||Church of England
||Light / Social Drinker
||6'0'' (183cm) or above
Nature, Gardening, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Cycling, Cricket, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Shopping, Athletics, Mountaineering, Ice / Snow Sports, Water Sports, Cooking, Food and Wine
between the ages of 35 and 55
|I don't believe you can specify what kind of person you are looking for, but you just know fairly instantly when you click with someone! However, they should probably be smart, able to talk about most things, empathetic and slim to medium build. Not that this rules anyone out! Good manners, responsiveness and courtesy are a must and lack of those qualities is an instant turn off for me. I also don't do 'pretentious' and find modesty and self-deprecation charming qualities. I am also not into anyone who wants some sort of implicit or explicit exchange of sex for weekends away, boutique hotels and shopping trips. I am happy to do those things but not in the same way as I think some people occasionally suggest on here!|
|Type of Relationship
Friendship, Romance & Fun, See how it goes|
|I live on the south coast between Portsmouth and Brighton, but have a job that takes me all over the south and sometimes to other parts of the country. Therefore, I am pretty flexible in terms of meeting up, an important prerequisite! Happily married, but am searching for a caring, thoughtful and sexy 'other partner' - as much as that is possible given the territory. The relationship needs to be discreet obviously but not necessarily 'NSA' as I think some attached strings make it far more interesting, anticipatory and ultimately alluring and sexy!|
I love many sports, and do a lot of running and triathlons to keep fit. Like most other human beings, I enjoy eating out etc and, rather unusually, love shopping! I am also an avid reader and quite good gardener, or so people tell me. I could tell you a lot more about myself, but I rather dislike the idea of too much self-promotion. I don't think I've ever met or seen quite so many perfect people in real life as there are on this site and we all pretty much know that just can't be the case!!
One thing please to note and that is if I send you what I hope you will deem to be a nice message, please don't just email me back asking for a photo. You will get no further response from me. I find that rude and somewhat demeaning. It smacks of the woman deciding whether she thinks I will be good enough for her, a trait I dislike intensely and which my own self-respect etc allows me to feel is an inappropriate way to get a connection going. Any relationship that I would hope to have from here would need to be based on democratic decision-making, discretion and empathy. I hope that doesn't sound too rude or that it will put anyone off.
|Blonde, blue eyes, tall and with an athletic build. My best features are probably my legs from all that running! Like to think I have a great personality but not going to dress it up on here, as doesn't everyone... Find out for yourself!|