SecretPlaymate

About Me:

I would like to begin a close friendship with a married lady, that if the chemistry was right, would develop on the physical side.

I am a passionate, tactile, generous, fun loving person who believes we should enjoy life. Like most people on this site I have been married for a long time and it is now a relationship of friendship and respect without any of the passion that used to be there.

I am not looking for a string of lovers or for a heavy relationship. I am searching for just one very special lady to be my secret friend and confidante.

I have recently retired from a job that took me all over the World, I have lived &/or worked on every continent besides Antarctica. I still love to travel, especially to small islands with lots of sun.

I truly love to be by the ocean, my ideal evening being a stroll along the surf line as the sun sinks slowly on the horizon followed by an intimate dinner at a small restaurant by the beach.

Aside from the ocean the things that really interest me are science, history, art, travel, nature, ideas, theatre and good conversation. Of course I also like to spend an evening at a restaurant with some interesting company and good food and wine.

I am a member of several clubs and societies, meaning I am often out of the house and so meetings during the day or in the evening are easily arranged, but in order that we could have both regular and impromtu meetings I would prefer my ideal partner to live or work reasonably close to where I live.ie. Within about 60 miles of Olney in Buckinghamshire. I am 5'10, with blue eyes and brown hair, though there's quite a bit of grey too. I have an average build and try to keep fit, by regular exercise - mostly long walks, cycling, and running – in addition a fair amount of time at the gym now seems to be becoming necessary to counteract the occasional indulgences.

I used to wear suits for work but having recently retired I now prefer to be casual or smart/casual but am happy to dress more formally when necessary.

Ideal Partner:

I am looking for an interesting and discreet, friend, confidante, and potentially a lover too. I am not looking for another wife, but a female friend with whom I can enjoy intimate meetings and chats when possible, and illicit texts and phone calls when not.

The lady I seek is imaginative, amusing, relaxed, honest, happy to discuss anything, with a good sense of humour and a ready desire to explore a new friendship.

My ideal partner is very tactile, an accomplished kisser who loves to be hugged.

With the right person I will want the relationship to develop into one which will be exciting and fulfilling. Ideally this will be a relationship where each meeting is eagerly anticipated by both of us - probably with a little trepidation at first. This would be our own special World of enjoyment and escapism which we would inhabit as circumstances allow, before returning to our regular life with eager thoughts and anticipation of our next meeting.

I am not looking to destroy my marriage or anyone else’s so I guarantee complete discretion and will expect the same from you

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Country, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - World, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Cycling, Gym / Aerobics, Motor Racing, Athletics, Mountaineering, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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