Discreet erotic

About Me:

Just a decent, honest, guy looking to fill a gap in his life.

I am kind, gentle, educated and intelligent, known for my empathy, warmth and sense of humour. I'm not after a 1 night stand - it takes time to connect with someone, understand their needs, wants and desires before you can really explore and satisfy each other at a physical level. Nor am I after a new wife - I am married, happily enough and plan to stay that way. But after 25 years, my marriage can't satisfy my need for excitement and passion. The thrill of the teasing, secret text, the phone call, meeting, talking, getting to know each other - feeling the chemistry work - the illicit liaison, delicious, erotic, charged and sensual.

If bombastic, arrogant, crude or domineering (either in me or you) floats your boat - it takes all sorts after all - then I'm not for you.

Discreet? - Always. Total and essential. I am very, very careful - the rest of your life will not suffer because of me. I need the same in you of course.

Erotic? Yes - erotic is excitement, anticipation, thrill and pleasure. Crude is something entirely different - if you don't see that difference, we will not get on. Empathy plays to the erotic - an unspoken connection with, and understanding of another person - discovering what makes you shiver, the sharp intake of breath, the response to my touch, knowing when you want more, knowing when you want less and balancing perfectly on the crest of the wave of passion.
Erotic is different things to different people. I prefer subtlety and sensitivity to extremes - whips, chains, pain and humiliation are not a turn on for me. If they are for you, then as I said, each to her own, enjoy what you enjoy.
Let's explore what makes you come alive, lights that fire within you. Try something new, delicious and wanton. What lights my fire? A partner who is aroused, hungry for pleasure and then giving her that pleasure until she wants and needs no more. Erotic is giving pleasure and receiving it, not taking it.

Experienced? Yes, in every sense. I have just finished a long, wonderful, passionate, fulfilling affair on here. Sadly for us both, circumstances changed, but we are still good friends. I know what I am doing and how to handle it. No drama, no baggage, just good times.

Honesty – secrecy/discretion is key - but within the bounds of the situation we are in here, why be anything other than honest? Maybe that’s naieve, but pretending that you’re something you’re not is just a waste of time – I have better things to do and I’m sure you do too. Yes, I am actually 59, I do not lie about my age, my height, my weight or anything else.


Polite - I pride myself on being polite, courteous and respectful, which sadly does not always seem to be the case on here. I will always reply to messages. If I don't reply, it's because I can't. If you are reading my profile in response to a message from me, then I really hope that it is of interest and that you message me back to say Hi. If not, then a short message to the effect of "I'm sorry but I don't think we are looking for the same things / I'm sorry but you are not my type / I don't think you are what I am looking for" would be very much appreciated and will stop any further messages or attention from me. I try very hard to not bother people who have expressed preferences which I don't match (usually age or location) so if you have spotted me looking at your profile but I've not been in touch, then that may be why - if I am of interest to you though, please do send me a message or a VK. If I am so far adrift from what you want that you are wondering why on earth I've contacted you, then please bear in mind that I do read profiles before I message - and maybe consider whether a few pointers in your profile may discourage the polite but inappropriate from bugging you :)

What I do, what I earn and what I drive are fine conversation, but not why we are here – they are not the measure of me. I am a business professional, I am confident, I will take control but only to the extent that you are comfortable with. I will not fight you for control or attempt to force you into submission. I am not naturally submissive.

If you like what you read, or are just curious, by all means send me a VK or photo password request. I have no problem with VKs, it’s just a way of saying ‘hi’

Ideal Partner:

Someone in a similar situation to me. Ideally married, looking for excitement and passion.
Someone who enjoys the thrill of a discreet, illicit encounter, who perhaps misses the erotic charge which sets her alive. Someone who enjoys life and wants to feel passion again.
Someone who likes to dress smart and smells great, loves to feel sexy in lingerie.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Music - Alternative, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Cricket, Singing / Playing Instrument, Computers / Internet, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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