calmstrider

About Me:

Fun-loving, outgoing, and practical—I’m an IT professional with my own business and a busy, family-centered life. I’m someone who values being reliable, thoughtful, and quietly present for others. But after years of doing the right thing, I’ve realised I’ve slowly lost something of myself in the process.

I miss the feeling of being wanted. Of being looked at, touched, and remembered, not just as a role I play, but as a man.

Ideal Partner:

I’m seeking a discreet, recurring connection with someone who understands the quiet space between duty and desire. Ideally, a strong, feminine woman who enjoys the physical side of connection but also understands the importance of trust, mutual respect, and clear boundaries.

This isn’t about disrupting anyone’s life, it’s about reclaiming a small, private piece of intimacy that’s gone missing.

If you value intimacy, warmth, and occasional escape with no pressure or games, I’d love to hear from you.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Dance / Electronic, Nightclubs / Clubs, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Gym / Aerobics, Motor Racing, Ice / Snow Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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