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Do you believe men have unrealistic expectations on what a woman should look like beyond the age of 45 in terms of of body when naked?

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Beccak - 18 Mar, 2023 - 09:39AM


Morning all.
I too am the fittest I’ve been, it’s a nice feeling other than the dreaded daily exercise. I have some varicose viens though which are starting to show behind my knee.

I don’t agree it’s unrealistic to expect a tight body, lots of older people attain it


1529050 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 09:24AM

TheBoredHousewife - 18 Mar, 2023 - 06:14AM

I fell asleep 😂😂😂😂

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1529050 - 18 Mar, 2023 - 06:34AM

FerrariFF - 17 Mar, 2023 - 10:04PM

Wow amazing - well done and I hope all is well health wise.

As I approached I took up running lost weight again like you for me !!!!

Now the dreaded M word has appeared along with a few stressful situations I’m finding it harder to keep weight off - it’s a blip - and i want to maintain how I look and feel for me !

I think like others have said if the other person is hung up on the perfectl body … then the night need to have a reality check.

If I feel comfortable with someone it brings out the confidence….

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All things and wonderful - 17 Mar, 2023 - 11:37PM

I enjoyed reading that profile before. And then clicked on the pw…….😏




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Somniata - 17 Mar, 2023 - 11:49PM

Oh definitely. Most men do have unrealistic expectations of what a woman should look like beyond the age of 45! They think women of a certain age have stretch marks, wobbly bits and love handles galore 😅😅 Imagine the surprise when they see we still look fit!😜

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All things and wonderful - 17 Mar, 2023 - 11:37PM

Try and check WintersNight profile you might get the answer to your question and even more 😉


1588146 - 17 Mar, 2023 - 10:06PM

Most of the unrealistic expectations about body image (for women and men) is internalized guilt and nonsense from marketing / media - most of which is trying to tell us rubbish, just to sell us rubbish. That's what pre - conception is, an implanted idea.
It becomes a comparative image of ideal vs reality. It's the ideal that is rubbish - not you.

The whole commercial world runs on this crap.

Its about our internal well being - a partner who ignites it in us is what matters.

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1587581 - 17 Mar, 2023 - 10:04PM

Ironically I'm the fittest and healthiest I've ever been in my life right now. It took a health scare for me to take stock of life and have a rethink about what I was doing to myself.

I lost 5st over 2 years then spent the next two years getting really fit. I changed the way I live, not a diet, not just a bit of exercise, it was a complete change of lifestyle.

Got my teeth fixed, my eyes lasered and ended up the best version of me possible...I just did it for myself.

The unexpected side effect was confidence, something i'd never really had before. Just comfortable being me. It has been life changing.

Still have some wobbly bits and loose skin but I don't care.

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Sables - 17 Mar, 2023 - 09:57PM

I don’t no, we’ll I don’t, I like it


1447655 - 17 Mar, 2023 - 09:46PM

The thing is...you look at pictures from 20 years ago, when you thought you were crap ... and you think "bloody hell, I'd do her!" So we should enjoy what we have, while we have it. Life goes so fast...you only get one body and one life.

If someone doesn't find us sexy for our body and mind and all of us, especially when we probably do everything we can in our power to make them feel amazing about themselves, maybe they are ugly people...

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