Personal Information |
| Religion |
Atheist |
Eye Colour |
Grey |
| Drinking |
Light / Social Drinker |
Hair Colour |
Blonde |
| Smoking |
Non-Smoker |
Build |
Average |
| Height |
5'2''-5'6'' (157-169cm) |
Education |
Bachelors Degree |
| Occupation |
Advert/Media/Entertain |
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Interests |
Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Politics, Literature / History, Singing / Playing Instrument, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine |
Ideal Partner: |
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Male
between the ages of 45 and 74
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| A compatible personality wins over looks every time - if we can talk and laugh together the signs are good. The qualities that are important to me are: warmth, someone tactile, bright, emotionally secure and mature. I am not looking for a string of contacts, or a player, but for someone special - someone genuine, nice, comfortable with themselves and their life, articulate, honest (within the confines of this kind of relationship, I do appreciate the irony!). I like kindness, intelligence, a dry sense of humour, a quick wit. And sensuality. With a capital S. I want to meet someone who makes me tingle, who inspires thoughts of a decadently frisky afternoon in a sun-dappled hotel room, not someone who inspires thoughts of shoving a shopping trolley around Sainsburys! For ease of meeting the Central Belt of Scotland is preferable, though other areas are not entirely out of the question. And I am seeking a long-term relationship/friendship. Casual encounters can be fleeting fun and would have appealed about 20 years ago. Now I would like something more tangible. But I do understand 'the rules'. I have had an extremely long-term affair previously, which was wonderful and entirely discreet - but circumstances changed. If I could have this kind of long-term, mutually rewarding, mutually affectionate relationship again it would be amazing. |
| Type of Relationship
Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, See how it goes |
More Information |
| General |
| I am a bright, warm, affectionate, tactile, sensuous woman, looking for an inspiring, similarly sensuous lover, who will also become a close friend. I am not looking for an exit from my happy, companionable marriage. But I am seeking a relationship - key word - that is more than 'no strings fun', which, to me, implies the most fleeting level of acquaintance. I am seeking someone in my life who is relatively long-term. I have absolutely no interest in being just a notch on your bedpost - and am looking for someone who is interested in being more than just that on mine. If your idea of a relationship is a perfunctory meeting for coffee and then half-a-dozen bunk-ups, then please pass on by. I think we need to be on the same wavelength and enjoy the delightfully humorous aspects of life - and would also like someone who is warm, bright, caring, sensitive, a good listener as well as a talker, and deliciously naughty (within a cerebral context, that's usually where the secrets of good sex are found). I would like to meet someone with an enthusiastic and earthy appreciation of the pleasures a man and woman can indulge in. I'm not particularly in tune with gym fanatics, pc obsessives, car or other gadget bores. I have no problems meeting someone younger than myself - up to, say, 10 years. But a more mature relationship also appeals - I love the quiet confidence and, generally, realistic expectations of most older men, and I am extremely understanding when gravity sometimes takes its toll! I've been told lots of times that I don't look my age, but I must emphasise that I AM still this age chronologically - I am not trying to fool myself, or you! Would love to meet someone who enjoys great books, excellent films, interesting travel, good food and wine and exploring one's desires. Weekends (or part of) can sometimes be good for me, afternoons relatively good, evenings and overnights negotiable - but not impossible. Detest text-speak and find 'lol' the biggest turn-off - just sounds far too pre-pubescent. And please don't bother sending me a virtual kiss - it's just too lazy. If you like the sound of me, then write to me - and engage with me, reveal something of your delightful personality, don't just go for the ultimate cop out of 'how are you today?'or 'want to chat?'. Be as inspiring as I know you are. I am absolutely not hung up on people's looks. What is more important to me is to feel an empathy, an understanding, a sense of similar values. But, naturally, there does need to be a mutual spark of desire in order to ignite a relationship - and that cannot be engineered. Have been told that perhaps my standards are too high for a prospective affair! But why would one ever compromise about such an important step? |
| My Appearance |
| So, what do I bring to the party? Well,I am about 5'3", my hair is blonde and medium-length, I wear specs and I am the British average size 16, certainly not huge but absolutely no sylph, so if a gamine physique is where it's at for you, then I'm not your gal! I emphatically do not believe, and never will, that pushing a lettuce leaf around a plate is a satisfying meal. And I will not forego a very enjoyable glass of red over dinner. My 'mantra' is to enjoy a life of modified hedonism, so that I can enjoy to the full the only life I am very likely to have. And the hedonism applies to being here, of course! My best features - I'm good, relaxing company and have a great sense of humour. I am kind, accepting and an attentive listener. And I am very tactile, enjoying gentle stroking and firmer massage. Whether you are attracted to me or not depends on individual preferences. And vice-versa, naturally. I like to relax so my dress is modern casual, though I also like dressing up for special occasions, though, let it be noted, I never wear high heels. I prefer to walk, not totter. |
