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red-hot-shoes

50, Essex

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Married, Curvaceous body
5'2''-5'6'' (157-169cm)
Looking for: Romance & Fun

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Management/HR
Education:  Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Blonde
Religion:  Protestant

Looking for Male between the ages of 33 and 52

Star Sign: Gemini
Last Active: Will put a smile on your face

About Me:

Please do not waste your time reading on and messaging if you are Separated or Divorced or Single!This site is called Illicit Encounter - not 'Explicit Encounter'. If you are 'not attached' - you would struggle to understand the concept of a discreet liaison - by which I mean : phoning and texting each other is a NO NO! Having said that - of course, we would keep the flame alive by e-mailing mainly (texting only on the days we meet up) - therefore I expect you to be a good communicator in writing.
Hmmm - interests and hobbies, very unlikely we will have time to do those.
Evening out? in an ideal world it would be nice (perhaps once in a blue moon).
Weekend getaway... when my children are more independent - in 5 years time I will get back to this.
Married only! as those men who are 'Divorced' or 'Separated' have too much time to multiple date and mess about unless you have children in your care ...I doubt if an 'illicit limited liaison' would satisfy your needs ... Also - if your're still married but your children are 'grown & gone' -you would go for a different type of liaison ... that is why the age limit as I would prefer someone who is similar to my age and are in similar shoes ...
I am a very open minded, non-judgemental, educated (but can play it down when necessary...)
I believe we should just have coffee 1st to see if there is real connection or not (if not -it would be awkward to sit through a 3 course meal...)
Please note that if we get to the stage of me sending my picture password first and you don't ?! yet carry on pursuing the meet up ... well, you will not hear from me (as you should reveal yourself to me at the same time I do...)
Please also note that all auto-Virtual Kisses will be auto-deleted ('tit for tat' )... I am an attractive lady with 'au naturel' features and still can make turn heads but NOT a cartoon character 'fantasy woman' (no waspie hips, no crane legs, no 'Rapunzel neverending hair' ... I am amazed how many of you seek those 'sugarbabe- types' especial those 'emotionally retarded macho alpha-males who are stuck in their late 20s' ...)
I still have mid length blonde hair, white teeth, rosy cheek, 'mona lisa smile'.
I work hard to stay age-appropriately slim(ish -to stay size 14) : eat healthy and exercise regularly...
When we meet regularly I would always make an effort by wearing fitted dress, high heel shoes (yes- do have red ones...), manicured nails.
I will always smell nice and prefer natural floral fragrances.
I love seductive lingerie - especial those enhancing the good features (i.e. cleavage) and hide the not so good ones (i.e. 'mum-tum':-( not anywhere near perfect at all but at least I try NOT to become invisible ...

Ideal Partner:

Someone who cannot quit his current relationship due to other reasons (children - financial etc) but feels neglected and wants to feel 'wanted' and 'desired' again.
Someone who is trustworthy and means what he says and says what he means without being mean. (For example if we decide to take it further -you stop logging onto the site to keep peeping just in case 'someone even better' might just be around the corner...Remember non-members can view your profile in searches - even if you hide it ... )
Someone who has high standards and needs to relate to someone on more than just one level.You also need to be an excellent communicator - via e-mail as we will not be able to keep phoning each other in between meet ups.
IMPORTANT notice: if your e-mailing style is inconsistent and you think you can just e-mail on every 3rd day -why should I get intimate with you? If you are NOT able to let an e-mail conversation flowing by doing this daily or at least on every consecutive day - we are not going to keep that flame alive ...(perhaps we can discuss this on a coffee date as this is a crucial part of the liaison: what is too little or to excessive?)
NON-SMOKERS only!
Someone who thought this through and want to pursue an extramarital affair to stay sane for the sake of innocent significant others. You are preferably NOT a 'toe-dipper' who is just wondering around thinking :
"I just want to know if I could do this when I really need to..." (I have noticed those normally 'copy & paste' or send very blunt, meaningless messages ...) Also please don't copy &paste 'what you will do to me' before you even meet me in person!

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Alternative, Mountaineering, Sailing / Boating, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking

Gifts Received Recently :

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