Dr_Lecter

About Me:

I had a 3 year affair before, and it was amazing, 3 years of continuing butterflies. Would love to replicate something similar to that.

I am very much a free spirit, maverick, contrarian, and would be looking for a lady who is similar. I retired financially free at age 36, and have been having one long weekend for the last 15 years.

I am a very tactile, intelligent, passionate, quirky fella. Have a stunningly sarcastic, cheeky sense of humour, I tease all the time, like to shock where possible! ;) I am very spontaneous, try to do something outrageous everyday to keep life full!

I'm a HUGE fan of Christopher Hitchens (I'll be super impressed if you even know who that is, If you have a favourite "Hitchslap", I will be weak at the knees!). Due to Hitch, I am very big into critical thinking, logic, and rational debate. I am pretty hardcore atheist, having spent 15yrs inside a fundamentalist, high demand religion. So I've seen both sides of the "belief spectrum", and for me life is much much happier without the "God Delusion"

I was fortunate to built a property portfolio big enough that enabled me to retire from working. After retiring I became a professional poker player. I did that for about 10-12yrs, and now, I am completely immersed in the world of Blockchain technologies, Pre-seed venture capital crypto project investing and day trading crypto using the Technical Analysis skills I have learnt.

I am married, and have no desire of changing that. I ADORE my wife therefore discretion is 100% vital for me. So ideally you will be in a similar situation, and therefore treat it seriously having something to lose also.

I am only looking for ONE person that I can connect with. An adult bf/gf relationship, that understands the limitations of how far it can go from the outset. Yet is excited to throw themselves into whatever connections, understandings and pleasures we can enjoy. Our very own personal, secret. Where nothing is off the table, nothing is expected and an acceptance of the fortune we have found to have our little secret.

(I have put "recreational smoker" in the basic info. For clarity, I don't smoke cigarettes. I smoke a couple of cannabis joints a day normally)

Quite simply, I have emotional and sexual needs that are just not being met, and so here I am...... again.

Ideal Partner:

What am I looking for? I'm looking for a lady who wants back that spark. Wants that deep feeling of longing in there stomach that we all had as kids. That longing that you feel it physically in your stomach its so bad.

You DON'T have to have catwalk model looks! The brain is by far the most attractive part of a woman to me.

You must be able to tease and be teased, or I'll frustrate the hell out of you. And probably under appreciated emotionally and sexually. Have passions that are not satisfied, but willing to take risks it to have those needed desires quenched.

A light/medium Sub looking for her Dom/Daddy for scenes to suit.

Are there secret parts of you that has always wanted to do something but you've never had chance to try? We could be a clean slate for each other, where we could try those curiosities out.

I would want you to be spontaneous like me, when the urge comes, it has to be satisfied, no matter where we are! ;)

Love to talk and talk and talk.

Ideally you will be in a committed long term relationship as well. I say ideally, as I simply think it's safer for both of us. Both need to have something to lose, to help maintain the discretion. Be open and honest about who we are, and what we are able to give the other. No broken promises or unfulfilled dreams.

Just you and me, with our own very private agreement. Giving to each other, that something that is missing and we crave.

I am only interested in meeting people who are serious about wanting an "illicit relationship", once we have found each other. I am not looking for a string of one night stands but a serious illicit partner to help us meet the needs that aren't being met elsewhere in our lives..... is that you?

Other Interests:

Nature, Music - Alternative, Music - Rock, Politics, Literature / History, Religion, Shopping, Sailing / Boating, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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