ruthe1-4me

About Me:

Why am I here?
I am happily married (18 years) and plan to stay that way but seeking some extra fun, excitment and adventure in my life. Life is too short and one needs to relax and like most marriages after a length of time, it lacks spice! In my 40's I have been told not to be too fussy, ok, but I do have standards and therefore very selective.
My career is high profile professional field which can be very demanding which also requires a very high level of education. A sense of humour - mine can be wicked - can help to take away stress and turmoil of business life.
I enjoy spoiling and being spoiled, not a bunny boiler nor am I seeking complications (not an agony aunt and not seeking anyone seeking an excuse to get out a marriage or looking for a shoulder to cry on) nor do I give them and not seeing commitment apart from friendship, fun and excitiement. Not seeking a quick s***.
I would be considered a country girl, though work in the city and like city life. I dress for the occassion whither evening gowns, business suits or rugby shirts, wellies and jeans at weekends. Football is not my game - love and follow the oval ball game (rugby) and enjoy the occassional g&t, fine food and wine and cooking. My interests in life are listed.
I am not on Facebook, Twitter or any social network site, not seeking a relationship with a pc screen! Being tall 5'10" with an average build for my height, I have been told I have nice legs, fabulous boobs and nice rear - all my own, nothing artificial, no silicon, botox - just me, and I dont dye my hair either! I would be considered as a "storm in a B cup" - 38! No wrinkles to be seen.
I have always been told my best features are my eyes which do the talking and my smile which can be wicked and flirty! The body parts which can be seen!
I do like to dress smartly from the inside out - just incase you have to fo to A&E, not that I plan to!

Ideal Partner:

Can I say I am not seeking anyone seperated, divorced or otherwise. Preferably married and within my age bracket of 39 - 49 only.It is virtually impossible for me to meet lucnhtimes or through my business day, and preferance would be given to anyone who can meet occassional weekend (even weekends away - I do have flexabilty due to my husbands travels) and in evening.
Being educated and in professional career it would meeting of minds and bodies. No one under 5'10" as I do like height in males. Not into overweight, tatoos or piercings asnd do like hair on head - sorry but shaved does nothing for me (I like to run my hands through a head of hair!)and excess body hair a turn off as well. I am being honest.
It would be nice to meet someone who enjoys the arts, theatre, dinning, rugby, winter sports, golf etc. The art of good conversation can be an aphrodisiac, as can flirty text / emails
I need someone to rekindle my fire. If you have the matches, extra long ones burn longer than short ones, I have the fuel once the flames are burning which requires very little additional material to be added!
A sense of humour, wicked and just a normal one required. Someone who enjoys life and living with a brain and not all brawn. A smile, well drssed male who dresses for the occassion. Not one seeking a quicj one night stand and another notch as I envisage longish term when time and priorities permit - I do have other priorities in life with close famliy, friends and business - and do not like pushy, arogant agressive males.

Fun, adventure and friendship .......

xx

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Cycling, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf, Dancing, Sailing / Boating, Ice / Snow Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Cooking, Food and Wine

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