year old men. When I look at their profile they usually have a 5+ their own age range. My question is why the hell would I consider an older man when you don't consider an older lady?

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browneyesthatsparklexxx - 19 Mar, 2022 - 10:46PM

Personally , my experience from a previous relationship where I was 10 years older than him. We did not feel the age gap and mentally and physically got along amazing in every way. People who knew us both said you would not of guessed there was an age difference. so positive in my case, but I know that everyone's situations and relationships are different etc :-)

ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 09:18PM

FC - 08:56PM

I'm sure there's an App to see how people age ... my money is on Brad to age well ... George not so much! 🤔

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FluffyClouds - 19 Mar, 2022 - 08:56PM

Exotic & Witch -

Wonder what Brad and George will look like at age 80.

ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:51PM

W1 - 07:30PM

Haha but then according to FC and S1200L age doesn't matter if they look good so you'll be fine. 👍

1483184 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:30PM

Assuming he/ she are still allowed out of care home of an evening then exotic , god I’m going to be having coffee with an 80 year old by that reckoning

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:17PM

W1 - 07:12PM

True but that's different to deliberately posting old pics. I don't judge pics and wait to meet in person.

1483184 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:12PM

To be fair though some people don’t photo very well , and their pics don’t do them any justice

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:12PM

FC - 06:58PM

Indeed ... bet these men don't exactly look like George Clooney either! 😄

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miles922 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:04PM


1483184 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 07:01PM

Hah, that’s natures filter old pics ,

FluffyClouds - 19 Mar, 2022 - 06:58PM

Exotic -

Up to age 40 only - dream on and get a reality check.

FluffyClouds - 19 Mar, 2022 - 06:54PM

Exotic & Witch -

Haha I've been on a date with one of those. His pics were at least 20 years old! I didn't recognise him at all! He came striding over to me and I just thought 'OMG'.

ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 06:17PM

W1 - 06:10PM

Some of the ones I've met haven't even bothered with filters ... they have posted pics from 10 to 20 years ago!!! 😲

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1483184 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 06:10PM

Add in all the filters you can use , look at Madonna for reference 😃, untill you’ve met the person you can’t really tell what they look like Iv had coffe dates and not been able to recognise the person

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FluffyClouds - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:53PM

Sportster -

Absolutely! I've seen so many pics of men on ie all different ages, heights and body shape. With hair and without hair. With six packs and without six packs. Only a handful have truly appealed to me, regardless of how young or old they are.

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:53PM

FC - 05:30PM

Sure, I agree looks do matter and those who say it doesn't on their profiles are the worst ones!

I still say a 60 something year old man will not be going for a 77+ year old woman.

I've put my real age here although I can get away with at least ten years younger ... there are those here who know this to be true ... however a 60+ man will be going for a younger woman ... I have read those profiles ... age range they have is for up to 40 only!

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1117169 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:40PM


That's very true. When I take a walk around my city centre of a lunchtime there are lots of very young women ( Its a popular university city). Some of them would not interest me even if we were the only two people shipwrecked on a desert island and some very attractive older women who turn my head. Physique and charisma count for more than mere numbers.

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FluffyClouds - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:30PM

Exotic -

Depends what they look like. People say looks don't matter, but they absolutely do.

Some people do age very well and and some don't. I've seen it with my own eyes on here.

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Doricles - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:21PM

The question sets no parameters i.e. 5 years younger; 10 years younger or 40 years younger? Most men fantasise about a sexual encounter with a young, pretty, nubile woman, and conversely, lots of older women fantasise about an energetic and passionate encounter with a fit, younger man (often with the added criteria of being WH). The truth is, we’d all like the “been there, done that” badge, but if you’re looking for a long term arrangement i.e. something with a bit more substance, for instance meals out, trips away or simply socialising in a pub, bar or restaurant, before or after an IE, then you’re probably looking for someone who’s a little closer to your own age who shares a similar history to yourself in terms of life experiences, taste in music, bringing up kids etc. But of course if all you’re seeking is a purely physical IE, with no emotional connection, longevity or repeat performance then go with the flow and do what makes you happy with whomever can make you happy, no matter what age t

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2022 - 05:15PM

SMD - 04:17PM

You are absolutely correct.
Very much depends on one's age.

I'm 65 so I will not go above 70 maximum (I'd be worried about him having a heart attack for a start!) ... I will also not go below 50 (OK 45 if he's Brad Pitts' double 😉).

As for men who say they like older women, that's fine up to around aged 50 but would they seriously go for a 70+ or 80+ woman (unless they have a fetish!) When they are 60 or older ... so a 23 year old is thrilled with a lady 17 years older ... would he still say that when he's 60 and go with a 77 year old woman?

I'm waiting for all the McTrolls to say its all tosh and start their pathetic trolling! 🙄

Paula99 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 04:37PM

Deja vu...

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1502482 - 19 Mar, 2022 - 04:17PM

Age is not just a number at my age - those 12 years older than me (so for them, this would be dating someone younger) and up are close to (or past) the age of retirement. Some are suddenly staring 24/7 with their wives square in the face and want one last (first) fling before it becomes impossible to make any excuses to get out.

Dating someone younger is normal for a guy, not as usual for a woman and it can be a mental block some women cannot get past, and some can. Most of our connection is through the mind and body, not the birth certificate so if you are open to it, do it. You aren't marrying your IE - have a fling! F**k around and experiment (but do not hurt people and be honest). Just do it - the only one judging is yourself...

And this forum apparently. I'm looking at all of you Judgy McJudgefaces out there!

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BigOGla - 13 Mar, 2022 - 09:07AM

As a man who loves the company of a more mature lady, even 10 years later I still quiver about my best experiences (23 yo male & 40 yo female). That was the best I ever had. I feel age should not be something that is focused on but is a side note that can be reflected on in the differences between the people. It’s all about chemistry and compatibility.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 06 Mar, 2022 - 10:45PM

Personality matters most but there is something very sexy about having a lover who is younger than my children.

Especially if he has youthful stamina and can also chat to me about things that matter to me.

And that's definitely something that I would never have contemplated a decade ago.

I quite like being a Mrs Robinson.

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Paula99 - 06 Mar, 2022 - 07:55AM



BillHicks75 - 06 Mar, 2022 - 12:10AM

Age makes no difference at all, it's the personality that counts.

1117169 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 07:24PM

@ Paula99

One of the first home cookery shows on TV ( Before the subject attained cult status) was presented by a lady called Fanny Craddock.

One episode showed her making doughnuts. At the end of the demonstration her co presenter and husband, Johnny, famously said

" If you follow the recipe carefully, all your doughnuts can look like Fannys"

Its on Youtube.

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Paula99 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 05:39PM

Not sure I want to see 'fannys'..most look like something resembling an over stuffed kebab and the 'willys' looking like a mushroom farm....much nicer in underwear.

And as for women flashing their bits under clothes or underwear..women have been doing that for years...remember page 3 in the sun and the page 5 fella...those were the days and we never complained...😁

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AlwaysSmiling80 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 05:28PM

I’ve recently rejoined this site having had positive experiences before. Had a fantastic affair with someone slightly younger and we connected really well. However, there was another lady I was chatting to regularly and although the distance meant we didn’t actually meet the flirting we had blew my mind! She was 15 years older than me and before then I probably hadn’t really spoken much to women in that way who were more than a little bit older than me. And her photos were sexy as hell ;-) So in my experience the site proves age really is just a number ;-)

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Paula99 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 05:23PM

My father used to say there is someone for you Paula but the likelihood is he's in Siberia..😂🤣

Got no clue !!!

1497533 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 04:22PM

Each to their own. And i don't see any women flashing their vaginas

Bbw Beth - 04 Mar, 2022 - 04:13PM

Absolutely it is!

Mad World - 04 Mar, 2022 - 02:37PM

More references to penis photography here. Definitely not my ball (no pun intended), whilst noting the horror exclaimed by women here of such unwelcome artistry, if it’s so bad for a chap to flash his phallus why do many women choose to flamboyantly show cleavage, either openly or through a negligee? Sometimes it’s even the derrière.

And why aren’t blokes moaning about it if so ?


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1117169 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 11:58AM

@Doc Johnson

There are probably many people out there that would make good potential partners but finding them and attracting them is the challenge.

All three of the guys you mention are powerful and arguably charismatic (Though not necessarily in a good way) and two are also very wealthy. Many women place these qualities at the very top of their selection criteria "List". Looks and sexual prowess might be ephemerally thrilling but they dont protect them or provide for them.

Not all women think like this of course and look for other qualities like kindness, thoughtfulness and sensitivity etc and its a good job they do.

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Janice630 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 11:35AM

You are right age is just a number. My partner is 14 years younger and she says I give her the best sex she's ever had. I once told her to meet a younger guy and her reply was " younger guys can't satisfy me but you certainly do"

Doc Johnson - 04 Mar, 2022 - 11:16AM


I'm a firm believer that there is someone out there for everyone and there is living proof....Donald Trump, Boris Johnson, dare I say Vladimir Putin. What a bunch of great guys hey? Real lady magnets. How on earth did they reproduce?

1499112 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 10:14AM

Age is just a number but my number seems to be too big 🤪

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Paula99 - 04 Mar, 2022 - 05:30AM

Parlour Trick...

I think we have explained all your questions before....🤔

1117169 - 03 Mar, 2022 - 11:32PM

The last few comments remind me of a classic line in a Mae West film ( Only the more mature members will have heard of her)

Someone offered to introduce her to a 6'7" tall man. Her response was -

" Let's forget about the six foot, and concentrate on the seven inches"

Or something like that 😉

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ExoticOrchid - 03 Mar, 2022 - 05:10PM

Well if the bank balance is big enough (don't know about the 4" and definitely not 20 stones) ... look at Carla Bruni, Debbie McGee, Nancy Kissenger, Bernie Eccleston's wife, Jeff Bezos's gf, etc, etc ... all short men with tall women ... 🤔

1507214 - 03 Mar, 2022 - 04:02PM

Time - and by extension age, is irrelevant as it only really measures how long our planet takes to complete 1 revolution around the sun.
We are now so caught up in how much time we spend/use that it has become all consuming and we have forgotten some of our more base attitudes and behaviours because of time.
The important part of the authors question - "...is actually dating a younger (model) a good idea?" is much more important.
Notwithstanding the fact that this exclusively refers to any one over the age of 18, is the author concerned of becoming a 'cougar' or 'cradle snatcher' - when in fact do these appelations come in to play? What are their boundaries? Do people chase these titles when considering a partner to be worn like a medal? Are younger partners avoided because of this?

I fear I have raised more questions than answers 🤣🤣🤣

1117169 - 03 Mar, 2022 - 03:57PM

@Doc Johnson

I can't imagine that many women will be looking for a 5'1" 20 stone bloke with a 4" penis, but you never know. It takes all sorts 😉

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Doc Johnson - 03 Mar, 2022 - 11:04AM

There are many things that are also a number and equally divisive: age, bank balance, height, weight, penis size.

Which order of preference should they be in? And would you settle for 3 out of 5 because I've got at least 3 covered.

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Peaches1 - 02 Mar, 2022 - 11:24PM

I've been with an older man since I was 16 and the age difference is starting to catch up now. I personally would not want to meet anyone his age due to that fact. Would prefer someone my own age or younger. Many men in their 50's contact me but sadly I'm reluctant to budge and they can't understand why. Quite a lot of 50 somethings specify their age from 21-45 tho so why they can't respect my ranges?

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1409040 - 02 Mar, 2022 - 09:17PM

Well happy to chat whatever the age…. However whatever makes the pulse go quicker for both works well regardless of age!

Had an affair with an older woman and was refined and one with a younger woman that was wild too! Both amazing in different ways!!

Can’t wait for my next adventure!!!

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CuriousFortune - 01 Mar, 2022 - 09:57AM

There are many men who would love the prospect of dating an older women, when I was younger I always thought women older than myself, by ten even twenty years, very attractive. From a woman's point of view (I imagine) a younger, fitter, and more virile model would be equally attractive, the cut-off point is personality, you'll only find that out during your 'interview process'; but that's true for every applicant. This site is your gateway to turning your fantasies into a reality. If what you want is there to he had - go for it, enjoy yourself, life is for living, never be in the position where you might regret NOT having that piece of fun.

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1507516 - 28 Feb, 2022 - 03:29PM

the younger guy is more attentive I have found...... xx

1117169 - 27 Feb, 2022 - 04:20PM

There is also a lady on here who says on her profile that she is just about to take her dog for a walk, for the last 5 years at least! The poor thing must be fed up waiting by now, if its still alive.

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Mind and matter - 27 Feb, 2022 - 04:11PM

But of course age is just a number - because on IE it's made up!
A special maths prize should be awarded to those who originally set up their avatar name with their birth year (say, "notsoclever1972") and then, over the years, gradually lower their reported age to a number completely out of sync (say, 42). It makes easier to figure out their pictures aren't exactly up to date. Just a little piece of consumer advice.

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1364611 - 25 Feb, 2022 - 04:20PM

Depends if ya names Andrew

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1117169 - 25 Feb, 2022 - 10:19AM

@ MatureWorcsBBW

The " Mutton vs Lamb" and " Kitten vs Cougar" analogies also spring to mind 😉

1507582 - 25 Feb, 2022 - 12:31AM

Gosh. There's an apparent need for a mature taste test comparison. Minibus to Worcestershire booked for Easter Bank Holiday.

Blue pills funded by sympathetic younger men. Bless them all.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 24 Feb, 2022 - 01:47PM

Much younger men taste so delicious.
Trust me, they really do.

And not a little blue pill in sight.

Unless you have plans to take him to meet your parents, I wouldn't worry about it.

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newguy970 - 23 Feb, 2022 - 06:42PM

I am an older man however I prefer the company of younger people in general and usually get on best with women younger than myself . I think if you are the same and get on well with younger men then go for it !

Yerbding - 23 Feb, 2022 - 09:30AM

It's always a good idea 💡

ExoticOrchid - 22 Feb, 2022 - 12:21PM

EnE123 - 10:44AM

Hear, Hear ... I know, right! 🐌

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Paula99 - 22 Feb, 2022 - 11:55AM

I have a few thoughts about this but please explain how 2 like minded people should not have any issues?
Based on the age/number topic please.😕

EmnEm123 - 22 Feb, 2022 - 10:44AM

@Life in the Fast Lane

I'm sure this is not the first time you have mentioned wars.

Aren't you clever???

Please, keep educating the rest of us plebs, who never watch or read the news.

You are why I am on this site, not to meet someone but to be patronised and condescended to.

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rarity23 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 11:26PM

The women I have met over my times on here haven't lied about age, and their pictures have been them and current pictures too.

Hope this helps the debate 🙂

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Paula99 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 10:30PM

Bloody hell.

The age old thread is back😏

I have to agree with the Doc J...some are sexually frustrated and it does make you a little uptight
Thank God for the toy box 🤣🤣🤣

1507727 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 10:21PM

Age should not be an issue between two likeminded people

ExoticOrchid - 21 Feb, 2022 - 06:42PM

Must be difficult when life is actually crawling 🐌 in a very slow lane instead! 😁

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1117169 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 06:22PM

@ Doc Johnson

I think a lot of the angst and conflict on the forum may be due to sexual frustration.

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Doc Johnson - 21 Feb, 2022 - 03:46PM

I'm wondering that with these lively debates that go on, whether we argue a lot with our partners and whether there's a chance they could be as equally unhappy with the relationship as we are and whether there's a chance we could accidently bump into them on this site. Now there's a thing.

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Mad World - 21 Feb, 2022 - 03:45PM

I have a problem with wars potentially happening a few thousand miles away, not this stuff if you don’t mind me saying. Although I must admit, this is huge fun + maybe soldiers out in those fields should read this for lite entertainment.

On the stats, isn’t the old adage that ‘most blokes are all the same’ going to ring true regardless of geographic region? Or maybe you’re just very unlucky, that all the blokes near you tell porkies and all the others - or the majority - are who they say they are?!

All you ladies reading this beautiful exchange - don’t think you’re getting off lightly. You do it too 😉😂

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ExoticOrchid - 21 Feb, 2022 - 03:34PM

Life in the Fast Lane - 21 Feb, 2022 - 03:13PM

"You could be the lady that put the nail in the IE coffin. How does that make you feel?"

Seriously? I don't have a problem with it ... seems you do. Most women already have experienced the same thing. Not my problem.

I said 99.9% of men *I* have met ... that's in my geographical region ... not all the women on IE are from one region ... over the time I have been on IE, I would say I have met a few dozen men for coffee ... I can count on one hand the ones who hadn't sent me an old photo. Only ONE man immediately confessed on first meet he had lowered his age [and his photo was recent].

Mad World - 21 Feb, 2022 - 03:13PM


Thanks for your reply.

When you say 99.9% of men that’s pretty much everyone barring the odd toenail or middle finger they possess.

How many men are you talking about please ? Can be rough numbers. Percentages can skew absolute numbers in fairness.

If you’re right, then any woman reading this will be looking at your post and running away in droves. What will IE do without any women when all that remain are a load of ‘living in dreamland men’?

You could be the lady that put the nail in the IE coffin. How does that make you feel?

ExoticOrchid - 21 Feb, 2022 - 01:38PM

Life in the Fast Lane - 11:20AM

Believe me, 99.9% of men I have met have lied about their age and sent photos from at least ten years (or more) ago ... fact!

I have no idea why they do it and I'm too polite to mention this glaring fact. They either have special mirrors that show them looking young or they are totally deluded. Probably the same applies to the women.

I have my actual age and current photos on my profile and hand on heart, I have actually been accused of being younger than my age. There are a few here who have met me in person or seen my photos and they know I'm not lying or being deluded and letting myself be flattered.

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Doc Johnson - 21 Feb, 2022 - 11:59AM

Forgive me for quoting this a reference source but......I was watching Naked Attraction, guessing some of you may have seen it?

They reckon youth is attractive to us due to our primitive brains needing to identify the most fertile partner. So since most of us here are 40 or 50+ perhaps we should not be so worried about being youthful and get on with finding wisdom, experience and stamina sexy?

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Mad World - 21 Feb, 2022 - 11:20AM

It’s not the age that’s the issue
It’s lying about it
Some women send pics from yesteryear & upon meeting it’s clear they are far older than they are letting on.
I’ve no idea why they do it.
Can someone explain why?

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1506809 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 10:28AM

I think age is just a number. Ive has past relationships with older women and it was fine. Its all about if you get on well together. I do however think that if you have doubts about age from an early onset then its probably going to make you think too much about it x

1499112 - 21 Feb, 2022 - 10:15AM

It seems there’s a shortage of women around my age so I usually find myself chatting to younger women which is flattering but not really what I’m here for

MegAnnie1996 - 16 Feb, 2022 - 10:16PM

Do whatever feels right! It’s hard to have a certain opinion as everyone is different x

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1117169 - 14 Feb, 2022 - 08:29AM

Just viewed two profiles, one of which has a specified age range of 47-49, and another 18-75.

Sometimes I wonder what is in peoples heads.

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Feb, 2022 - 11:49PM

SandP - 08:55PM

Never occurred to me to think you included me in that comment so no worries!

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1457379 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 08:55PM

Ps Exotic Orchid we have spoken and I do not class you as living in the past. I know the comment is a large generalisation.

1457379 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 07:19PM

I don't always get on that well with people of my own age. Too often they seem to be living in the past, rather than looking forward. I've still got plenty of aims, wishes and desires in life.

ExoticOrchid - 13 Feb, 2022 - 05:29PM

Too many keyboard warriors here spewing out venom feeling safe in the anonymity and hiding behind the screen.

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1497533 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 12:22PM

Sportster1200L - 13 Feb, 2022 - 11:55AM

Well said. I've never told anyone they're too old/young. Only that they're too young for my preference.
Nothing wrong with anyone's age, as you say we all have our preferences

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1117169 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 11:55AM

If it helps anyone, I understand, from a recent article, that the age when people become " Old" is now regarded as 76.

Did anyone else see that?

Notwithstanding that, like beauty, age is relative and in the eye of the beholder and if someone thinks you are too old or too young there's nothing you can do about it.

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1457379 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 10:31AM

happy sexy times

Somebody like myself can be 60 but their circumstances are more like somebody 10-15 years younger with teenagers at college. Hence a mixture of experience and up to date viewpoints/tastes.

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ExoticOrchid - 13 Feb, 2022 - 09:45AM

Paula99 - 08:33AM
BoredHousewife764 - 09:28AM

Hear, Hear ... methinks the "gentleman" doth protest too much ... sounds very bitter and nasty to others for no reason (on other threads too) ... for someone claiming to be "matched" already, he doesn't sound very happy and is carrying a chip (nay, a boulder) on his shoulder!!! 🙄

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happy sexy times - 13 Feb, 2022 - 09:34AM

Age is nothing but a number I’m 45 but pretty young in mind and body. However a modicum of sense tells you anyone too young or too old is unlikely to have as much in common, but I guess that doesn’t matter if it makes you happy ;o)

TheBoredHousewife - 13 Feb, 2022 - 09:28AM

This is by far the most entertaining thread on IE atm.

Even compelled me to take a look at Blake_Hall’s profile, to see what the fuss was about.
Oops, does that lump oneself into the category of sniffer arounder? Bad finger! Stop clicking on random people’s profiles. They might think you’re interested! 😉

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Paula99 - 13 Feb, 2022 - 08:33AM


You seem to be ruffling alot of feathers.😈

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1489744 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 08:32PM

Blake_Hall - reality checks? All you've done is complain about women not responding and then sniffing around as though you a some prize truffle. Your bitterness oozes through your comments and your profile.

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dogwalker007 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 06:26PM

In terms of the actual physical side of things I don't think age matters much and is just a number... some people in the 60's look younger and fitter than some in their 40's.... and that applies to both sexes.
I think the issues are down to life experiences.... a woman in her 20's just wouldn't have experienced the same life events as a man in his 50's... and vice versa.... so in my view the relationship is a bit one dimensional. These days there is also the cultural seperation between generations.... I was born in the 60's.... the world was a different place to how things have been in the last 25 years. I'm not saying it can't work for some people though.
Anyway come on Ireland !! :-)

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1504076 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 05:54PM

My mood is great.
I'm simply enjoying handing out reality checks.

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1497533 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 02:54AM

Blake_Hall - 11 Feb, 2022 - 10:44PM

Finding your woman on here isn't doing much to improve your mood. 😂

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Sportygirl78 - 12 Feb, 2022 - 12:31AM

I think it depends what you want. It's a generalisation of course but I think younger guys like older women for experience and NSA. Women who are their own age want marriage and babies, they want sex... lots of it with different people. Older men like young women for obvious reasons. I think if you go into it without too many expectations then it could be fun for both. So long as both know what the score is... life is short, have fun ;)

1504076 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 10:44PM


Simmer down. I called you out on some bullshit. If that upsets you, then don't make up bullshit.

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Anna.K - 11 Feb, 2022 - 06:35PM

I think different ages hold different attractions, different passions .... I love messages from men of all ages, but I know my ultimate desire is with a certain age group -- but I'm always interested in exceptions to the rule!

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1497533 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 05:59PM

Blake_Hall - 11 Feb, 2022 - 02:56PM

Neither angry nor defensive. Project much?

I'm simply very good at detecting lies.

Clearly not. You called me a liar on my last comment. On the basis of what? Lose the mean streak.

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1497533 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 05:56PM

Blake_Hall - 11 Feb, 2022 - 02:19AM


Are you sure you aren't inventing things that didn't actually happen justvto prove a point?

Like i have anything to prove to anyone on here. Stop being confrontational on pretty much everything you write. Someone might think you have issues

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1504076 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 02:56PM

Neither angry nor defensive. Project much?

I'm simply very good at detecting lies.

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EmnEm123 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 02:33PM


You seem very angry and defensive, this is supposed to be fun.

Why are you here?

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rarity23 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 01:29PM


I'm over 50, and agree, why would I want to date someone who could be my daughter..... it's just wrong !!!

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Paula99 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 11:31AM

You can have meaningful conversations with younger guys but it is what it is...short-lived.
They have other priorities 🙄 and everything is done at 100 miles an hour.😂
I can't really work out why a guy in his early 50.s would want a 20 something princess.
Apart from the obvious which is arm candy and I can pull a bird like that😏.
Firstly she is inexperienced and probably doesn't know what the 'man in the boat' is for nor has she had an orgasam.
Secondly what does she have in common ?
The relationship will have its downfalls and will be short-lived, no amount of sex with sustain it
I have a guy who is 24 who will not take no for an answer even though I have explained to him that 'I ain't going there end of'. For the above reasons, he still doesn't get it so we are back to the topic of discussion about age/number.

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1504076 - 11 Feb, 2022 - 02:19AM


Are you sure you aren't inventing things that didn't actually happen justvto prove a point?

I smell a porkie pie.

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Foxy656 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 10:34PM

Age is a number, its who is in that number, I all way come over old them I am I am told

1497533 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 02:51PM

I do get messages from men in their 50s and 60s saying they're looking for a woman aged 21-30 for meaningful conversation. When i point out im 53 they tell me that's ok as well. So what do they actually want 😀

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1505288 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 02:44PM

When I was younger, I had a few flings with older women but they were usually married and it was never going to go anywhere. Bizarrely the ones who were not married just wanted friends with benefits and were not interested in anything long term with a younger guy, they were settled in their ways and did not want a scruffy bloke upsetting their living space!
Sometimes it works, I know some women who have made successful long term relationships with younger men and others who deliberately broke up on the basis they were too old to have any more children and felt their lover deserved the chance for their own family even if it meant going elsewhere which was very sad. I suppose it really depends on the people involved and everyone is different so it is impossible to generalise. With men it is probably even more difficult, I would not actively seek a relationship with anyone more than about ten to fifteen years younger than me as I would always wonder what a young woman sees in an old fit like me!

1117169 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 10:37AM



If you are over 50 but still feel 25 inside, a good long critical look at yourself naked in a full length mirror or digging out 25 year old photos will give you a sobering reality check.

Some age much better than others of course and if you accept that you are happy with your body, thats ok too, but potential mates may be far more critical and demanding.

This applies to men and women equally.

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Lovelaugh1970 - 10 Feb, 2022 - 09:14AM

I think its fair to say that if you have any doubts about how old you think you look, that get dispelled quickly!

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1497533 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 09:27PM

Calm22 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 08:25PM

Each to their own. I don't need my ego boosted by talking to a younger man

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Calm22 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 08:25PM

I would suggest it’s fun to chat to a younger person of the opposite sex . It’s flattering especially if it’s good chat

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1497533 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 04:30PM

And still no avatars of darker skin. Come on admin, I've asked twice now

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1489744 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 03:15PM

Haha, I really aren't bothered about the avatars, it's just when you see the real pics, the imagined image conjured up by the avatar can be rather disappointing

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1504076 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 01:21PM

@HoneyBunny7 No, it was assigned. If avatars are the new dealbreaker I'll change it to something else though.

Because that's the important stuff, right?

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rarity23 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 01:08PM

Don't remember being assigned an avatar...... though was rather a while ago now when I first joined !!
Just choose from the list provided :)

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Paula99 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 12:31PM

You don't have to choose the ready mixed avatars..just have a play around and change things..xxx

1504076 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 12:21PM

A random one is assigned when you open the account. Yes you can change it. 🙄

1489744 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 11:43AM

Blake_Hall - so you picked the white underpant avatar all by yourself.

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1489744 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 11:14AM

You choose your own avatar. You can even put your own avatar on.

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1489744 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 11:10AM

Blake_Hall - well we will have to agree to disagree on that one. Again, just because you have a youthful face doesn't mean you are attractive or handsome or any good at conversation or between the sheets.

1497533 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 10:41AM

Blake_Hall - 09 Feb, 2022 - 07:55AM

When guys are judged by the avatar that IE randomly assings them, we've really hit PEAK PICKY.

Firstly nobody is judging. Where's your sense of humour.
Secondly they are not randomly assigned

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1504076 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 08:06AM


I mean that youth - or at least a youthful face, gives a man a measurable advantage when it comes to photos, which is what it ALL ultimately comes down to on internet dating. All the rest of the bio is ultimately irrelevant.
Not saying that every young guy is attractive or that every old guy isn't.

1504076 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 07:55AM

When guys are judged by the avatar that IE randomly assings them, we've really hit PEAK PICKY.

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1497533 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 06:50AM

Yes. I couldn't remember what they were called 🤣🤣

ExoticOrchid - 09 Feb, 2022 - 06:50AM

rarity23 - 11:28PM

Indeed we are!!!

Paula99 - 09 Feb, 2022 - 05:25AM

London lady..
I am not a fan of the image you speak of especially if the undies are white😖
Those are for the Calven Klein adverts and buggar all else..🤣

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rarity23 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 11:28PM

@exotic orchid and Londonladye6

Are you referring to profile avatars ??

ExoticOrchid - 08 Feb, 2022 - 11:12PM

Londonladye6 - 09:53PM

OMG yes!
Also the "crotch" shot one of the man dressed in awful tie and jacket plus the grey one of the bare torso in boxers 🤢

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1497533 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 09:53PM

Completely off topic but does anyone find the standard profile picture of the man in the y fronts a total turn off 🤣🤣

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EmnEm123 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 09:40PM

I don't think younger men automatically look better, far from it.

Middle aged men can keep themselves in shape and be absolutely gorgeous.

A bit of life experience goes a long way!

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1489744 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 07:06PM

Blake_Hall - 'some' younger men look better, but I can tell you, there are quite a few who don't. It's all about attraction. Just because your young, doesn't mean you're attractive.

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1505186 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 06:42PM

I think that at a certain point age does come into it, but the far more important thing is maturity. Someone can be young in age but very mature and the opposite is also true depends on the person

Paula99 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 06:22PM

Younger men do look better but some older guys are in better shape than any 25 year old and they are articulate and have many lifestyle experiences...you get more car for your money..😊

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1504076 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 04:19PM

Just like any online dating site, it's 110% about the photos.
Younger men look better. That's why you started chatting in the first place.

Doc Johnson - 08 Feb, 2022 - 01:18PM

I can't date anyone young enough to be my daughter or old enough to be my mother. Anyone know a good shrink?

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Clank169 - 08 Feb, 2022 - 12:35PM

It’s the chemical attraction not the age that counts x

1504187 - 05 Feb, 2022 - 01:54PM

I find older women extremely attractive and I always feel a greater connection when it comes to interests and conversation. I’m not sure she should matter.

ExoticOrchid - 04 Feb, 2022 - 08:18PM

Can I just say that I have read profiles where men on the wrong side of 60 specify their age range as 20 - 40 or even 35!

Works both ways gentlemen.
I've just turned 65 and I've got my real age on my profile.

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like2lickalot - 04 Feb, 2022 - 01:47PM

I think the comment refers to when you're actually in a relationship and not the struggle to look for one. Have been with women much younger and older and they all bring something to the table...or bed....or bonnet of the car.....or field...

Calm22 - 04 Feb, 2022 - 01:20PM

Unfortunately the last comment is correct. Age is not just a number it is away of screening the people we look at . In my case unfortunately I can no longer pass as 20 :-) so I’ll just have to suck it up and act my real age

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FraserD - 04 Feb, 2022 - 12:05PM

I don't believe age is just a number. Just look at the age ranges people stipulate in their profile. If age is just a number why worry about age ranges?
People know what they want.
I'm 64, believe me age matters.

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1457379 - 04 Feb, 2022 - 12:45AM

To be honest the saying is a load of rubbish. As soon as somebody sees my age (which is real) on the profile they run for the hills, disappear down holes and become ghosts.

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Anton555 - 03 Feb, 2022 - 09:34PM

Yeah just a number, I have had an affair with female's both 15 years younger and 15 years older and enjoyed both....just not letting my wife know about them is the problem

Paula99 - 03 Feb, 2022 - 04:58PM

Your friend was 29 (female) I take it?
A woman has an advantage as we mature much quicker than guys so really your lover is around 35 in her mind .
Reverse the scenario if the guy was 29 he would be around 20 in his mind so age isn't just a number.👍

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justanicenormalguy - 03 Feb, 2022 - 04:07PM

Yes. I recently was seeing someone who’s 29. We both got so much out of it. It really is just a number

like2lickalot - 03 Feb, 2022 - 10:45AM

Who cares? Are you both attracted to each other? Do you both want the same things? Are you both enjoying each other? If yes then sod the age!

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1489744 - 31 Jan, 2022 - 10:05PM

Paula99 - 10 years younger maximum. Not interested in younger than that, won't have anything in common. As for someone in their 20s? On here? Wow, doubt there are many.

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Paula99 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 08:05PM

Age is just a number....fact
Put a relationship into the equation and then the above statement changes.
If you are in your late 40.s and you prefer your guys to have some sexual experience and lifestyle elements then why would you choose a guy in his 20.s ?...Granted younger guys do have the wedding tackle but most have little experience and/or no lifestyle connections.
If you require chemistry in your tete a tete then again it becomes difficult
There are exceptions to the rules as always and I am just quoting my view on it. In the end we all need some kind of 'what shall we do/talk about in-between the hot sex'? Then age just becomes a number.

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1497533 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 07:05PM

4lexander6969 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 05:47PM

Age is just a number. I’m a thoughtful, laid back professional interested in cuckolding.
My plan is to find a lover I connect with first and then find a 20 year old guy on a dating website to join us

Good luck with that on here

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1481371 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 06:37PM

Well I thought this was about age? - Seems that maybe some women shrink as they get older and so wear heels to compensate? Or maybe I just misunderstood? - haha.

I think age does matter at some point for some people, why else include a preferred age range or any preferences? I think it's acceptable, stops me sending messages to members who wouldn't want to get beyond - thanks but no, So I read the profiles, I will sometimes message if I'm outside the age range a little if I think the other interests etc have some compatibility.

1503577 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 05:53PM

Personality above age without a shadow of a doubt!

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4lexander6969 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 05:47PM

Age is just a number. I’m a thoughtful, laid back professional interested in cuckolding.
My plan is to find a lover I connect with first and then find a 20 year old guy on a dating website to join us

1497373 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 05:39PM

Dating irrespective of the variables works if you first vet for compatibility, emotional maturity/stability etc.

1497533 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 05:36PM

Sportster im not pretending to be taller. I just like heels. Not skyscraper heels. Just heels.

And i like tall men. Nothing to do with my heels, i have always been attracted to tall men.

We all have preferences. Mine is for tall, older men.

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1457379 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 04:20PM

Shattered Passion

You are obviously proving that age and perception DOES matter.

1352614 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 03:37PM

Alot of men I had spoken on here say age doesn't matter however when you let them down gently,they call you immature little girl 🤣 like sure next time I just ignore and not say a word at all 🤣👌

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1499112 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 03:31PM

Exotic Orchid

I know that it’s rubbish obviously x

ExoticOrchid - 30 Jan, 2022 - 03:15PM

Robbie100 - 10:18AM

I'm afraid that woman was talking out of her arse ... absolute rubbish! 🙄

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1489744 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 02:37PM

Sportster - some men like shorter women, some men prefer a taller women. Depends on the person. I have dated tall men who preferred a taller woman.

1498941 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 10:51AM

Indeed it is 💃🕺

1499112 - 30 Jan, 2022 - 10:18AM

I’m 62 and 5’8 so I’m outside most womens age ranges and not tall enough for the rest, a woman told me once that they want taller men because they have a bigger penis

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1117169 - 29 Jan, 2022 - 09:53PM



Has a man ever not been attracted to a woman merely because of her height? I doubt it.

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Paula99 - 29 Jan, 2022 - 05:51PM

My kids reckon there are only 2 things shorter than me....dwarfs and children..🥰🤣

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1489744 - 29 Jan, 2022 - 04:54PM

Sportster - shorter women might wear heels to appear taller but also because heels are feminine. Taller women wear them not to be taller, it's purely for the way they make you feel. Elegant. Most women's clothing suit a heel. It's not difficult to understand. And whilst short men may feel short changed somehow, it's not really fair to blame heels on shorter men's success rates. Why should I as a taller woman be attracted to a shorter man just because a shorter man has an issue about not being chosen. I am not attracted to shorter men than me.

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1364611 - 29 Jan, 2022 - 12:07AM

Sexy stilettos

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1364611 - 29 Jan, 2022 - 12:04AM

Many a good tune played on a old fiddle

1117169 - 28 Jan, 2022 - 11:17PM

@ HoneyBunny7

That's understandable. 5ft 10. isn't really that tall I guess.

@ Londonladye6

That's understood too. Nobody should feel the need to justify wearing high heels (or anything else for that matter) I'm just wondering why tall women feel the need to pretend that they are even taller and further restrict the choice of potential partners.

1489744 - 28 Jan, 2022 - 06:43PM

Sportster - even if I didn't wear heels, my height minimum requirements would be 5ft 10. I just prefer a taller man. It's what I personally find attractive.

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1497533 - 28 Jan, 2022 - 04:02PM

I don't wear very high heels, although I do wear heels. Because i prefer walking in them, and i find flat shoes uncomfortable because i have low arches in my feet

1117169 - 28 Jan, 2022 - 03:38PM


As Exotic says, its often because it brings out the protective instinct in men, but if a man wore elevator shoes to look "more protective" he would be ridiculed.

This is why I don't understand why an already tall woman would want to wear very high heels to pretend to be taller as it instantly reduces the number of qualifying suitors and therefore potentially eliminates some very compatible mates.

1499125 - 28 Jan, 2022 - 01:51PM

Age is nothing to worry about , if you find each other attractive in body and soul you can have a great loving relationship.

rarity23 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 11:35PM

I'm 5'10, and have no preference on a lady's height :)

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Holly36E - 27 Jan, 2022 - 09:44PM

Personally prefer older men myself 😊. Tend to find younger guys become clingy and too attached very quickly!

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Holly36E - 27 Jan, 2022 - 09:31PM

Prefer older guys myself! Find younger men get too clingy and attached!

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Naughtyryan - 27 Jan, 2022 - 09:05PM

Honestly depends on said man, or woman! I’ve met quite a few older women myself and always had positive feedback 😊

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1489744 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 07:50PM

High heels suit my clothes and make the whole look better. They also make me feel confident and dressed up when I go out.

ExoticOrchid - 27 Jan, 2022 - 06:36PM

Paula99 - 06:00
I was told by a boy many, many moons ago that it makes him feel protective (he was 6'2" to my 5'2").


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Paula99 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 06:01PM

Loving the *card2bar * shoes..🤣🤣🤣

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Paula99 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 06:00PM

I have only ever dated tall guys generally over 6 ft not because they are my type but I have found for most of my life that tall guys go for petite women.

Maybe we can get someone to explain this one 😊

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Jan, 2022 - 05:27PM

Oh btw, many men lie about AGE and HEIGHT.

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Jan, 2022 - 05:25PM

I'm 5'2" and I wear heels which are no more than 3" (car2bar shoes I call them) ... not to pretend I'm taller than I am BUT because they look better with my clothes!

Paula99 - 05:50PM
Too right about painful feet ... unless I'm on a date and we don't have far to walk, these days comfort comes first ... my days of walking around town in heels are long gone ... whe I see young girls tottering on sky high heels actually makes me wince in pain for them.

1117169 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 04:50PM


I might if you explained it in simple terms that a mere man can understand 😉

Paula99 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 03:36PM

I have to agree it is a woman thing to wear heels, your a guy you will never understand it😏

1117169 - 27 Jan, 2022 - 06:17AM


Yes I know its a psychological / woman thing. I'm just trying to get some insight into why its a woman thing and the psychology driving it.

Surely a short woman would be more likely to want to wear heels than a tall woman?

1489744 - 26 Jan, 2022 - 06:14PM

Sportster - I don't understand why short women who wear heels would like a tall man 6ft and above. Being not short myself, I want a taller man because I'm a taller woman. Maybe it's just psychological. With regards to heels, they suit the type of clothing I wear better than flats. It's a woman thing.

Paula99 - 26 Jan, 2022 - 05:50PM

I am petite and 5 ft 1 everyone is taller than me, got no option I have wear heels.
By the way not all flats are boring, you need those to walk home after a night out when your feet are bloody killing you after wearing high heels. 🤣😂😂

1117169 - 26 Jan, 2022 - 04:00PM

@ HoneyBunny7

That's your choice of course, but I wonder what it is in a womans conditioning or culture or whatever that requires that her man is taller than her even when she is pretending to be taller than she really is, and indeed what makes a woman want to pretend to be taller in the first place.

In the past when the man literally had to physically protect his female partner and the home
( Cave?) from intruders, I can see the importance of size. That's not the case any more.

1489744 - 26 Jan, 2022 - 02:58PM

Sportster - as a woman if you're not short and like to wear heels, then height is important. I don't feel comfortable looking down on a date when stood next to them. And I'm not resigning myself to wearing unflattering boring flat shoes.

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Maria Jones - 26 Jan, 2022 - 02:04PM

Don't worry sweetie the men lie about their age more than the women do these days so add ten years to most claims of birth dates.

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1117169 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 07:22PM

I think most older men would prefer a significantly younger partner because of the enhanced physical attraction that ( Usually but not always) goes with that and the procreative instinct. Very much younger would probably lead to incompatibilities in other respects though.

On the other hand, generally speaking most younger women prefer a slightly older man, not for physical reasons, though maturity can often result in a more considerate and inventive lover, because of the desire to have a wiser and more reliable and more established partner who knows how the world works and is better equipped as provider and protector.

That's generalising from the western societies standpoint of course. Much of it is down to culture, societal mores and peer pressure. Look at other cultures however and you often see a very different pattern simply based on whether each party gets what they need and want from the relationship, what works and makes them happy.

Old Sapper - 25 Jan, 2022 - 06:47PM

Good lord! This has me going back more decades than I care to think about. In 1975, I was a young Sapper, stationed with 36 Engineer Regiment in Maidstone, married a couple of years but already realising we'd made a mistake.
Because of the lack of married quarters, we had a civvy "hiring" in Larkfield a few miles out of the town.
Next door was Joan, a widow in her early 60s who had delayed retiring so that she & her husband could begin their joint retirement together only for him to die very soon afterwards.
I used to have a coffee with her occasionally and things began to develop until I got my hand into her knickers one day and the coffee began to take 2nd place.

Janice630 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 05:49PM

I'm dating a guy 14 years older and he gave me so much pleasure in bed compared to a guy my own age. My own age was wham bam thank you mam where as the older guy took his time with everything sexual. I prefer older men now wouldn't go back to one my age or younger

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RosePetal0007 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 04:30PM

It all depends on how you feel & if your attracted to the person…

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1471453 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 04:29PM

When I was on here last time few years ago met someone 12 years younger than me and we got on great together maybe as I have a young and active lookout on life but this time I'm finding it different as I'm older now and hardly get any replies from messages I send so does look like the older you get the more difficult it is to meet someone on here but yes it's definitely a good idea dating someone younger as long as both enjoy the same things and on the same wavelength

Purple dreamer - 25 Jan, 2022 - 03:35PM

I couldn't see myself dating someone young enough to me my son a couple of years younger maybe

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1498160 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 10:04AM

You're Donald Draper you'll be fine!

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DDraper - 25 Jan, 2022 - 10:00AM

Some great people on here, generally balanced and great to get on with. I don't seem to come across many in South London / in and around Bromley - too narrow a geography?

1499112 - 25 Jan, 2022 - 09:49AM

I had an affair from here a couple of years ago from here and she was 40 , I was 60 the sex was great and I was flattered but she found it difficult to get away to meet having young children, I’m trying to avoid that this time but it’s not easy because there’s a shortage of women nearer my age on here

Pete likes wine - 25 Jan, 2022 - 09:05AM

Newbie here be kind! To be honest i dont think it matters as long as you both understand the reasons and circumstances have full respect for each other and have a good time of course.

EmnEm123 - 26 Nov, 2021 - 03:47PM

An inch.

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1117169 - 26 Nov, 2021 - 03:44PM

@ 1482832. I agree.

What is the difference between 5'11 and 6 foot?. Nothing really but try persuading some of the ladies on here of that, many of whom wear heels to pretend that they are 4 inches taller than they really are.

If precise age or height are important to someone, it does matter and you have to accept that.

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1482832 - 20 Oct, 2021 - 07:53PM

Of course it is......what's the difference between a 50 yo and a 51yo.....just a date. They grew up in the same era. Different with a decade or so difference, but a few years....no. it all comes down to what you both want and both enjoy. As long as you're both comfortable....I don't see an issue. Just relax and enjoy

1482756 - 18 Oct, 2021 - 12:20PM

As a man, I feel fitter, more confident and more sure of what I want now than when I was younger. I actually like myself more now than back then too. Unfortunately, I feel I missed out on more hot sexual experiences back then ... life eh!

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Old Grey Wolf - 07 Oct, 2021 - 04:37PM

I might well be on the final countdown and am about to find out in reverse. It may
be the boost that sees me through to a telegram from the King.

Chezley - 23 Sep, 2021 - 04:40PM

This stupid expression is made to sound inconsequential, but is in fact often reiterated, precisely when a significant difference or appropriateness of age is found to be incompatible.

At which point clearly age matters.

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1471685 - 23 Sep, 2021 - 03:55PM

Some numbers are better than others. Take 69 for instance........

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1471685 - 23 Sep, 2021 - 03:54PM

Some numbers are better than others. Take 69 for instance........

Racer83 - 23 Sep, 2021 - 01:48AM

I’m 38, I’m here because I know what I want. If a 60 year old wants the same or similar then I’m happy. For me age is irrelevant as long as there’s a connection

Peaches1 - 16 Sep, 2021 - 10:30PM

To put things In perspective, I'm 42 and if someone in their 70's or teens messages me. It's a no. If I'm going to be asked does your Dad / Grandad or Son want another drink......then it's a no!

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Doctor13702 - 16 Sep, 2021 - 05:39PM

I must admit that throughout my life I have gone for older ladies, and even today when I’m in my 50’s I look at older ladies with a greater attraction than those who are younger.

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1466902 - 15 Sep, 2021 - 06:41PM

I have dated both younger and older and what I would offer to the discussion is that it is not actually the age difference that matters. If you connect and enjoy being together then you can easily forget the age difference. Dating a much young person can work if they have a similar maturity and intelligence to yourself. If it's just because you want some eye candy, then that's unlikely to work out beyond the sex alone - and it's unlikely to be great if you don't get along.

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1471685 - 15 Sep, 2021 - 10:16AM

The problem with younger women is that they remind one of their daughters....so distasteful. Whereas a woman of similar age, (older or younger);has so much more to offer than beautiful skin or a perfect body. There is an inner warmth when in3 is with the. Right person that only comes with maturity.

Ella33 - 14 Sep, 2021 - 02:24AM

Tbh actually, I find some older men more appealing... Sounds weird I know

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Ben542 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 11:51PM

I love an older woman and would love to meet one so feel free to message

1342610 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 08:50PM

I’m looking for an older lady as I just love older women however Quite a few of the women Iv spoken to aren’t interested in a younger man specifically because they are younger.

Lusty40 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 05:30PM

Age is only a number. But as married to an older man, it’s not easy when they’ve given up on sex before you’re ready to. So good for his image but not for our sex life!

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1472253 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 03:15PM

Johnb7 - having looked at your profile, maybe you should not be so direct and vulgar in what type of person you are looking for, then maybe, just maybe, you might get some interest.

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1472253 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 03:10PM

Below Radar - an environment where you are physically in a room together, then I agree, an age difference may be overlooked because you have the actual physical and verbal right there on hand. On here there's a couple of pics and a profile and a handful of messages, it's much easier to bypass a person

1427056 - 13 Sep, 2021 - 02:18PM

When I was younger (so much younger than today)..... I was seduced by a woman nearly twice my age.....
I had not sought it nor expected the attraction to be so strong, but there it was.... As I was older by contrast I had younger women coming on to me quite frequently....
I think the environment you are in can magnify the male/female tension which can lead to something more....
On this site people can set age criteria very easily and will the rule out options already limited by geography and the initial anonyminity of profiles....
So age can play a part but is not the be all and end all....
As an example @Welshdiamond - 1.51pm - I wouldn't look at your age, but I would work out the logistic realities of where we might be and what that means....

Welshdiamond - 13 Sep, 2021 - 01:51PM

No I don’t think so . But it does seem so with some , I’m told I don’t look my age 66 but struggling to find a suitable man

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Caroline Red - 13 Sep, 2021 - 11:58AM

Can you imagine after the quick urgent sex which ends just as you are getting started, having to make conversation as you dress?
"So, er, what's your favourite emoji then, what's your ranking on fortnite?"
I am totally with Johnb7. Men my age are more interesting, sexier and better in bed. Maria x

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1471685 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 02:58PM

My concern, exactly. A lot of older women are seeking toyboys, a lot of younger women are seeking sugar daddies. What about the poor old buggers like me who are looking for someone their own age, someone to talk to afterwards with whom one has something in common. Yes, older men don’t have the physical prowess of younger men but they know how to please a woman

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MBL123 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 12:10PM

Age is many things…wisdom, experience, how many times the earth revolves around the sun, a measure of a body’s decay (I would be a fun date, honestly!).

Dating a younger person can a good idea…as long as the younger person likes the older person. We all have our own criteria.

MBL123 - 11 Sep, 2021 - 11:53AM

Age is many things…wisdom, experience, how many times the earth revolves around the sun, a measure of a body’s decay (I would be a fun date, honestly!).

Dating a younger person can a good idea…as long as the younger person likes the older person. We all have our own criteria.

Purple dreamer - 11 Sep, 2021 - 11:20AM

It is equally difficult I feel for us more mature ladies , who are not looking for a toy boy

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Contrary-Mary - 09 Sep, 2021 - 10:29AM

Auldlad, it's a profile, not a binding contract! Some men of a given age are *old* for their age, and others are just the opposite. You don't know until you look at their details and see what appeals.Have you forgotten that it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind? ;-)

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Contrary-Mary - 09 Sep, 2021 - 10:27AM

I have found as I have got older that the people I am attracted to have tended to be older people too. I do think theer is a natural process that keeps us aligned. In the past, a man of 60 would have been beyond my range, but I would have been interested in a 30 year old. Now, my age floor (not to be confused with my pelvic floor!) is about 40 and my upper limit for interest has increased accordingly. Having said that, if a super hot, wise-beyond-his-years 30 year old showed genuine interest, would I be able to resist in purely sexual terms? Hmmm...

1470361 - 09 Sep, 2021 - 10:08AM

Some women on here need to change their status have replied to a few whose profile says age up to 99!!yet get replies, your to old!

1457379 - 07 Sep, 2021 - 10:32AM

The saying is a total nonsense.

Guys are flattered by somebody younger and attracted by older.

My experience is that the ladies on here say yes to somebody younger but not too young. And at the same time they will also consider somebody older but probably up to around 5 years older. Hence I think for the ladies here they have much tighter criteria.

Hence guys it's a real tough one here if you are over the age of 55.

No matter how much you look after yourself, keep fit, looking smart and up to date etc, it makes no difference. That's my experience anyway and life was much easier here some time back.

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Gallowglass666 - 06 Sep, 2021 - 01:14PM

Surely age is far less important than finding the other person attractive; is it not equally wonderful to have someone who likes and fancies you regardless of whether they are younger than you or older? Provided there is a physical attraction and a mutual connection what does age matter?

Of course, as an ancient and, indeed, almost moribund character, I would say that! (Joke, if you have no sense of humour...)

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Gallowglass666 - 06 Sep, 2021 - 01:14PM

Surely age is far less important than finding the other person attractive; is it not equally wonderful to have someone who likes and fancies you regardless of whether they are younger than you or older? Provided there is a physical attraction and a mutual connection what does age matter?

Of course, as an ancient and, indeed, almost moribund character, I would say that! (Joke, if you have no sense of humour...)

1434808 - 06 Sep, 2021 - 10:30AM

Usually one person is older than the other. At what number does it become awkward or not quite right? 10 years? 15? or is 20 years the magic number. Not quite clear really. Has anyone a guide or rule?

Borderline847 - 05 Sep, 2021 - 10:27PM

I am 63 and have just been messaged by a 24 year old!! I told him no, no, no. My youngest son is 28 for goodness sake!!!!

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Bukowski69 - 05 Sep, 2021 - 06:08PM

Personally I find women under 40 just do not have the experience in life. I guess men too, but not trying to date them :)

So I think an age range of plus or minus 10 years works best.

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HenryTr - 05 Sep, 2021 - 02:33PM

Just a number - connection can happy at any age but generally need to have something in common - be it shared interests, life experiences etc to connect - and generally that’s easier with somebody of a similar age

HenryTr - 05 Sep, 2021 - 02:30PM

Just a number - the connection can happen irrespective of age - in saying that - you tend to need something in common to connect - some shared interests, experiences etc - otherwise what are you ever going to talk about - don’t get me wrong some people are just after the sex part and that’s fine but to connect and certainly to see someone again there needs to be some connection deeper than just sex…

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1463105 - 05 Sep, 2021 - 11:38AM

To me it's all about attraction, and personality. If you took away the person's age, would you still want to be with them. It's all in the mind, and some just want to date a younger person because it's an ego boost. I've dated all ages in my lifetime, enjoyed thier company, and they enjoyed mine and its never been a problem.

Black Gent - 04 Sep, 2021 - 02:19PM

Yes but would the querent be happy chatting to men older than her. Does it go both ways?

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GourmetFox - 04 Sep, 2021 - 02:30AM

I have always thought that age mattered and it was inappropriate to engage with anyone beyond a certain range, but a couple of years ago, I got involved with someone 30 years younger than me and we had a blast, really connected on many levels so based on that, age really is just a number. It's much more about how you get on and what you get out of the relationship.

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1465941 - 01 Sep, 2021 - 11:22AM

For me, age isn't just a number. I prefer older men but I draw a strict line between anyone older than my mum (65) and the same age or younger than my little brother (33). I definitely won't be found dead in bed with a man of my son's age (19) that's just nasty!

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FluffyClouds - 31 Aug, 2021 - 11:34AM

Ryan Gosling, Jason Momoa, Hugh Jackman, Rob Lowe all have older wives. Wouldn't kick any of those out if bed.

1457379 - 30 Aug, 2021 - 11:00PM

Good looking - tick (except nobody believes me)
Rich - tick (I can afford a MacDonalds)
Famous - tick (for a milisecond)
Charismatic - tick (fighting them off).

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1117169 - 29 Aug, 2021 - 10:46AM


Unless you are exceptionally good looking / rich / famous / charismatic of course.

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outinthesticks - 29 Aug, 2021 - 09:36AM

I think that would depend on their maturity, what it is they are looking for, and whether or not that aligns with what you’re looking for too.. I am 38 for instance, but I date 10 years in either direction. I tend to find ladies in their 30s and 40s more alluring

1117169 - 29 Aug, 2021 - 08:51AM

@ Salt and Pepper

Yes I agree. Its about as plausible as the saying " You are as old as you feel" but its an inescapable fact that people do take age into account when choosing a mate and in western society there is a fairly narrow range which is regarded as acceptable and if you are outside that, then you are simply not in the frame.

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1457379 - 29 Aug, 2021 - 01:09AM


To summarise this stuff about age is just a number is a total nonsense.

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1117169 - 28 Aug, 2021 - 06:12PM

@Salt and Pepper

Probably only ladies in their 50s and 60s. Anyone considerably younger than 50 probably has a hidden agenda or " Daddy issues".

In other cultures, however, you might attract someone in her 30s.

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1457379 - 28 Aug, 2021 - 11:01AM

Own up ladies who would date a 59 year old man if the chemistry were right?

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1457379 - 27 Aug, 2021 - 09:57AM

I think reality here means that as a mature male some of the females here make a judgement and are looking for somebody younger.

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Lusty40 - 26 Aug, 2021 - 10:14PM

Fully agree!!

Skype2u - 25 Aug, 2021 - 12:43PM

Mature Married Feminine lady,always my first choice..
I'm very selective also enjoy having mature ladies companies.

1332684 - 24 Aug, 2021 - 11:18PM

Age is only a number when you want it to be. Sometimes reality steps in and you have to face the truth ..

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1463105 - 24 Aug, 2021 - 09:14PM

I'm my case yes, not wishing to sound arrogant but I'm really lucky that could pass for a lot younger than I am, and I have no wish to lie about my age, I'm proud of it. It does me no favours though, as most women on here prefer a much younger guy. You just can't win lol

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1457849 - 24 Aug, 2021 - 04:53PM

I've had two successful affairs both with younger men, wasn't intentional to go younger. I don't think age matters as long as you're both physically and mentality attracted to each other and you want the same thing.

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Uncaged - 24 Aug, 2021 - 01:37PM

A woman needs to be exactly 48 years old. No more, no less

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Funtobe22 - 21 Aug, 2021 - 09:49PM

Not bothered about age just like to hold hands and have a cuddle so far no joy

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Funtobe22 - 21 Aug, 2021 - 09:49PM

Not bothered about age just like to hold hands and have a cuddle so far no joy

1470361 - 20 Aug, 2021 - 10:43AM

Been on here before, met a wonderful younger woman, took our time getting used to each other, finding out likes and dislikes, most amazing 5years, until Covid19 came along, would certainly like to pick up where we finished, but as yet to no avail sadly

1470223 - 19 Aug, 2021 - 06:24PM

For me, it is. I actually enjoy talking to and meeting an older woman, you can feel through the words the life experience and sex appeal oozing. They are more mature, they behave differently and when it comes to the physical side, they are wild ! Because they have a clear image of who and what they want and if they want to try anything else new. And while some don't have the perfect body, they have the perfect mind and that's what matters to me

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MatureWorcsBBW - 19 Aug, 2021 - 05:35PM

I was married to a younger man plus I've since dated older men.

Age wouldn't deter me from meeting anyone at all but I do really love the energy, exuberance and life force in a much younger man.

Their optimistic approach for improvements in this world is inspirational as opposed to the same old white, middle aged male thinking.

I do love younger men before the become part of the establishment..

1117169 - 18 Aug, 2021 - 05:12PM

Absolutely not. Its an indication , albeit not necessarily an accurate one, of the stage of life that someone is at, their likely life experience, their likely physical condition and their likely appetite for various aspects of life and ,when it comes to choosing a potential mate, is therefore a reasonable indicator of how compatible they are likely to be.

Having said that, there are examples of very youthful older people and young people who are very mature for their years and middle aged people who behave as though life has nothing further to offer. There are also cultural variations on how big an age gap has to be before it matters.

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macsen2015 - 16 Aug, 2021 - 10:44AM

Age is just a number. Sometimes its a big number ☹️

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1468129 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 04:11PM

As I have said before age is just a number, the old you are normally means you are more experienced and wiser! If any older woman want to help prove this theory, then feel free to message me and let's see what happens!

kindpassion - 15 Aug, 2021 - 11:11AM

I’m pretty flexible when it comes to age but I try to respect others age parameters. If I’m a year older then I might message them but not if quite a few years out. I think personality wise some people are old souls whereas I’m still young thinking but with gained wisdom.

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Peaches1 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 10:40AM

I personally don't mind younger men but it's very rare to find one that is mature of mind. They can be great fun but tend to be fantasists and just like the idea of an older woman. Not saying that some older men are also this way but think it works better for me to stick with my own age group as we tend to be on the same wavelength.

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ExoticOrchid - 15 Aug, 2021 - 10:17AM

Sure, agree that it is each to their own and you all can do whatever floats your boat.

However, people, especially older ladies, should remember how "The Graduate" ended ... just saying! 😄

1360266 - 15 Aug, 2021 - 09:51AM

I’d like to say yes but experience tells me that age is a factor. But each to their own.

Maria Jones - 14 Aug, 2021 - 02:37PM

I think it's fine as long as you don't mind taking in their washing and ordering take away pizza for dinner on each date

PR_man - 13 Aug, 2021 - 06:30PM

I've always known women older, and my partner is older. But thanks to a lovely IE, I discovered a different and sweet pleasure in befriending someone younger too.

1469354 - 13 Aug, 2021 - 03:50PM

For me stated age range is just a preference, would talk to anyone and if the chemistry is right...

George g - 13 Aug, 2021 - 11:08AM

Age is indeed just a number

1393321 - 13 Aug, 2021 - 10:22AM

Yes Sportster, because then people can actively say on the profile, "I am looking for an older man/woman", as many are. This means people are being more open and the reader can approach with confidence.

1117169 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 11:32PM

As the consensus seems to be that a persons precise age matters little if everything else works, maybe its time the site revised this profile criteria, as Rose Bud mentions.

Instead of having to input their date of birth, I suggest that members have to place themselves in one of three age groups

18 -30

30 -50

Over 50

This would avoid placing too much reliance on age when considering engaging with someone.

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Dejavous - 12 Aug, 2021 - 10:43PM

Indeed age is but a number but the larger it is the less likely that your number will come up, before your number is finally up!

1393321 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 09:57PM


That's a good idea, best not ask a person's age... and maybe IE shouldn't actually tell us. A person's height is in a range why not the age as well? Because a lot of people look 5 or 10 years younger than their years so if their profiles said 39-49 years instead of 48, that would definitely give people a lot more opportunities without lying about their age. Because, really, age doesnt matter. I was just in the habbit of going for men 10 years younger than me and so saw the age on the profile and avoided people the same age as me...I was missing out!

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1466684 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 06:34PM

How do you know their age unless you ask, it you are happy and work well together why ask

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Dayuse - 12 Aug, 2021 - 04:02PM

It's how you feel about yourself and how you present yourself that really matter.

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1468994 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 03:28PM

I don’t feel age is anything to go by , I still have the love and passion of a 20 year old
It’s all in the mind and heart

hopsandblues - 12 Aug, 2021 - 03:09PM

Dating is always a good idea regardless the age 😉

1409144 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 02:43PM

Age means very little when you have common interests, goals or approach..preferences are what they are .. just about the right match and honest expectations…

I am surprised by some I meet/speak to here who don’t initially give their real age out of fear or concern that it might put people off but eventually, if the intention to meet is genuine, it’s going to be found out…

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Popeye64 - 12 Aug, 2021 - 10:54AM

I've dated a much older woman in the past and can confirm yes it's just a number lol

FluffyClouds - 10 Aug, 2021 - 08:37PM

Well I have my age limits, but pretty fed up of men lying about their age. I have eyes, I can see you are lying even if you are delusional. Had ones admit their real age after they have opened up communication with me. Sick of it. I don't want a way older man. They have never attracted me and still don't.

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Something_Different40 - 10 Aug, 2021 - 03:11PM

It is indeed, the majority of my partners have been quite a bit older than me. We’ve been on some incredible journeys and shared some amazing new experiences. Obviously, it depends on the person.

1468129 - 09 Aug, 2021 - 05:55PM

Sorry that last comment should have said prove that age doesn't matter!

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1468129 - 09 Aug, 2021 - 05:31PM

I would love to meet up with a much older woman, maybe about 65 - 70, and spend the night together, and then prove that she doesn't matter!

TaintedPrincess - 09 Aug, 2021 - 05:03PM

Age hasn't mattered for me at all. Traits like arrogance, ego etc that are my turn offs seem to be present in all ages. On the other side, considerate, polite and decent guys who are amazing in bed are too! x

into the darkness - 09 Aug, 2021 - 04:09PM

I think age absolutely does matter... Perhaps not as much as "body type" but at least age is a quantifiable value that people can lie about where as "body type"...

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Muslim Wife - 09 Aug, 2021 - 09:59AM

As long as they know what they're doing, age doesn't make a difference to me

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1468129 - 08 Aug, 2021 - 09:28AM

I dont think age matters, as long as the sex is good and you are both satisfied, the age has nothing to do with it. I would gladly have sex with a 70 year old woman, if she was good in bed and new how to satisfy a man, no problem!

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sexiegeorgie - 03 Aug, 2021 - 09:37AM

I have found it worked. Some meets were odd but give it a try

1395843 - 03 Aug, 2021 - 09:26AM

I always seek a woman older than myself, we each have our preferences and that is mine.

From experience I can say it often works for the women very well too - a lady in her 60s is often in their prime, emotionally, physically and sexually but men around that age have often given upon life, and are not interested (or able) to make love passionately to their wife.

So although age is not “just a number”, an age gap relationship can work spectacularly well..

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COVTRUCKER - 03 Aug, 2021 - 09:08AM

on dating sites like this my preference would a older lady who is mature enough to know what she wants

Newblue - 01 Aug, 2021 - 09:04AM

Speaking as an older man I think women are at their best in their 40's and 50's. At that age they are still sexual but are experienced enough to value the relationship as well as the sex. So age is important, if its just sex then the young are more sexual. But if emotions and connections matter the passage of time and life experience can make a huge difference to the quality of an affair. No one is ever satisfied in the long term just being shagged. Emotions and feelings creep in, we are designed that way.

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Alexis81 - 30 Jul, 2021 - 12:48PM

I like chatting to older men and women

1377078 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 09:01PM

Who cares as long as you have a connection… respect each other…

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ExoticOrchid - 28 Jul, 2021 - 08:04PM

WD2015 - 07:36PM

So you'll happily look for an 80 year old lady then? 🤔

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WolfDancer2015 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 07:36PM

Age is just a number. When I was 18 met a woman who was 42, and I had 3 months of the best sex of my life. Infact I found I was only interested in older ladies after that!

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john864 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 06:23PM

As a male, whatever age you are at in lifes journey you should aim to be sharing your bed with a Woman in her 40s to 50s. Absolutely at their very best them.
I've had a wonderful life 😉

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AAGilfan - 28 Jul, 2021 - 05:00PM

Younger men are shellfish? Well maybe the older ladies find the mussels attractive......

But I understand the sentiment. I know that I have gained a very different perspective on things as I have got older and find it is much more about the joys of working together towards a common goal of mutual satisfaction rather than things being driven by my own lust and hormones out of control.

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windthruthetrees - 22 Jul, 2021 - 05:49PM

Age is nothing but a number only when you have passed that number; until you reach that number then age is more than just a number.

Hope that clears things up!

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 21 Jul, 2021 - 02:03PM

Younger men can be shellfish. I’m sorry, I laughed too much at that, and I’m now imagining crustaceans bouncing sideways around Bikini Bottom.
Age is important to me, hence why I set an age range on my profile. I’m afraid I’m simply not attracted to men younger than me. At all. Zero attraction. I have 3 sons (my oldest is 30) so the thought of having an IE my son’s age completely horrifies me! They’re children! My current IE is a year older than me. We’ve been together a few years. If he was a year younger than me I’d never have agreed to meet at all.
It’s funny isn’t it? It’s all personal choice. We’re all different with what we want. Let’s face it, if we all wanted the same thing, there’d be a lot of unwanted people.

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WaitingtobeFound - 19 Jul, 2021 - 04:38PM

Oh yes, it's wonderful. My ie is 10 years younger....we have been seeing each other for 10 years, H always makes me feel wanted desirable and sexy,

However a someone said younger men can be selfish. I find often those of 50 or under have no bedroom manners though the same can apply to any age group

1458849 - 19 Jul, 2021 - 10:16AM

Donna , younger guys are shellfish 🤣 love the unintended pun

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donna196419 - 18 Jul, 2021 - 07:34PM


younger man are ok to chat to or have a joke with ,but it depends on how well that woman done in her life and holding on to what yours .
Younger guys to me are shellfish or want to prove a point and ladies you dont want go there ,cause in the end if your not a very converdent woman a younger guy could make you feel your not worth it
Not as if I ever.have bothered with 1 and I wouldn't but in my job I have seen how it can hurt someone

So ladies think before you do

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donna196419 - 18 Jul, 2021 - 07:25PM

Age does matter . Younger man really think

1461339 - 18 Jul, 2021 - 05:01AM

Having had a ‘toy boy’ ok he was 12 years younger than me and a lover who was significantly older I hate to say it for the older man out there but there is no comparison if we are talking sex, younger wins all the time.
As for dating if that’s what you want more than a physical moment then the older man will probably be able to take you to nicer places. Not just his job but he’s probably progressed further. On the flip side there’s something very erotic to taking a man out and treating him to say a nice meal and a hotel

orchid1967 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 11:27AM

Agree with Mandy62, however, I do find older men tend to be more attentive to my needs than younger men

1463136 - 15 Jul, 2021 - 04:59PM

If you have the patience and stamina then go for it. If younger men float your boat then good on you. There should be no judgement.

1459408 - 15 Jul, 2021 - 04:14PM

Crumbs i’ve only been on this site three weeks i’m 59 years old reasonably fit very active my looks others can make their minds up about that but In the penis department yep it still goes up and down in and out and even round and about it throbs away merrily and hopefully it can still pressurise a woman
The thing is If a much younger woman did contact me I would feel very cautious and somewhat perplexed about it responding to the advances of a younger woman hadn’t really thought about that one it

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Mrblueskyxv - 13 Jul, 2021 - 08:44PM

What truth and logic says is somewhat correct but there are always exceptions. Like I am 72, fit and healthy still very active in my sport and have no problems 'keeping it up'. People I meet put me up to 10 years younger, and I keep myself fit and healthy. I am a lot fitter than the majority of men in their 70s, and most men in their 60s. The problem I have is that I send messages to women in the 55 to 69 age range and get no reply, nada, zilch,, and it is probably because they see the age of 72 and write me off as too old!!

1463299 - 13 Jul, 2021 - 11:58AM

Us older chaps have no problem keeping it up ....and dare I say we excel in the foreplay stakes...but we do like a bit of a nap between romps :-))

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1287112 - 13 Jul, 2021 - 09:55AM

I don't feel any age is a problem it's when people think your not in their age limit

truth and logic - 13 Jul, 2021 - 06:37AM

I would feel too much pressure to look young with a man too much longer(most people put me at mid to late 40s)so maybe i could go a bit younger than i am.However friends tell me that from mid 50s onwards most men do not have what it takes to really please in bed , great foreplay but lacking when it comes to the main course .As 50 has been my oldest i can not say but i hope thats not true .Do older guys have problems keeping it up?

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1460182 - 12 Jul, 2021 - 10:40PM

I do agree age is just a number. If you connect with someone, you can achieve the best intimacy. I have been with older and younger women, I felt equally satisfied and really happy with both.

1100888 - 12 Jul, 2021 - 10:14PM

In my experience and older woman generally gives more in the bedroom and they know their way around a man's body. Can take longer to turn on and longer to climax (I know every woman is different)

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windthruthetrees - 12 Jul, 2021 - 07:24PM

Age isn’t just a number. In fact, speaking for the over 50’s, I would say women should only date men over 50.

Classycougar - 12 Jul, 2021 - 03:33PM

Interesting podt!
From a man’s point of view what would you say the differences are with women??🤔

1100888 - 12 Jul, 2021 - 12:42PM

The experience in the bedroom will be different. A younger man can often perform more often (but for a shorter duration), whereas the older man may be the opposite.
Then comes experience, and older man may know his way around a woman's body.
There are differences with women as well.

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Maria Jones - 12 Jul, 2021 - 12:39PM

I've only dated one younger guy who made me feel like his mother - not the vibe that interests me so it's seasoned grey hunks for me.

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1327360 - 24 Jun, 2020 - 01:44PM

I'm biased when it comes to age, I've never dated anyone younger than me, I prefer men older than me.
Maybe some "younger" guy could open my eyes (problem is I don't even respond) post lockdown resolution "give the younger men a chance".

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tea_coffee_me_ - 20 Jun, 2020 - 10:17PM

One of my IE's lied about his age, by nearly a decade.
He has been fortunate in the genes department. Once we met and things go well, I do not think about age.

He eventually let the cat out of the bag. Did it bother me? No. Would I confront anyone about it? No. (People fussing over 2 or 3 years - WOW!!)
Reserve the right to tease! Oh yes!!

Some men claim under 50 and look haggard, either genes, paper round, mines etc
Others claim 70 and genes etc been kind.

Fibs about age, why do people care. Affair not father of children.
Lots of women's obsessions about height, I am rarely stood next to any IE
Fibs about location, if it confuses logistics, that would bug me.

Barring Gianne who is on a roll!
Finding the right IE for you is a challenge enough, obsessing about 3 years !!!
- no words

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1388380 - 20 Jun, 2020 - 10:30AM

My last affair was with a beautiful lady who was 20 years younger. It lasted 9 years and something I will always cherish.

1352608 - 19 Jun, 2020 - 11:20PM

I think we should be honest about our age even if we look it or not! I think once you get to 50.both makes and females still feel.good and look pretty good too.
I'm ok with being 50.something as I wasnt confident in my 20s and 30s god knows why when I got to 40 I started to feel better
50s are definitely the new 30s

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george2000 - 19 Jun, 2020 - 10:35PM

Why? Because of his insistence of ‘honesty between the unfaithful’. I wasn’t mean, I just told him the maths didn’t add up and asked his real age. I did add that age is irrelevant but honesty is. I most certainly did enjoy him thank you and for a good while too!

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1267273 - 19 Jun, 2020 - 10:35PM

EmilyW why would you confront him? when you met either there was an attraction of there wasn't his age should not be relevant?
I would say follow your instincts and enjoy whoever you are with or move on and give both of you the opportunity of finding what they are looking for. The world of IE is about enjoyment and not judgment of any kind.

Relax and be kind and you will get the same back!

1389944 - 19 Jun, 2020 - 09:21PM

Age is a number, tonight Matthew I’m going to be 32 😂

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Khufu4 - 19 Jun, 2020 - 08:22PM

Maybe I've just been lucky, but for some of the ladies on here the fact that I'm old has been important. Whether it's the traditional "daddy thing", or having made a poor choice of husband of their own age, the seem to like the more mature, less demanding attitudes they find in old men who let them do what they want to do when it comes to bedtime.

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AzureAllure - 17 Jun, 2020 - 05:28PM

I wonder if it’s a certain person I was seeing last year?! I know he once worked in Cheshire...! He claimed to be 5 years younger than he really is. Some can get away with subtracting a number of years so they get the profile views, others can’t! I can understand that and if they fess up their real age on meeting then that’s fine but ex slipped up with things he told me and the maths just didn’t add up. I confronted him!

1390718 - 17 Jun, 2020 - 05:28PM

I think age matters more to some people than others. I prefer a man of a similar age because I find that we have more in common. I dated someone from here for about 18 months. He lied about his age from the get go, and I never challenged him because he obviously had his reasons. He has recently been back on here. Still lying about his age. Said he was 3 years younger than his real age. He clearly wasn't getting much luck at that age, so lowered it again a further 2 years. Let's just say he does not look 5 years younger than his real age. He looks the age that he is, so why not just own that? I find this very unattractive now and it makes me wonder what else he lied about.

1379049 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 10:48AM

In my experience here I prefer women over 45 as they know what they want, they are confident about their body and know that laughter is the best aphrodisiac. Younger women are too body conscious, men too probably, so as we get older we enjoy each other for what we are.

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Chelseaguy12 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 09:34AM

Age doesnt matter. Its all about the mental connection, if youre inside someone's mind they'll be dripping / hard before youve even walked in. That makes for the best sex. Everything else is irrelevant

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Yorkshiresback Ladies - 14 Jun, 2020 - 09:54PM

@time now

Surely the choice is whom I have the best connection with!

Oh and if you like me too. 😉

why_n0t? - 14 Jun, 2020 - 08:37PM

I met a woman on holiday once never asked her, her age well you wouldn't would you?
We met up a few times when back in the UK and I only discovered she was older when she showed me where she'd seen the Beatles.
It didn't matter to me although she thought it might we continued seeing each other for about a year age wasn't the issue just the distance. She would be in her 70's now and I often wonder what she's up to.

bob_herts - 12 Jun, 2020 - 04:40PM

Ageism is rife here but you can get past if if you keep trying. Chemistry is what counts. The real problem is that people are driven by their stereotypes. They may think their partner is past it but maybe they have an illicit friend or the chemistry is gone, not the ability. They project this image onto anyone else of that age or older. Be prepared to look outside the box, abandon convention and prepared to be pleasantly surprised.

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SeekingYoume - 11 Jun, 2020 - 09:12PM

Definitely Older.. but not old enough to be A Sugar Daddy.
Younger not thank You.. not a Cougar ..

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TheMaestro - 11 Jun, 2020 - 06:00PM

I had a long affair through IE with a lady 12 years older than me, and I was over 60 at the time. It was wonderful. I do find that when I contact prospective IEs in encounter a lot of ageism though. Age really shouldn't be that important, chemistry is all!

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Dribbler88 - 11 Jun, 2020 - 01:26PM

I have had long sexual relationships with ladies 15 years older and 10 years younger than me during my time and hands down i prefer older woman. I made her feel young and boosted her self esteem big time, she was a changed woman, I miss her losds. I would say i am the gentleman type and respectful so older is better maybe as they appreciate that rather than younger woman.

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1389211 - 10 Jun, 2020 - 10:54PM

Age is just a number on IE. Its not like proper dating it's an affair to have fun and great sex that we are lacking at home. So go for it lifes too short. Will defo give you a confidence boost and we all need that from time to time.

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Mranytime - 10 Jun, 2020 - 05:03PM

Young stud looking for experienced woman

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12mikejohn - 10 Jun, 2020 - 02:18PM

Yes it is I,m in my seventies and I’m amazed that younger women chat away freely with me and it’s a great confidence booster

tea_coffee_me_ - 09 Jun, 2020 - 09:58PM

Your Sexy Woman -
You are lucky to enjoy the luxury of time then, very few meetings has that been possible for an IE and myself.

Again not my experience that men think women want it over and done with.

Somethings may be minds, however other things are bodies, hormones and other aspects that we have NO control over..
We know some women suffer like hell though menopause and hate it if/when their libido flags. Some have no choice but to give in as nothing works, others find a way though.
It is NOT mind, nor loss of passion for partner, body, hormones etc.
(Other women it goes though the roof!!)
Also life experiences etc impact greatly, trauma, health...

Great you have helped others discover their bodies possibilities :-)

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1390302 - 09 Jun, 2020 - 09:58PM

Am nearly 67, look and feel younger,running all my life has kept me like this.Every day is a bonus,this virus doesn't get me down

762219 - 09 Jun, 2020 - 03:24PM

If you're worried about repeat performances, could it be that you weren't properly satisfied the first time? Just a thought.

762219 - 09 Jun, 2020 - 03:20PM

I'm really uncomfortable with the idea of hooking up with a lady who is more than 10 years younger than I am. Maybe that's old fashioned I don't know, but that's how I feel.

somebody1513 - 09 Jun, 2020 - 02:11PM

us older men can have high sexy drive also!! (:-)

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Your Sexy Woman - 09 Jun, 2020 - 12:34PM

Tea Coffee Me

I'm not sure it's the body but more the mind ... and you could say that goes across the ages.

It could also be a generational thing with an older man ... that their experience has taught them that women want it over and done with ... and once they're done it's done. I don't know.

I've surprised a couple by my passion and despite their initial thought that once is it, they've discovered for the first time that they can repeat and repeat. A pleasant surprise for them it was too. But if there's not an open mind, if there's a fear of failure it won't happen. And then if they're in a hurry.

I enjoy the luxury of time ....

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1117169 - 09 Jun, 2020 - 12:07AM

I always concentrate on pleasing my partner first and if she turns me on I have no trouble keeping going!

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tea_coffee_me_ - 08 Jun, 2020 - 10:58PM

Your Sexy Woman -
Yes I have found it very different between the ages as you have.

Yes the younger men may have a quicker recovery time, and clearly this is what works for you.
... which again is what makes this whole process every more complicated, what works for one persons body, will be different to what works for another persons body.
The newer ones thinking great chat etc, person found.... oh no no no no no, NOWAY is it that easy.

I enjoy the more mature private time. Even with mature men of quicker recovery time, its still so much more calm, relaxed, passionate yes but ... something, that works for me.

1389672 - 08 Jun, 2020 - 02:23PM

Maybe the guys who give up just aren’t that much into you? ;-)

(Just kidding)

Damn I’m 51 and your insight is terrifying....

1389672 - 08 Jun, 2020 - 02:20PM

Depends on who you are...

Best to live life with no regrets...be comfortable in your own skin and enjoy the journey.

3rdAge - 08 Jun, 2020 - 01:05PM

Is it a good idea! Mm I doubt it but that's just my view there are bound to be some success stories - in general though I believe after a certain pint age is a barrier!

1295389 - 08 Jun, 2020 - 12:39PM

Mr Rugby
I’m afraid I couldn’t compete with all these awesome ladies,
Who ever will you choose?

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turquilmaz - 08 Jun, 2020 - 11:39AM

I love the company of older women, they are confident have great conversation and are attractive. Same with women of all ages, so for me anyway age is just a number

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Your Sexy Woman - 08 Jun, 2020 - 10:38AM


Yes that's been my experience with men around 60. It isn't pleasant having the feeling that your too demanding. Younger men have been different, completely different.

Perhaps my enthuiasm for all things sensual is a little intimidating for a man who has reached a certain age.

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Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 10:25AM

@Your sexy woman

So you're telling me that if all the previous has been done well. They then don't believe they have a need or desire to rise to the occasion again. That's strange.

Perhaps a helping hand is required to help act 2 and 3.

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Your Sexy Woman - 08 Jun, 2020 - 10:19AM


And therein lies the problem. Those older guys think once they've satisfied once, job done. There's a definite lack of sensuality on their part or a belief in themselves that they won't be able to rise to the challenge again which perhaps turns into a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Someone To Love - 08 Jun, 2020 - 09:43AM

I have many friends with different age gaps, personally I've always preferred women who are the same age or older, I find those relationships are more rewarding.

Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 09:11AM

@Time Now

It's a one man show.

Well that's because I'm all you need! 😁

Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 09:08AM

Your sexy woman


Surely more than one way to pleasure a woman if they struggle with repeatability. Although if the foreplay and afterplay are great as well as the main act then surely they'll be ready to perform again!I

Encore anyone?

Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 09:04AM


No I didn't have posters of her on my wall.

Good job you're older then hey! 😜😁

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Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 09:02AM


Unfortunately not anymore. But do enjoy watching it.

Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 08:59AM


Had a busy couple of days. I was doing my pampering routine. That's why it's taken so long!

Yorkshirerugby - 08 Jun, 2020 - 08:58AM


Champagne breakfast suffice then?

1295389 - 08 Jun, 2020 - 07:45AM

It’s a one man show !!

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Janice630 - 08 Jun, 2020 - 04:06AM

My last long term partner was 14 years older than me. I then cheated on him with a younger guy and found the younger guy was even better in bed. So age means nothing. Enjoy it all if you have sex with a younger guy

Your Sexy Woman - 08 Jun, 2020 - 12:17AM

I think age can be important. I've learnt through experience than an older man, usually over 60, simply hasn't the "repeatability" to satisfy me. He thinks he has, but he simply hasn't. And in this, I'm simply not going to compromise.

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1352608 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:30PM

Really? You mean you never had posters of her on your bedroom wall?
Think you like the older ladies really 😜😜

1385443 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:28PM

Yorkshire rugby do you play rugby 😍

tea_coffee_me_ - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:28PM

"Yorkshirerugby - Tea_coffee_me,
Mines a black coffee, no sugar. I'm ..... You know the rest! 😜"
Yes darling I do, however I really think its time you kept to your promise and brought out the champagne, no scrimping this time!

Just because AbFab call it bolly, does not mean its real in the shops - sigh!

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ExoticOrchid - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:26PM

Yorkshirerugby ... you're late but busy I see.

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:11PM


Mines a black coffee, no sugar. I'm ..... You know the rest! 😜

tea_coffee_me_ - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:05PM

ohhh verbal sparing moved a letter page on a Sunday :-D

Carry on, do not let me interrupt :-D

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Blue1066 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:01PM

How old is to old ?

1100888 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:57PM

I've met old young people and young older people. It is a frame of mind.

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1385443 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:56PM

I honestly never knew there were so many chances out there

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:55PM


Madonna? Never heard of her! 😂

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:53PM

Manner I certainly have, sex appeal... Mmm not sure I can be the judge of that. Bitter? Well if you insist I'll just have the one pint though. 😁

1388461 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:52PM


But as we are on here, we are possibly struggling with one or both to some degree. Due to wanting to feel desired, shown affection etc

I mean more about the people on here who’s intentions are just to play about/ghost/photo collect etc

I to would like to feel desired and show affection and I hate the ones that play about ghosting/photo collectors etc.

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246345 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:50PM

I have a age of range 40+ mainly for the assumption of some type of shared experience. A few years younger wouldn't be an issue for me. My best encounters are when it's not just sex. I'm in the older age group, but if someone older then me came along, I wouldn't say no. I do have a young outlook on life anyway, as grumpy old man hasn't taken over yet. But age in theory represents perceived experience, maturity and understanding. So, I'm going to hedge my bet and say it depends on the individual.

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:49PM


Always happy to lend a hand where needed. Hopefully, that will get you started. We can progress from there. 😜

1385443 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:49PM

I just think some people have manners or not, sex appeal or not and you’d assume age would give people experience but on the other hand can make some people very bitter

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1352608 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:40PM

"Living in a material world cause I'm a material girl"
By Madonna in case anyone very young does not know that song!

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1350989 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:38PM

Yorkshire rugby
Care to give me some lessons in other areas, I’m open to options 😊

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1385443 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:32PM

But as we are on here, we are possibly struggling with one or both to some degree. Due to wanting to feel desired, shown affection etc

I mean more about the people on here who’s intentions are just to play about/ghost/photo collect etc

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Jaffajaffajaffa - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:30PM


You’re making me sound very greedy. I’ll take time, desire and drinks first...

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:25PM


Material things too. You want clothes as well as gifts. 😉

You'll be telling me next you want drinks too! 😘

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Jaffajaffajaffa - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:13PM


Time, affection and desire mainly ... I’ll not say no to material things though 😉

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:56PM



You wants gifts too! 😁

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:53PM


History. I've put that behind me!

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:42PM


When you say slightly older! 😉

1350989 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:39PM

Don’t mind an older man, however not too older as I find that there’s not much of a connection, prefer to have a laugh with my ie and not a history lesson😉

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Jaffajaffajaffa - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:34PM

I prefer an older man, slightly more patient, experienced and more ‘giving’

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:31PM

Hi Fedupandnearlyforty

But as we are on here, we are possibly struggling with one or both to some degree. Due to wanting to feel desired, shown affection etc.

1385443 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:14PM

Age isn’t so important to me as integrity and honesty
Sadly you can’t put an age on that

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:54PM

Nobody talking again. Everybody doing the ironing or something? 😜😘

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:25PM


I better hurry up then hadn't I. 😜

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1334304 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:19PM

10 years older maximum and I’d say 2 years younger maximum for me.... it’s just my preference and I know what I like 😘

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:10PM


Three bags full.

Not likely to be out in public. Where do you intend to meet then? 😉

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:08PM


Anything 20 years older is out. Just about scrape in then! 😀

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 08:02PM

@one of a kind

You're looking for a like minded man! So how does that work if you both want someone 10 years younger? 😀

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Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 07:45PM


Average age is 55 on here! You mean I'm below average. I'm shocked and somewhat surprised. 😀

Yorkshirerugby - 07 Jun, 2020 - 07:39PM

Is age nothing but a number?

Mmm at my age it's 2 numbers. But that's a technicality!

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One of a kind - 07 Jun, 2020 - 06:50PM

I’ve only dated men 10 years younger and I highly recommend it 😃

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1346297 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 06:35PM

I would definitely meet younger guys if there was a connection. I’m not likely to go out with them public so why the hell not xx

1365194 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:36PM

Of course a vast difference in age would probably not work, but it makes me laugh when a 58 year old female puts down her ideal age range as 30 - 45. Maybe her 60 year old hubby is unable to satisfy her, but it does not mean that a 70 year old can't! This site exists to a big extent because some of us retain a high sex drive and other lose it. Those of us who still have it should get together! Remembering of course, to retain respect, honesty and courtesy!

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1382700 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:30PM

I get it but you have no idea how much an older man could enrich your life. Men like me who stay fit healthy bright witty intelligent and with a terrible use of commas could excite the bones of you xx

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1389944 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:27PM

I'm 52 but l'm like most people who still think we are all 21. Age is a number x

1382700 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:27PM

A long time ago a man (typically) said a man should date a woman half his age plus 7 years. It’s a great plan. Shame it doesn’t work. Ha ha

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PecanPie - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:25PM

Older mature men for me. I won’t go with my age mate or younger then me. I’ll date 5 year older to 25yrs older. But please have some some sense along with the age and don’t be the type that has lost themselves to their age with careless living and poor fitness habit.

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flitryfun - 07 Jun, 2020 - 05:01PM

As a 30 something year old woman age is a number although there are some numbers which I find a bit too far away for me anything over 20 years older I struggle to find the connection and through possibly my own lack of self confidence often wonder what it is a nearly 60 year old would see in or gain from a 30 something

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1195188 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 04:20PM

I find as long as the mature woman has a young mind and modern dress sense a 75 year old lady will be that 40 year old thinking girl and loves to be respected that way

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Lillib - 07 Jun, 2020 - 04:05PM

Off IE, men I have dated are much younger. I seem to attract the younger ones. My last was 17 years younger than me. Though some young men can be immature but not all.
For me it’s about an individual especially your personality. I have many older men here on IE as much as 3 decades older and we do get along well on. Though I am yet to meet so time will tell.

Fun seeker8745 not all younger woman are not genuine.

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1360475 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 03:25PM

Funny how there seems to be an abundance of older men who claim to be 6ft plus and athletic.......

Is it there way of trying to attract the younger woman ?

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1386174 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 03:09PM

And whilst my earlier comment (11.05am) may seem harsh, c'mon guys this is not a knocking shop and regardless of age needs more effort than "hello, fancy a chat?"

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1365194 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 03:08PM

As a mature man, fit for my age, I am pleased to see that more women are considering the older man. Of course there will always be the cougar lady who appreciated the kudos of attracting youthfulness and supposed stamina. However, as we all know experience can bring an enormous amount of advantages, not least: respect and the knowledge of how to treat a lady and please her! Whatever you do on here: honesty, trust and patience are crucial to ensure that you find someone for a good relationship.

1360475 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 01:47PM

I dated men younger for quite a few years but find as I'm in the more " mature " years my preferences have changed and am now looking for dates either the same age or just slightly older but that would never stop me conversing with younger men , especially in these times , after all it's not polite to at least say hello , especially when they've made the initial effort to make contact 😊

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Summer00 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 01:46PM

I’d definitely only go for older guys. I find maturity atttactive and sexy.

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gemini2310 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 01:44PM

I'm in my 50s and like a guy between 40-50 I did have a friend I met in the real world 37 but distance kept us apart with him in Blackpool and I am in the West Midlands but I do not thing age is that important with can be attracted to people in so many ways

Anton555 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 01:02PM

I would find it hard to date a woman the same age as my daughter but I do like an older woman, I have dated two ladies 20 years older than me at the time and was very surprised how hot they were in bed, I now do find it hard to find older ladies wanting to date with me now I am in my late 50s

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1373861 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 12:50PM

If the person fits, the number is irrelevant. Obviously there have to be some limitations with how young with how old. But what’s it us. If they are years apart but get what they want who are we to judge.

NTMU5721 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 12:15PM

Good thought for a topic as it’s such a personal thing, me personally I keep an open mind on the person I’m meeting as I’ve been surprised on numerous occasions

1389532 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 12:00PM

I’m 34 (35 in 8 weeks) and although my wife is the same age as me, I’ve always been into older women.. I remember being in school and being infatuated with a female teacher (She must have 3 times my age) then being in my 20’s and wanting to date older women but really struggling!

I just don’t think I had the appeal back then although I did manage a couple of experience with older women and I have been hooked ever since 😜

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1387952 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:30AM

MrSmithWilts - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:37AM

"the chimp goes ape"
Made me think of a book I read a while ago called 'The Chimp Paradox'

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1386174 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 11:05AM

Age is less important than looks... and each to their own on that one... Once an initial attraction is established the age is immaterial...
Looks will be more important than whether somebody has accommodation in the South of France or is promising me the moon on a stick (before we have even met... 😂)...
Maybe for women age brings greater selective Ness.... 😇

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1315970 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:37AM

Age is a number and it brings wisdom knowledge lived experience wit and wickedness. Keeping in shape physically and mentally is the key. Personally I don't look at chronological age, more intellectual and biological.

Having said that men have many brains and when one has been hacked by a woman virus then the type 2 thinking goes out of the window. We can usually tell a type 1 thoughts and they can be very powerful. The chimp goes ape...

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Kittenheel123 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 10:15AM

It depends what you want, I prefer a guy with a bit more maturity than myself.

tea_coffee_me_ - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:27AM

The dating world is even worse as 50, 60 year olds are LOOKING TO START A FAMILY!!
No wonder women in the 20's 30's cant have children as the men of that age are not ready!!

I have seen a couple of younger men, but it did not work for me.

Some men say 45, however due to fibs, genes, or time down the mine really look 70.

funseeker8745 - I had an IE of your 'maturity' so depends on your definition of age gap, (all genuine as he took some of the photos on my current profile).
He was great, we enjoyed each others company, fun, and are still friends, as he now has a new partner he never expected.

Not sure how you are upset about a 'scam'. This is about an AFFAIR not marriage.
You chat, continue or not
Meet, continue or not
If you are NOT comfortable or happy for those few hours do not meet again.

You are NOT marrying them ... you are NOT signing over your house.
Spend time and enjoy - repeat
DO NOT enjoy the time - DO NOT repeat.

else #confused

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Lisaxoxo - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:24AM

OrientalAngel80 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:21AM

Lisaxoxo - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:11AM

Being old enough to be someone's grandpa is creepy but old enough to be their father isn't? That's slightly hypocritical, surely?
Mmmm... Daddy! 😉 x

Both would be creepy, a daddy and a grandpa 😉

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1387952 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:21AM

Lisaxoxo - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:11AM

Being old enough to be someone's grandpa is creepy but old enough to be their father isn't? That's slightly hypocritical, surely?
Mmmm... Daddy! 😉 x

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1390000 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:17AM

We are only on this planet a short time enjoy it , just keep it fun and friendly

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1387952 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:17AM

I love older men, wiry grey body fur stroking against my skin. Sorry, too early? 😉 x

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Lisaxoxo - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:11AM

I must say, I find a bit cheeky when I see a 65-year-old guy's profile looking for woman age between 20-99.

Even if the profile is interesting it looks creepy, you are old enough to be a 20's grandpa!!!!

Saying that, each with its own, but for me is a bit turn off to see it.

I love older man.
My first husband was nearly 20 years older than me, but now, in my 40's I think I would prefer a smaller gap and I have no attraction for younger guys.

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1385386 - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:06AM

It's an interesting one for me, most of my past experience has been with ages pretty close to mine, but I think it's important to be open minded about this sort of thing. You could be missing out of you wrote someone off just by looking at their age.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 07 Jun, 2020 - 09:03AM

I've dated both older and younger men but I did marry a younger man.

Men of all ages are delightful once you find someone who you really connect with.

But, if I were choosing a long term commited partner, I'd choose younger primarily because, in my experience, they have less "baggage".

But spending time with an older and charming IE who rocks my works occasionally, well that works too.

gemini2310 - 29 May, 2020 - 11:36PM

I prefer younger guys I seem to get on with them between 40-50 is my preference and if they live close can be a bonus

funseeker8745 - 27 May, 2020 - 10:59AM

Age should be just a number. As an older man I will of course feel that quite strongly. However although it is very nice when much younger women take an interest in me, I am concerned that when you are led to believe the interest is genuine, you eventually find out it is all a “scam” on their part. I have already reported one case to IE and I believe the person was removed. I have experienced these things previously in other places. Have always thought IE was not like that. I have another one here I am about to feedback to IE. Has anyone else had similar problems on here? I challenge any lady considerably younger than me who has initiated a conversation with me to say why she is interested and most just quote “age is just a number”!

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ExoticOrchid - 27 May, 2020 - 09:09AM

Younger men going for older women is all very well but don't forget what happened in Mrs Robinson … he ran off with the daughter in the end!!! :-)

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1374337 - 27 May, 2020 - 09:03AM

I’m mid 40’s and find women in their 50’s and 60’s to be gorgeous, very sexy, they know exactly what they want, they have lovely life experience and are extremely engaging....

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1382603 - 27 May, 2020 - 08:10AM

It is the person but I have rarely met a woman who is attracted to much younger men, but many who prefer someone older and sometimes much older.

Although we love to live in an ideal world, cliches still live long and prosper!

Andrew Barton - 26 May, 2020 - 11:04PM

Personally I prefer older. I always have. I'm 46 and would date a 60yr old, no question.

1386823 - 25 May, 2020 - 01:24PM

Age is irrelevant learning can be as good as teaching connection is what matters.

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1386996 - 24 May, 2020 - 10:38PM

its all about connection and passion.
I personally prefer older men as intelligence is big turn on for me and old fashion romance and chivalry.
I don't have a maximum age as long as there is connection and my lover can sexually satisfy me... all good

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Meetinginalift - 24 May, 2020 - 10:07PM

Age is irrelevant if there is a connection. A connection can be an interest or a compelling pull. It can start with a simple interaction. An illicit affair between two discreet people is just that - a secret ... and as a secret age shouldn’t matter. It’s about electricity.

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1328172 - 20 May, 2020 - 10:07PM

Pros and cons
Younger men tend to not have children and therefore more time for you , however ( generalisation ) more out of tune as to what a woman wants sexually , just can be a bit eager in bed to please

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1304385 - 20 May, 2020 - 09:45PM

Definitely into older guys, they are just better in so many ways. Something sexy about a bit of an age gap, but not with someone younger!

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Easyrider7 - 20 May, 2020 - 08:09PM

In terms of dating I'd say it is just a number. People of different ages can have similar maturity levels and be compatible, certainly in the short term. However once in long term relationship it is my experience that it tells eventually. Your priorities change with age and it can be difficult to relate to a younger partner's love of shallow reality shows. I'd say 5 years either side of your age is a good bet.

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1355930 - 20 May, 2020 - 07:56PM

Personally speaking I've always found the older lady far better company in every respect.
Don't get me wrong I'm not attracted to someone 30 years my senior but a lady a few years older than me certainly floats my boat 👍

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AA1RON - 20 May, 2020 - 05:59PM

For me I'd say age does matter and also can just as well be a number in it's own right..

You are as young or old as you feel. If you sampled mentality, behaviour, general attributes, physique and looks across different age range bands you'll get an interesting result!

This is purely personal preferences and up to individual IEs to make that choice (which they already do). So just do what you feel is right and whatever works stick to it. Some members actually join here to specifically find younger/older versions.

Whatever it is just make it CLEAR from the outset on your profile or in early dialogue.
This slightly overlaps with the other subjects on judgemental, biases & isms. Which I believe another member already commented on.

maturing nicely. - 20 May, 2020 - 04:48PM

If the chemistry works, age is not important. the important things are is the physical attraction and feasibility from the point of view of distance and availability. We can, of course, always enjoy chatting with others. All adds to the experience :).

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1362251 - 20 May, 2020 - 04:15PM

Age personally doesn't bother me. I prefer the older guys though. I have a maximum age range but it's mainly for discretion. I tend to read the profile and go via that. xx

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muffintop - 20 May, 2020 - 03:29PM

The age taboo, placed upon men liking older women is more about having children than anything else. In the context of IE it makes absolutely no sense.

I have always found older women to far more attractive than their younger selves. For me its important to be attracted to someones mind as well as their bodies. and I find older women to be wiser, more themselves and far less conventional. The wrinkles and dimples of age add to the appeal of a woman, for they suggest a hedonistic tilt that can only be applauded.

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StevieW41 - 19 May, 2020 - 02:55PM

Age is just a number and as a man who is attracted to older women it's definitely the fact that age is just a number !!

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bob_herts - 19 May, 2020 - 02:08PM

If you are on this site because your partner/spouse appears to have given up the ghost or is more interested in hot chocolate and tv then you are likely to have an unfortunate view on age.

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phillyd - 19 May, 2020 - 02:04PM

My current 'friend' is a lovely lady in her 70's. All I can say is that she is much more fun when we get together than some younger models.

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Johnwestall - 19 May, 2020 - 01:33PM

I love older ladies they tend to know what and how they want it

Rosebud 737 - 18 May, 2020 - 09:26PM

Personally age does matter to me, I just don't tend to be attracted to younger men. Luckily we're all different though.

TrevorTroubleTwo - 18 May, 2020 - 02:54PM

As for me, no age does not matter. Even looks count for little. Searching for a woman with a good heart and that certain something that just clicks. I have seen a number on here, who I think tick those boxes, alas I have had no replies. The search continues.

Golly.1k - 18 May, 2020 - 12:59PM

Age doesn't matter. Honesty, harmony, sincerity and pioneering spirit is all you need

Sirlatino40 - 18 May, 2020 - 12:17PM

It's just a number, I am 41 and since my adolescence was wondering for women's older than me, to chat for long time, enjoy the nature or share the passion between our naked bodies

1383833 - 18 May, 2020 - 09:10AM

Just to add to the mix, I am enjoying chatting to a couple of older 60 plus women on here . I would completely consider meeting with an older lady. Age really doesn't come in to it ;all about their outlook and mindset .

1365194 - 17 May, 2020 - 09:40PM

It is galling when you are ruled out right at the beginning by the age limitation. Is it wrong to write a nice message to someone when you are outside of their ideal age bracket?

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1294744 - 16 May, 2020 - 09:53PM

age is relevant until it isn't relevant
it relies wholly on the character of the person

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1294744 - 16 May, 2020 - 09:53PM

age is relevant until it isn't relevant
it relies wholly on the character of the person

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asian_spice - 16 May, 2020 - 09:23PM

100% yes, surely it's about connection & stimulation?

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Thumos - 16 May, 2020 - 07:50PM

@goodlover 89

I'm going to disagree...

CONNECTION is The Most Important Thing! :-)

1384563 - 16 May, 2020 - 07:15PM


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1371726 - 16 May, 2020 - 06:22PM

This thread is very similar to the "need to Judge thread" but focussing on just one part of the overall desire to message or not ie age my analogy before was do not judge a book by its cover and I still think it applies,otherwise we will be consigning Dickens,Conrad,Twain etc to the dustbin.There are 40 year olds going on 80 and 70 year olds going on 40 so it is alway worth turning a few pages first one never knows what is inside.

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851951 - 16 May, 2020 - 03:06PM

Teresa dV
Thank you 😁

1184948 - 16 May, 2020 - 02:31PM

More than age in numbers for me is important mental age, myself I found young men very selfish, expecting to put their hands under your skirt on the first date, I know what I am here and the rules but I dont like be pushed which is often the case with younger ( not always) I have also found that sex with bit older is much more satisfying as they more concentrating on me than yourself and last longer ( little more meaningful than just quick shaq )

Teresa di Vicenzo - 16 May, 2020 - 01:37PM

Teicu - 16 May, 2020 - 01:17PM
I have no idea who you are, but I’ve read a few of the comments you’ve made on various posts. You sound great, such brilliant insightful stuff! Fabulous!! Thought I’d mention it ..

851951 - 16 May, 2020 - 01:17PM


You met a male? Interesting

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1272141 - 16 May, 2020 - 07:18AM

I find that its more than age. Also occupation,education and position in life. I met a lawyer half my age, who was quite the wise head on young shoulders. Even so he was undergoing an especially nasty divorce. But what took me a life to understand, he was handling with ease.

As mentioned in another post, developed countries with a comprehensive education system, have folk that will stay within their generations.

Teresa di Vicenzo - 15 May, 2020 - 09:53PM

I’ve read a lot of the comments in this thread. Age is important to me. I’m afraid the age range given in my profile is the age range I’m interested in. I’m not attracted to men younger than me, nor to men old enough to be my dad. That’s my personal choice and not something that will change, just like whether I favour dark hair over blonde hair. Just my personal taste. No right or wrong.

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1371999 - 15 May, 2020 - 08:43PM

I’ve met an older woman than me before on here. I was dubious at the start but as the conversation developed over time we just got on , no pressure, shared same interests somewhat, so age is just a number, I suppose it’s all about the personalities

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Marcco - 15 May, 2020 - 07:50PM

We re on here to have fun not meet a life partner, so to be selective on age seems close minded

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CrimsonLady - 15 May, 2020 - 06:31PM

Age is just a number. Life is all about experimenting. Dating someone you considered off limits because of age might mean you miss out on the most romantic man or best fuck of your life🤷🏻‍♀️ Yes I went there 😝

851951 - 15 May, 2020 - 04:33PM

Nothing more offputting then a dick pic!

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1365230 - 15 May, 2020 - 03:47PM

I am sure Some older men are fit, sexy and fun however not many around so better stick with my age bracket
Personally I would not go with someone much older than me. My youngish personality and my age don’t quite match so I don’t think I can connect with someone 10 or 15 years my senior.

BucksMan72 - 15 May, 2020 - 03:47PM

I’m 47 and very keen to meet a lady in her 50’s or 60’s for some fun naked times!

hotass0000 - 15 May, 2020 - 03:28PM

i agree age is just a number its all about how someone looks and behaves

Iwonderif72? - 15 May, 2020 - 12:41PM

Yes, yes, yes!!!!!

Purrygirl - 15 May, 2020 - 12:08PM

Lots of younger men have commented to me that age is just a number and to an extent I believe that. When my toxic relationship ended last November I met a much younger single guy a few months later. We clicked and got on really well, although I made it clear from the start I wasn't interested in a serious or exclusive relationship and that we both should continue to see other friends. We discussed it at length and he was entirely happy with the arrangement. His caring attitude did a lot for my self confidence and helped me become strong again but he soon began to talk about running away together, getting married etc. In no way did I encourage this and when I mentioned seeing someone I had known 10 years ago and reconnected with, he literally "blew his top"! Fortunately, he moved away for work, but we do keep in touch.

I certainly don't feel my age, but in any case, find that it is mostly younger men that are attracted to me.

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1330736 - 15 May, 2020 - 11:35AM

It is just a number but I have to say I prefer younger after all you’re not here to meet your hubby are you 😊

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ExoticOrchid - 15 May, 2020 - 11:08AM

Singledoctor1992 - 14 May, 2020 - 10:13PM

Depends on how old that lady is though?
There's young and there's young … if she's in her fifties or older, then she'll consider you too young for her … she could have children your age, etc.

PecanPie - 15 May, 2020 - 01:40AM

I am 35 but I wouldn’t want a 35 yr old chatting me up. I just prefer 40+.

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1382700 - 15 May, 2020 - 12:15AM

@stevegates 2012

How do you reconcile what you say when your age range for women Is younger than you?

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1222947 - 15 May, 2020 - 12:10AM

I have found myself attracted to older women on IE, which was never the case when I was younger.

1311268 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:38PM

I’m not seeking a life partner, but rather a man with whom i can have a meaningful conversation with as well as great fun and satisfaction in the bedroom. I love the idea of the energy and enthusiasm of a younger man . Mind you, i think around 15 years younger than me is as low as i would go.

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Sarah2610 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:24PM

I’ve discreetly seen younger guys and loved it! Age is but a number. It’s a shame there’s still taboo about older women seeing younger guys, yet it’s acceptable for older guys seeing younger women. If both parties are accepting of each other’s age, why should it be a problem?

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1328828 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:22PM

Personally I prefer an older guy. They’re generally more thoughtful and laid back. A lot of men lie about their age on here though. The guy I was seeing last year claimed to be 52 he was actually 56! The lovely man I’m currently getting to know really is the age he claims to be, I was disappointed initially because he’s actually younger than me (only by 3 weeks!) but I’d never rule someone out solely based on their age if the banter/connection is there that’s the most important thing for me.

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AAGilfan - 14 May, 2020 - 11:12PM

Teresa Di V: are you really saying that receiving oral is always good? From what I have been told by IEs there had always seemed to be a significant disparity in how it was given and the effect it has on the recipient. In my experience the response has always been better where one is sensitive to the response and what, where and how (including the speed and degree of firmness of application) a lady enjoys how oral is given can vary significantly. Are you saying that any oral is good oral for you? As regards a bj, yes it is always flattering to receive one but it's far more enjoyable if there is mutuality where both parties are giving and enjoying the sensuality. And yes there is quite a lot if variation as regards how well a bj is given

1367873 - 14 May, 2020 - 10:34PM

You can be 60 and feel 30
And vice versa.
Be happy with whoever you get along with!!
Don't ever worry about what people think, they are not living your story and you won't be living theirs.

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1373838 - 14 May, 2020 - 10:13PM

It’s funny how I recognise someone on this thread who says that age isn’t a factor who literally told me that I was too young for her!

To all you women out there, feel free to be honest and mention that you aren’t physically attracted. We will understand! 😂

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1382700 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:45PM

Just as an aside. In my searches if I come across anyone and find I am outside her age range (save for maybe a couple of years) I would never contact. Do you guys think I ought to? It would sure broaden the range of availability

secretliaisons90 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:44PM

nicely put sussexgirl. i couldn’t agree more...

1373861 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:38PM

If both parties are interested and both parties are game why should a number come between anything

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1382700 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:21PM

I guess if someone has an age range on IE of 21-99 then no, age doesn’t matter. Check your ranges and you’ll have the answer.

1382044 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:37PM

Well I'm 70, my husband is 58 and my ie lover is 60, so yes, as far as I'm concerned age is just a number.

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1383048 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:16PM

Have you ever heard a 30 something say that?

1383048 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:14PM

Have you ever heard a 30 something say that?

stevegates2012 - 14 May, 2020 - 07:14PM

100% yes - As a Man - For me it is the MIND first, what I can find interesting in that person, has a fun open mind, playful, knows it about some fun. Age is a interesting thing if that all you interested, but the mind has to be on your level to work beyond the first meet.

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1376072 - 14 May, 2020 - 07:01PM

Age doesn’t matter , I am young in age but people tell I’m mature or acting mature

Spending nice time important xxx

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Lisa46 - 14 May, 2020 - 06:42PM

My first ie was 13 year older a lovely man and the sex was very good
My second ie was 9 year younger again a lovely man and the sex was just as good but the younger one was more into trying new things and experimenting

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MatureWorcsBBW - 14 May, 2020 - 06:01PM

Older men that I've met probably have more "baggage".
So more wives, ex wives and girlfriends.
Usually children and grandchildren.

Personally speaking, I don't DATE men my own age because all they seem to talk about is the good old days of their youth, their bitter divorce, their grandchildrens latest achievements. Their favourite tunes are usually 30+ years out of date.

I'm just not interested, if I'm being totally honest.
If he cancels a DATE to go babysitting or to see his ex wives tennis tournament, it's unlikely I'd wait around for when he's got some spare time for me.

Meeting men who have never married or have no children means that we can focus on ourselves and what we like about each other.

But that's dating, this is rather different because we're not promising or expecting exclusivity.
I still don't wish to constantly be updated on his relations and their lives because I don't know them.
Younger men are such a breath of fresh air.
Energetic, enthusiastic about life and open t

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turquilmaz - 14 May, 2020 - 05:54PM

@Xfactor well said

ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 05:53PM

All this "age is just a number" business … so you are all prepared to get involved with say for example a 17 year old or a 70 year old or an 80 year old or even a 90 year old???

There's age and there's age … let's get real.

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1338297 - 14 May, 2020 - 05:37PM

Age no issue. It’s the person that counts.

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ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 05:14PM

Queenbee34 - 14 May, 2020 - 05:11PM
"means he doesn't have kids and it's actually more free for you"

I'd say it's more than likely he'll have very young kids actually!

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1328172 - 14 May, 2020 - 05:11PM

I loved a younger man , means he doesn't have kids and it's actually more free for you

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1364688 - 14 May, 2020 - 04:52PM

No reason why not - if you share the same interests it makes perfect sense

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ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 04:42PM

Teresa di Vicenzo - 14 May, 2020 - 04:38PM
Totally agree.
It was this gentleman's comment:

Oldgroovy - 14 May, 2020 - 02:39PM
"Sadly, for many, age brings its limitations. For a man that is erectile issues and not all ladies appreciate receiving oral. On the other hand age can bring a more leisurely approach and it certainly does not deminish the desire. Try me!"

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 14 May, 2020 - 04:38PM

jonsouth2020 - 14 May, 2020 - 03:05PM

"not all ladies appreciate receiving oral."

I don’t know who originally commented that, I know it wasn’t jonsouth2020 but anyway ..

Well I love it, and I’m supposing every other woman does too! Are there any men who don’t like being given a BJ? I’ve never met one!

I’m thinking that maybe not all ladies have liked that particular gentleman giving it. If that’s the case, please learn how to do it.

Anyway, what’s that got to do with age differences?

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1371726 - 14 May, 2020 - 04:37PM

As an older man I can only concur with @sussexgirl94 views.
Look at the book not the cover or print date

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sussexgirl94 - 14 May, 2020 - 04:21PM

Men get better with age, I’m convinced of that...

As a (heavily biased😇) younger woman, I would say the benefits of dating younger women/older men or vice versa are that it pulls you further from the too often “humdrum” day-to-day life you lead.

A lot of people are here to experience something new, something separate and exciting from the everyday. Chances are you’re coupled up with someone of a relative similar age and you share a narrative - spending time with someone who lives life to a different beat from you makes it all the more interesting...

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AAGilfan - 14 May, 2020 - 04:10PM

I am kind of with JonSouth on his comment - though I do think that it probably depends on who is doing it and the way it is being done. Like anything, if it is just being treated as a process or something that is part of a "do it by numbers" routine then I am sure it is less enjoyable. If it is all part of a sensuous interaction when both of you are building up slowly to a huge release of passion then I am sure it is much more meaningful and enjoyable for the recipient. Its like everything: you need to be sensitive to your partners responses and whether they are enjoying something or not. And, physically, to be sensitive as to how you are doing things

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Bugwithone - 14 May, 2020 - 03:53PM

Unless you are up to date with current trends or attitudes, a conversation with someone of a wide age difference can be seen as either infantile or condescending, depending if you are the younger or the more mature partner!

If you are of a open minded and except the differences then It will work!

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Dancing In The Rain - 14 May, 2020 - 03:41PM

If you've got good genes and stay fit it's not a consideration..

I'm 53, find woman older than me very sexy if they still have that lust for life.

1329251 - 14 May, 2020 - 03:36PM

You're only as old as you feel!
Personally, I've been sexually involved with older men since I was 17, so for me I know what I'm looking for from this site. I'd not consider looking for a guy my own age, I can do that anyway x however, when I'm older, I think I'd be swayed towards the younger and fitter.
Trouble is guys my own age seem to have a massive ego x older guys seem more down to earth and in less of a hurry xx it's that thing, personality v good sex xx that's why I chat loads before meeting x need 100% mutual understanding, trust and connection xx

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jonsouth2020 - 14 May, 2020 - 03:05PM

"not all ladies appreciate receiving oral."

WTAF I have yet to meet one who doesnt love it

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1117169 - 14 May, 2020 - 03:02PM

There are also different attitudes to age difference according to race and culture..

Whilst most western girls and women won't countenance a guy more than maybe 5 - 10 years older than them ( Unless they are looking for a Sugardaddy and have a different agenda - there are some on here by the way!) African, Latin American and Hispanic girls are often very attracted to much older men providing of course that they treat them well, are respectful and of course virile and good in bed. I have some first hand experience of this 😉.

Maybe some of the ladies can shed some light on this divergence of outlook.

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Oldgroovy - 14 May, 2020 - 02:39PM

Sadly, for many, age brings its limitations. For a man that is erectile issues and not all ladies appreciate receiving oral. On the other hand age can bring a more leisurely approach and it certainly does not deminish the desire. Try me!

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Genuinemedic - 14 May, 2020 - 02:22PM

Should it really matter? Age is nothing but a number. If two people get along, have chemistry, are attracted to each other and share some interests the surely that’s what counts.
I personally have slept with a woman 18 years my senior and one 20 years younger.

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1383770 - 14 May, 2020 - 02:19PM

I like older women too there something sexy about lady

1117169 - 14 May, 2020 - 02:15PM

Part of the " Problem" I find, is that unless a person has had a very serious debilitating illness or injury, that knocks them for six they don't really feel any older internally than they felt in the prime of life. This is how I feel. This can lead to some older men making fools of themselves by hitting on much younger women for example and by behaving inappropriately for their age and looking silly.

Another factor is that someone in their later years who might have been absolutely stunningly attractive in their prime, had no problem getting the attention of the opposite sex, and had very attractive partners, can often find it difficult to come to terms with their much reduced value in the current dating marketplace. This often leads to unrealistic expectations and pickiness. You see it often in profiles.

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1308319 - 14 May, 2020 - 02:13PM

Dating a young man is a great idea ... says a man who really likes dating older women ;)

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1287112 - 14 May, 2020 - 01:31PM

I wonder if ladies know men get better with age

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Rumpo1976 - 14 May, 2020 - 01:19PM

I love older women, I find them much more fun with very few hangups. I have a few women friends who are younger than me, but I am much more sexually attracted to women of my age or older.

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Yorkshirerugby - 14 May, 2020 - 01:07PM

Age is a guide, nothing more. I personally find that someone who is friendly I am more attracted to rather than the age of them.

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AAGilfan - 14 May, 2020 - 01:05PM

If I remember how my mindset worked when I was younger then I totally agree with her comment regarding how I approached things in the bedroom then. Age and experience brings a lot of benefits and very much a change of approach. Also, as you get older, whether as a man or woman, you have a better idea of what you enjoy & what you want out of things - and possibly a desire to try different things before its too late. I have found that once you hit a certain age threshold then the age gap largely disappears for those above it. I guess having more experience in life gives you more common reference points with the other person so its much easier to find connection points - if you get the connection mentally and personally then its so much easier to find physical connection..... :-)

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MatureWorcsBBW - 14 May, 2020 - 01:00PM

I like much younger men, why not.
I married a younger man and he was more mature than me.

And dating younger men gives such a boost to the ego.
And don't even get me started on stamina.


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851951 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:53PM

Be a gentleman and respond regarding your cryptic message.
Thanks mate 👍

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ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 12:50PM

jonsouth2020 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:25PM
"i was told your dating/flirting age is half your age plus 7"

Definitely wouldn't work for me either … if it was plus 17 then perhaps maybe, just maybe!

Wendyforwooing - 14 May, 2020 - 12:32PM
"My god we are pretentious on this site..."

Hahaha … did you just realise that??? ;-)

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1272141 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:48PM

For an affair its more than acceptable.
For life it needs more consideration.

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1384958 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:42PM

I can see why dating someone younger might be preferable on some levels but I think that if they're too young I'd be concerned about whether there was any prospect of really having much in common. My personal instinct, if I had to choose, would be to date someone around my age or a little older.

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1383195 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:32PM

Age is just a number....
My god we are pretentious on this site...
Normal rules of attraction apply in any affair, an age is just part of the choice... It may be a deal breaker, it may not....

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jonsouth2020 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:25PM

i was told your dating/flirting age is half your age plus 7

So I am 58, mine would be 36. TBH that is a bit young for me

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jonsouth2020 - 14 May, 2020 - 12:22PM

age=58/ physically 48, mentally about 17!

Thumos - 14 May, 2020 - 12:03PM

In my experience, once we've lived more than half of our lives it's often more about mindset and attitude rather than chronological age.

Staying curious about life in general, having specific interests, and not wanting to settle into a rut. Health matters, too. Eating well without being a martyr (vegans need not apply!), and finding some kind of fitness activity that you enjoy doing helps too.

Maybe an illustration of the mindset/ attitude is the Silver Fox and the Striking Mature Lady.

1353301 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:57AM

Buffalo king your probably right about age ,
I once had an affair with a guy who was younger by 3 yrs but he looked older than me , it depends on how well you look after yourself for
Me it's the appearance attraction and personality, if a guy in his 60 looked attracted to me I would be interested as I say age does play a bit factor I'm currently friends with a guy of 46 from IE and it works for both of us

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ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 11:55AM

Blueeyes335 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:46AM
"Especially when they are younger than my eldest child."

Exactly … not quite that in my case but when you have sons, it gets quite weird … besides, I don't fancy being older than their own mothers! Haha.

There's age difference and there's age difference!

1315970 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:49AM

Age is a number, the age we look is not always the age we feel or the age of the person we feel!! It's the way we behave that determines our lives. With experience comes wisdom. I have met women in their 30s with a lot of lived experience, I have not yet had the opportunity to explore women aged 50 or above but I expect they would be equally fun.

1262378 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:46AM

Although it may be flattering to be contacted by a younger lady, I do feel conscious of how others view me. Especially when they are younger than my eldest child.

I know they are adults and can make their own choices, it just feels uncomfortable.

Saying that, I do like their outlook on things and it reminds me of how fun life can be in a way that A Fish Called Wanda mentioned.

Why should we behave the way others expect us to, just because of a number?

Enjoy your life and live it the best of your abilities

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tea_coffee_me_ - 14 May, 2020 - 11:38AM

It is what works for you.

As I know from the dating scene, I have NO chance of any man my age as many are 'looking to START a family'. No wonder women in their 20's 30's have little chance of a husband of their own age and family!
They tend to want younger girlfriends /wives regardless.

For affairs I tend to look for 40 years plus.
I have been persuaded into a few dates with younger men, but no matter how gentlemanly or quality of conversation, other aspects do not work for me.
I do not rule them out, give each the same chance, however none have lasted.

I am NOT able to date men of my own age, however I am able to have affairs with men my own age, which is great. Some older men do not come over as such, other men of my age have clearly had a difficult paper round and time down the mines. Some claiming 45 year old appear 70+, looks behaviours, attitudes ...
Some 70+ are wonderful.

It is an affair, not a marriage, do what works for you :-)

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Buffalo King - 14 May, 2020 - 11:25AM

Morning everyone,
To me age is just the amount of times I have been around the sun, it is just a number and all it does is mark the distance I have travelled through my life and reflect the experiences I might have had.
I would like to disagree with @Sexsy1xxxx and I think that she is contradicting herself, if you are only judging people by their looks and profiles then age is not important.
I have seen some 40 year old looking like 55 years old and seen 55 years old looking like 40 year olds.

1376072 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:13AM

I don’t mind age , enjoyment more important x

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1376887 - 14 May, 2020 - 11:06AM

Age isn’t to do with illicit encounters, plenty of people have relationships with an age diffference. It’s all about attitude rather than age.

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ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 11:05AM

Oh and before people start getting their knickers in a twist, let me add each to their own … whatever age floats your boat of course!

A fish called wanda - 14 May, 2020 - 10:40AM

I think age is just a number, although I’m 54, I still do things that I used to do in my 20s, although my body reminds me sometimes that it’s not a good idea. I think because of that I always get on well with women of all ages. Maybe I should think about age a bit more?

ExoticOrchid - 14 May, 2020 - 10:39AM

I don't have a Mrs Robinson complex so I wouldn't deliberately choose a younger guy.

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1353301 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:52AM

I'm going to disagree I think age is important
I'm no young thing but , I dont look or feel my age infact i haven't felt better about myself, joining IE has been good however I do prefer a younger guy , I tend to not look beyond 55 sorry guys as that is the average age on here , I tend to judge on looks and their profile

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Cunninglinguist6969 - 14 May, 2020 - 09:44AM

What’s so magical about the number 69 ;)

All things and wonderful - 14 May, 2020 - 09:23AM

With age comes wisdom, personally think age is not just number , which is why teens behave tend to be different from the twenties and twenties from thirties etc...
The older people get the more tolerant, patient, laid back, caring and less clingy they become.... but won't forget "midlife crisis" casualties 😁😀 they can't help it xx

851951 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:31AM

In my humble opinion no it’s not. For me it was Like having another child in tow. Young men can be quite selfish in the bedroom.

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1117169 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:27AM

Age is not just a number. Its a general indication of a persons life experience and physical condition. Being older does not automatically make someone unattractive and being young certainly does not guarantee attractiveness either. Mileage may vary of course😉!

It depends on what you want. Its good to have an open mind though.

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turquilmaz - 14 May, 2020 - 08:21AM

Age is just a number, I once dated a lady 17 years older because we had a common interest in theatre shows and it developed from there. It’s becoming less relevant as well but it depends on the individual I suppose.

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1384851 - 14 May, 2020 - 08:19AM

If it feels good and the attraction is there (on both sides) then age doesn’t matter one bit imho.

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