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About Me:

Some lovely clichés of an ideal affair: Making love on a rug in front of a roaring log fire ... let's throw in the cabin in the woods here too. Fun in a jacuzzi .. just the two of us. A candle lit dinner for two in a romantic setting .. let's make this somewhere with that perfect table hidden away from prying eyes for seductive touching .. Hmmmm now in a perfect affair I would love all these things but are they going to happen .. Doubtful. So I will happily make do with a decent bit of grub and a drink in a nice bar or restaurant and some good evenings out ;)

I am looking for an affair (google this men if you do not know the real meaning of it). I want an affair but I do not NEED an affair - there is a huge difference here.. I choose to have an affair because I want that secret relationship where we can lose ourselves in each other and fulfill all our dreams and desires together.. this should be about both of us enjoying moments just for the two of us to share and escaping our normal lives while we are together..

This is about trust and honesty from the start. I have used this site before and I can spot a player from the first few messages (you have been warned), though a few have slipped my radar in recent months sadly. Honesty is a very loose word and over used with many on here .. but all I ask for is honesty from you while you are with me.. I wish to explore some new sensual experiences with my new lover and unless I can trust him - this is not going to happen..

Marital status and another over used word - discretion. I find I always have to justify myself on here for being a 'single' lady. I was married once when I first found this site and had my first affair. As I said above, I want an affair but unlike many on here do not need one. Personally I think married men should be more wary of needy, unhappy married women than a single woman like myself who knows exactly what she wants and her reasons for being on here .. I want the company of a man sometimes, I want a relationship of sorts sometimes - but do not want this 24/7 which is why I choose this route. I am more discreet than a lot of the men I have met in the past on here and I will never want nor ask my lover for more than he is prepared to give..

I live and work in Central London and will let you know more about this via messages. Interests and hobbies - the same applies.. Educated and super smart is all you need to know for now.. x Some clichés from previous admirers when I used this site before .. sexy, attractive, naughty, captivating eyes (I liked that one), beautiful smile, very astute, very clever, very honest, quite possibly the funniest and wittiest lady on here, etc, etc..

From me: A pretty lady who is well aware of both my assets and my flaws. Someone who doesn't lie or BS about who I am or what I want.. A lady who has had an affair before and knows the desires from men in the bedroom department. Yet I will always dress to please myself first.

And blondes might claim they have more fun .. but brunettes definitely do it with style and class. Add in a bit of red/golden tints and you have the passion too ;) x

Ideal Partner:

A few clichés from the gentlemen on here and how they like to 'sell themselves': Successful, confident, high achieving, assertive, dominant, intelligent, articulate, funny, witty, charming, a glass half full optimist oh and not forgetting 'great in bed' (so overused that one!) ... WOW - take me now if you are all of these ;)

I am looking to date - yes men, actually date - shock horror !! I want to go out, laugh and have fun with a man and want you to enjoy doing the same thing. I want a man who will actually take the time to get to know 'me', the person I really am not just the one I might be in the bedroom. You will (might) get some mind blowing sex thrown in too, don't worry - but unless you are prepared to find the right balance in an affair with me, the sex is not going to happen.

I would like a gent who is that in public but to be more of a naughty charmer behind closed doors. I prefer a man to be naturally dominant and assertive in the bedroom with a kind and caring nature too. Do not confuse this with all that BDSM kinkiness - Doms are not my style and I have worked out that I am not a true 'sub' - far from it actually !! Look upon me more as a very clever, strong-willed lady who wishes to explore some of the D/S side of things in the bedroom, the erotic and exploratory side of this where we can discover some new things. Only an experienced and skilled lover who has explored this before will probably understand this and there are not many on here that do. So I am prepared to wait until I find the right one..

I realised in a previous affair that if something new is explored and enjoyed, the sex can change from pretty average to OMG give me more for both my lover and myself. However I am very much a warm, loving and tactile person too so would need the tenderness of kisses and cuddle with the right man.. If you cannot offer both and provide intimacy along with wild passion - there is no use in us chatting to be honest..

The first meet/date/whatever you want to call it: If you are one of these men that base all this on clichés like "the chemistry, the click and the connection" - do not even think about offering to meet me for a 'quick coffee' or a lunch date when I am still in work mode, not lover mode. You will get none of that chemistry malarkey with me on one of those dates - this is guaranteed. So if you think you might quite like me - patience is the key and wait for an evening date - simple :)

London based will work best for me as this is where I live and work so it will make things easier to meet.. Evenings are generally best but I can fit in the odd daytime at times.

Type - Hmmm let's leave this open for now. I have a thing for Jason Statham and Robert Downey Jr at the moment and they are both different types :) x

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Cycling, Shopping, Dancing, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Food and Wine

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