divemaster69

About Me:

Hello there!

Back here to try one more time!

I split my time between Poole and the City. I am in along term long distance relationship as in another continent long distance. I am not looking to leave that relationship and not seeking someone that wants to use this site or me as part of their exit strategy.

I am seeking an exclusive female friend who wants to have a respectful grown up illicit relationship with all the excitement and fun of that. I have had a 2 great long term affair in the past 12yrs and both were amazing, great fun, thrilling, exciting, discrete and respectful. I’m not looking for multiple bed hopping encounters.

There will be no travelodges or tackiness. I want to have a lot of fun spontaneity and excitement with someone that is seeking the same and can play by the rules. Discretion and respect are guaranteed and expected in return.

I’m educated and professionally qualified. You may find my ‘North London ish’ accent not posh enough for you but, there it is! Well mannered and I’ve been told, a gentleman.


My long term partner has been working and residing abroad for the last 12yrs and I am not looking exit that arrangement as it works for all concerned!


I love travelling and travels have taken me all over the world from Europe, Nepal New Zealand and Africa sometimes backpacking and sometimes in a 5* manner. So, I consider myself to be aware of more than football and the pub so to speak.

Other things I enjoy are, good restaurants, bars, cities, the outdoors, golf, scuba diving, a bit of charity work, walking my dog on the beach near me when I’m in the Dorset apartment, literally all sorts of music, art (ask me about the art interest it’s probably not what you might think!) history, museums, country pubs, food, cooking and I’ll be honest and direct with this next bit, the physicals of an affair. Quality and quantity are both achievable with the right connection. Ask me about that as it’s hard to explain in this little box!

Ideal Partner:

A type? I don’t have one! A decent human being is the important thing! Someone intelligent, funny, adventurous, an angel and a devil!

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Golf, Gym / Aerobics, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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