Indie-skies

About Me:

Right, so let’s get to the point. I’m freshly separated after a long marriage which had become sexless and now I want some fun! But I am not looking for a replacement relationship. Nor am I looking for a series of ONS. I guess when it comes down to it I want a friend with benefits. Someone in a similar situation who wants the spark back in their lives with someone they fancy and click with.

Discretion and respect for boundaries is important, and so is my privacy, so please don’t expect an invite back to mine (especially if we’ve only just met). I also have no interest in wrecking relationships that might also be sexless but which remain committed - I totally understand that set up.

Ideally I would prefer someone in similar location who can find time to meet evenings and weekends sometimes. I have a demanding job so breaking away during the day is not really an option.

I would describe myself as blonde, curvaceous, average height, blue eyes.

Ideal Partner:

I didn’t think I had a type until I joined IE. But it turns out I do. I prefer you to be taller than me and I have developed a liking for a well groomed beard although that’s not a deal breaker. Intelligence and wit and the ability to keep a conversation going also helps - awkward silences can kill a vibe instantly.

I am also clear on what I don’t want .. as a fifty something woman I have a few body hang ups and so need to feel comfortable and not judged if I’m getting intimate with someone new. So I don’t want or need a chiselled Adonis. If you are one and have no issue with a few wobbly bits then bring it on. But if you’re also a bit self conscious don’t be. Flirting and personality also go a long way with me.

Oh, and to top it all off .. blimey I’m being very demanding aren’t I.. for that extra fizz of excitement. while I don’t want just a penpal, I do enjoy hot messaging in between meetings, fuelling my imagination and keeping me on my toes. So the ability to hold my attention that way is also fun! That’s for when I’ve got to know you though.. not straight out of the gate please because that’s just creepy!

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Country, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Rock, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema

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