Virilitas

About Me:

I'm sure I'm like many others on this site, in a long-term marriage in which the intimacy part has died and cannot be revived no matter how much I try. I feel I'm too young to become a celibate and so, after much careful thought, I find myself here searching for that special someone in the same boat as me. I love my wife and I'm not about to leave her, nor am I wanting to upset anyone else's life.

I'm tall, quite fit - I do love cycling - and of a decent build; I'm not fat, I don't have a paunch, but I'm not Superman. I've often been told I'm not bad looking, but I know looks are subjective. Beard or no beard - your choice. I'm degree-educated, and like to think I'm reasonably intelligent and kind hearted, caring and considerate - and I do like a laugh! I'm retired now but I was a senior manager.

I'm definitely not weird or creepy or anything like that (do weird or creepy men know they're weird or creepy? Answers on a postcard!), I'm just an ordinary man, missing the thrilling and beautiful closeness of a woman, who can be depended on to be loving, attentive and discreet. I'm not looking for a one-night stand - that just isn't me. I'm looking for one special woman. I am very open-minded sexually, willing and confident in the bedroom (or wherever takes your fancy), and miss flirting and kissing - I do love to kiss!

I have recently been putting plans into place so I can meet someone during the daytime and perhaps even an overnight stay here and there too.

Ideal Partner:

Are you a woman who wants the same as me - married but missing intimacy in her life and needing more than you're getting at home? I'd prefer you were married so that we might share the same risks, if that makes sense. Age, creed, colour or body shape is not important to me - what matters more is a connection with you. As I've said already, I'm not about to leave my wife or cause any upset to anyone else's marriage - what I am looking for is an ordinary nice woman who wants the same as me, a physical but friendly relationship with someone who can be trusted to be genuine and discreet. Someone who is not afraid of her sexuality and willing to explore it with me. A long-term relationship would be wonderful, but of course we'll take it one step at a time and see what happens. I confess I do have a weakness for stockings and heels (not on me, of course!), but naturally they're not prerequisites! Sexy messages in between meets to add to the thrill are something I'd look forward to.

Someone relatively local would be great, but I can travel, within reason, further afield into Dorset and Devon, for the right person.

Please, please be realistic - we are both married and we both know we can't have the relationship that we would if we were singles; so if you want moonlit walks on beaches or long romantic days out together followed by a candlelit dinner for two in a cosy restaurant, then I'm afraid I'm not your man and you're probably on the wrong site. That's not to say we can't have a romantic relationship within the confines imposed on us by our respective marriages (I like romance) but in the end we both know why we're on here and what we're missing at home. Finally, no God's gift to men or slaves to the latest designer clothes; I find an attractive personality far more sexy and arousing.

So, after all that, if you're out there and interested then please don't hesitate to contact me and have a chat or send a kiss - but no gifts please!

Thanks for looking!

XX

PS: if you send a message and I don't answer straight away, please believe me when I say I'm not being rude - I have my reasons - and I promise I will get back to you as soon as I am able.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Cycling, Singing / Playing Instrument, Movies / Cinema

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