SomethingWithSubstance

About Me:

I’m 49 years old, 6 foot 2, blonde hair, blue eyed.

I’m broad shouldered, and I am thin.

I wear rimless glasses.

I work in finance.

English is my first language but I don’t have an English accent …

People tell me I look Dutch but I’m not, though my 2nd language is similar to Dutch …

I’m open minded, intelligent & friendly. I have a serious job and a very unserious alter-ego …

I enjoy joking & laughing, eating steak & drinking bourbon, listening to music and reading. I am somewhat hedonistic.

I’m in an OPEN marriage … ideally you are too? It’s not a deal breaker though, even if it would be nice.

I am definitely looking for a 1-on-1 relationship / connection “thing”….

This does not mean I’m looking for something that contains any kind of … “HEAVY EMOTIONAL GRAVITY” … 100% that’s NOT my goal.

Far from it.

I’m just being practical …. i.e …. The best “intimacy” is between people who are free to be “uninhibited”.

You can’t be “uninhibited” if you’re worried about sexual health, which you should be … if you aren’t in a mutually committed “situation” … where you’ve exchanged tests etc.

What am I bringing to the table?

I am hungry to pour excess amounts of energy, adoration, attention, passion & love into someone I can bond with.

You have your life and I have mine.

We will have strict boundaries so that we’re both comfortable and mutual respect is prioritised.

But … we’ll also have each other.

Not forever obviously …
Though perhaps …
For a while …
If we’re sufficiently fortunate & persistent …
And that’s enough.

If you’d like to be treated this way, and you think we might click, please reach out let me know.

Take care. X

Ideal Partner:

A woman who is more outgoing by nature than reserved.

Intelligent.

Elegant.

Most of all … Someone who shares my vision and goal for this.

Other Interests:

Music - Alternative, Music - Dance / Electronic, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Latin, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Cooking, Food and Wine

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