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About Me:

Professional guy looking to spend time with a woman who knows what she’s looking for…

Not my first time on IE, having been here and found what I was looking for back in 2017.

Back then I quickly worked out I wasn’t looking for a harem (something someone I chatted to said appeared to be the aim of a number of men) and after a month or so I started what turned out to be a long-term affair. Following a clean-break divorce, that affair morphed into my current, non-monogamous relationship (open on a ‘don’t ask/ don’t tell’ basis).

I’m now looking to add an extra dimension of passion and excitement into my life, BUT I’m not looking to replace my current relationship. I’ve ticked the boxes which said ‘Casual’ and ‘Short-term’, but I’m equally open to a long-term affair should I click with someone intellectually and physically.

Me? I’m 6’3” and have the shape of an ex-rugby player - think broad shoulders and chest with some blurring around the edges that wasn’t there in my playing prime. I recall that having a full head of hair and mouthful of my own teeth was important back in 2017 and I can report both are still there in 2024. I have been told I’m attractive to the opposite sex, but you can decide if we share passwords at some stage. It may sound arrogant, but I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

I’ve been described as being dominant sexually with either an uppercase ‘D’ or a lowercase ‘d’ depending on the situation. If you’re looking for someone with a submissive side I’m definitely not your guy. I’m equally turned on by ‘regular’ sex as I am by sex that includes some kink or D/s. I’m more than happy to stay within boundaries or push them a little (or a lot) as long as there’s good connection and communication.

I currently spend half my time in London and half my time in Oxford. I work from home the majority of the time so can be quite flexible if daytime liaisons are your kind of thing.

Ideal Partner:

What am I looking for? That’s a hard question to answer, because I don’t have a ‘type’, but the headline has to be I’m not looking for someone who is seeking an exclusive relationship as I’m not looking to change my domestic situation/ partner.

My ideal woman will be confident, intelligent and a great communicator. Like me, she will be respectful and discrete.

Sexually, I’m seeking a women who is open-minded and adventurous. She will know what she wants and won’t be afraid to say so.

It goes without saying there has to be a physical and sexual attraction, but I have a wide view of what I find attractive in a woman.

If that sounds like you, then I’d very much like to chat with you to discuss possibilities.

A reasonable collection of black lingerie is a definite bonus - I’m more than happy to add to that collection over time.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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