Crystal clear

About Me:

Personally and professionally I need to protect my privacy and reputation so I can guarantee my discretion. I am secure in who I am and take responsibility for my own happiness. My profession is all about helping people be all they can be and helping them to remove blocks to this. I am interested in people and I guess I could be described as bright and curious. I am also complex; sensitive, caring, explicitly conservative (small c) but equally sexually curious, adventurous, sensual and playful. I consider myself loyal (despite the contradiction of joining this site) although we are separated I respect my former partner and our children and don't want to hurt anyone on either side, I just don't want to wait another couple of years before I can enjoy some romance and male company so I will respect your situation and need you to respect mine. I expect to be treated with respect but am starved of a psychological, emotional and physical connection and a fulfilling sex life. I enjoy straightforward sensual seduction and equally a little spice - role play, toys... I also thrive on being spoiled, being made to feel special, desired, enjoyed in every aspect of a relationship. I want to laugh and have a little fun. I want to enjoy someone's company and just ask for honesty and straightforward communication. I am as comfortable with a picnic on a hill, chips by the sea, sitting in a car watching storm roll in at the coast, quaint cottages with log fires, great restaurants, boutique hotels or 5 star luxury. The company I am sharing it with and the chemistry are the key ingredients - I want us to like and want each other. I'm mindful of my physical appearance but not obsessed. 5ft 4", slim reasonably fit but no gym bunny but I am in proportion and not complacent. I'd say I'm generally well groomed but equally happy to pull on a pair of running shoes or walking boots and not feel the need for full make up. I enjoy making an effort and dressing to please myself and perhaps you? I am regularly told I look far younger than I am and I have my own style, quirky but not off the wall - not bothered about labels but generally more independent boutique than high street mainstream.

Ideal Partner:

I don't care if you are a professional, a skilled tradesman or an entrepreneur. I am attracted to bright, emotionally literate men, I like to feel they are physically stronger than me, capable, self-assured not arrogant (or at least to keep a twinkle when they are), I am a pushover for a sexy accent, love regional accents especially Northern or Scottish or Irish (American) and I like my men tall (6ft+). Attractiveness is a package, so a sense of fun, sex appeal, personality and chemistry are more important than posterboy looks, not that I'm adverse to an attractive man. You don't have to have a six pack but you need to make an effort, be trim, wear clothes that suit you and smell good. If you have a hint of a muscular physique so much the better. Please be able to say what you mean and mean what you say, I want to flirt and have fun with you but no time for mind games.

Living just outside the top left hand corner of the M25 gives a generous area to play with, including London, Herts, Beds & Bucks. I also spend a reasonable amount of time in the Bristol area regularly which adds the M4 corridor. I am looking for an uncomplicated, informed adult friendship and perhaps lover in a brief or longterm relationship with no psychological game playing or agenda - but let's start with a coffee and see where it goes... Respect, honesty, friendship, fun and passion.

Other Interests:

Nature, Astrology / New Age, Shopping, Theatre / Ballet, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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