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About Me:

This isn’t my first time here. I met a wonderful IE here and our time together unfortunately had to end.

Unlike many people on here I’m not married or in a relationship. I have no want for a traditional relationship at this time in my life but I miss companionship and intimacy, it’s why we’re all here fundamentally.

I also prefer the transparency of this site as opposed to dating apps or the outright sex based hook up sites. IE seems to strike a happy medium.

I’m 5’8” as height seems to be important to many ladies. I’m in good shape, I work out daily but it's more about cardio and being healthy. So I'm not ripped, but I do have plenty of stamina :-)

I took early retirement this year from a business I own and as such my time is my own, day time, evenings or weekends, I can fit in with you and as I live alone I can also accommodate.

I’m looking for a FWB. Someone who wants to spend time socially as well as physically. One person only, preferably a monogamous relationship (ironic I guess) at times that suit. I have no interest in ONS or NSA type meetups.

Whilst this isn’t a dating site, there obviously needs to be a connection, an attraction. So a first meet for a coffee or glass of wine is a must to see if we hit it off.

Happy to exchange pw early and won't be the slightest bit offended if I "Don't do it for you"

Ideal Partner:

Just be normal, girl/mum next door type. I like a lady with a little shape to her, a few curves, womanly but not obese please.

If you use lots of filler, have puffy lips, wear enormous amounts of make up and have fake fingernails like talons then we’re probably not for each other.

Likewise if the words bants or banter are in your vocabulary and you feel the need to end every sentence with the word “like” then we’re also probably not going to hit it off.

In my time here I've met a number of Boss Lady, strong career women. Ladies that know what they want, have a very specific man in mind. I used to be that man. I'm not him now, I'm not going to pretend to be him. I'm quite laid back, I retired at 54 and outwardly it appears I won at the game of life. But trust me when I tell you it can feel like an empty victory.

You're here for the same reason I'm here. All the "stuff" in the world means nothing. It's people and connections, intimacy and joy that we desire. The rest is just stuff.

So if your search is being driven, either consciously or subconsciously by hypergamy then the chances are you're not going find what you're looking for in me.

You’re looking for someone to make you feel special, to pay you attention physically and emotionally in a way that’s currently missing from your life. You need to find the man that makes you feel wanted again, makes you want get all those sexy undies out the drawer that have been pushed to the back in the hope they'll get some use at some point in the future. I'd like to be the man that makes you feel that way again.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gym / Aerobics, Movies / Cinema

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