destinysdream

About Me:

I am a mum, I have one daughter. I have a long term partner who I have been with for just over 7 years now. I do have a family set up going even though I am not married. Outside of that I work, I study and I don’t have much free time to myself but if the right person came along I would find time. Desire hasn’t waned but frequency has.

I tend to work 5 days over 2 weeks so 3 days on the first week and 2 the next. Hobbies and Interests: I suppose the general reading, movies, spending too much time on the internet and neglecting my child, having illicit affairs. Does it sound like I should be sitting on a stage having Jeremy Kyle shouting at me? Really though, nothing out of the ordinary.

Not a big fan of sports, watching or participating mainly because I have not found a sport that I am good at that doesn’t involve what could be a potential lethal weapon in the right hands. Just for future reference, I happen to be a great shot. I have done shooting (no animals have ever been harmed at my hands). I once shot a friend in the backside with my bb gun when I was about 12. I excelled at Archery, became the best in my school by a long shot (get it). I was also excellent at fencing. What else is there?

Friends, well my friends are bad influences that bring out ‘that’ side in me. I have a great and fun life, we don’t spend time having lunch in some obscure café being all civilised, we can generally be found in one of our houses having a laugh. Laughter surrounds my life, although saying that I am not anywhere near the lout that makes me sound like. The only thing we don’t share is I have a dislike for clubs and the club environment. I enjoy bars, pubs to a lesser extent, restaurants, etc…. My ideal is an evening in. Weekend get away, not really fussy just getting away is a great start. I have done a fair bit of travelling but there is always more to do… Right, specifics. I think I done the hair/eye thing somewhere on here already. I am British born but as stated I have a West Indian background so yes that means I am black. Hair style, come on! I can assure you I have hair, the ones on my head I am particularly fond of. Body size? I am a comfortable 8/10 maybe 12 on a extremely fat day but I don’t have enough of those. For a complete and utter gym phobic I think I am blessed with a very co-operative body. Shape, I think I fulfil the Hourglass criteria. If a fashion designer asked me my dimensions I would respond 36-26-36 (I think) although it could be 34-24-34, watch this space. I suppose if Leonardo Da Vinci had the foresight to do the Vitruvian Woman I would probably fit that body shape. Although saying that I am convinced he had an affinity for the male of the species (did I just say that?). Also I think I have a nice bum and ample enough breasts to complement my bum, just a normal girl, no plastic yet.

Clothing style: Work, casual conservative smart. Actually that is a lie. I would say slightly erring on the side of appropriate. Play, well situation dependant. I do have a preference for figure flattering or hugging clothing.

Ideal Partner:

First one is easy, someone who takes life with a pinch of salt, otherwise honestly I would probably drive someone crazy if they didn’t have that attitude as I am pretty easy going and I have a live and let live attitude. Enjoys banter and teasing and is not sensitive. Is it too much to ask for someone that is emotionally healthy? Also I am charismatic and it would be nice to meet someone that can function socially and carry a decent conversation.

I tend to gravitate to the higher end of my specified age range, main reason being I find sex gets more mutually satisfying the older a man gets. But I also have to draw a line somewhere and that is pretty optimistic.

Please I am not interested in being with anyone that is ‘testing the waters’. If you don’t understand what I mean, don’t bother responding. Values and Morals: It would be nice if you have some. A nice, friendly polite person is always preferable to an arrogant, ignorant one.

Discriminately, I would like/prefer a masculine physique. Around the 6ft upwards mark. It would be nice if men actually had the body they describe themselves as having or actually put up photos of themselves that still look like them and not previous to putting on 10 plus pounds. If you haven’t noticed I have a preference for a masculine, average or athletic physique.

Not hairy would be a preference but I understand it is the male of the species I am dealing with so I am willing to compromise. Some hair on the head would be my compromise. A nice bum as well would be nice. Hair colour/type I prefer non blondes, so anyone else really. Blue eyes are my least favourite but really aren’t eyes that eyes? And isn’t hair just hair? They are preferences and not written in stone. Race irrespective, I do not see race and nor should you. Well put together and hygienic is always welcomed.

Living or working nearby would be preferable.
I am sure I will think of further things that will be added/omitted in future revisions based on my experience on here.

*(1st Revision) Non-Smoker*

Other Interests:

Nature, Astrology / New Age, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Shopping, Dancing, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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