Fraser70

About Me:

I hate these things, whoever writes bad things about themselves but here goes. It surely cant be all bad!

Who am I? Wow, that's tough!I well I like to think I'm well balanced. Well both my legs are the same length for starters, I'm happy to be quiet and laid back yet equally able to be passionate when the mood takes me. I'm self-aware, so while I'm confident and self-assured I would not say I was cocky, well I'am sometimes, cocky that is, but thats a guy thing. I probably err on the side of being light-hearted. I can find humour in almost all situations and I have seen a few situations. Serious when I need to be but who can't be nowadays, I have always been adventurous although I do feel I was held back by the wrong person for too many years, why do we do that?. Only occasionally through business have I flapped my wings but now Iam addressing my personal life and Iam ready to explore, so Iam looking for a female explorer, an adventurer, a proper get up and go girl, someone whoes default mouth is curved uwards want to occasionally to pin you up against a wall or hold you tight. So definaetly someone that is interested in looking over the brough of a hill, even in the rain it is Scotland afterall. Who knows it might even be sunny sometimes. Iam not sure where it will take us but it's got too be better than doing nothing I have stuck with the status quo for too long and I want to give this a go before I buy a dog and have him fetch my slippers.

I guess you still need to know the boring stuff too, I would describe myself as a decent guy, respect is most definaetly a two way road. I have a good circle of friends who seem to like me, young in mind and body, and warm-hearted and kind. I am easy going, open-minded and passionate about many subjects, except soaps and reality tv although I have been sucked into love island by the office now and again. I am a romantic soul, very loyal and I would get much joy from pampering the right person and making her feel special and unique, I did say I was looking for a female (must check that!). Honesty and straightforwardness is important to me. I enjoy most things in life and at the same time I’m a man with substance, open minded and have my own opinions about things. I am very appreciative of good music, good food, and good conversation. I have a very positive outlook on life and I would say I am successful in my field of work. Have travelled and worked all over the world and have an intrest in a variety of cultural things as well as the arts. Enough I rambling now...

Shit, did I mention kissing, intimacy! and a down right good cuddle!! Jesus the whole point!! and before you say it, I don't believe you, I want a woman that wants to be passionately embraced, pinned to a wall, laid on a table, explored with all the want and yearning of man that wants to make you feel like the only woman on the planet because that's how you make me feel if I connect. I want that and more importantly I want to give it to the right person. And whatever we all say that's what deep down we are all really missing. Conclusion, real honesty, possibility of laughter, total respect for where you are, and those butterflies!!! the ones that make you want to run to the person as they arrive off a flight, a train or return with just your Starbucks coffee. What do you have too loose, nothing is the answer. A bad date so what really in the face of it so what!Ok, I am butt ugly. But I have been told for years that looks dont matter, the reality I found very early in life is much different! I am 5ft 11in but much taller if I am standing on something. I have short hair but if u prefer long hair, I can grow it, I think, no on second thoughts I dont think I could now, have to appeal to someone that likes "shortening" hair, but there wasnt a box for that. Broad shoulders both physically and mentally. I used to swim competitively, now I just ride once or twice a week, horses that is.

Iam sorry I honestly don't know how to describe my physique. 'Athletic' seems to imply sinewy (which I'm not), 'sporty rugby build' implies a beer gut (again, not), but average sounds so, well, average! Most of my clothes are 'medium' though in some shops I can be large (how very dare they!). I have been told I have nice blue eyes but Iam not sure I can believe anything my ex-wife said :-) (I've received compliments for other parts too but that's maybe for another day!).My clothes really depend on what I'm doing :-)). Iam in a suit most of the week, and on the other days I take my tie off.

And finally, for those of you who seem to be concerned about personal hygiene - I know where the deodrant and aftershave aisles are in my local Boots!!! :)

Ideal Partner:

I'm looking for the things I realize are no longer in my life and that I miss. - The playing, teasing, silliness and flirting...the intensity and passion of a sensual relationship...the tingle that runs down your spine when you feel a lover's touch....getting lost together in a lingering kiss...the anticipation between meetings...the texts and emails you share when apart - sometimes thoughtful and caring, sometimes just downright x-rated! I'm too young for those things to be no longer in my life. I need to share those special, stolen moments with someone special, whether it be a quick coffee, a lazy long lunch, a lost evening in a crowded bar, a romantic dinner, or waking you up in the mornng with my touch maybe.....

I suppose put simply someone who I feel a connection with.Someone who is intelligent and enjoys good conversation.Someone who enjoys new challenges would be good and sees life as a journey and tries to embrace it.Also someone who enjoys passionate lovemaking and is a creative lover.Someone who is very comfortable in her femininity and is spontaneous and creative and loves new exciting challenges.

It has to be fun, no point this being about unneccesary drama or mind games. It needs to be something that enhances both our lives, not makes them more complicated. An escape from the everyday stresses and strains. And it has to be based on genuine, sincere friendship and mutual respect.

So you won’t find me camped outside your office or going demented if I don’t hear back immediately after sending a message, we all have lives and things we wish to protect so when you can message I love the tingles those give when they arrive but no issues if those are at times when you are able to do so.

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Cycling, Cricket, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf, Motor Racing, Sailing / Boating, Ice / Snow Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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