Thoughtleader

About Me:

An intelligent, experienced dominant man. I want to take charge, control you and discipline you.

I'm experienced in this sort of thing, and real. I've done all of the standard kinky things—spanking, bondage and much more. But what really drives me is the mental, emotional connection between a dominant man and a submissive woman. I'm a red-blooded male but this is not just about sex or the bedroom for me. It's about actually controlling you. I'm decisive, and authoritative, and demand respect.

To spell that out in clear, practical terms, I'm as interested in telling you when to sit and stand, in choosing your food and what you wear, and in speaking firmly to you, as I am in commanding you to your knees. Sex is just something I would use to dominate you further. If that sounds interesting to you, then it's worth saying hello.

In fact if you do say hello, use the phrase "intense moody tango" somewhere in your message. That's not a bad image of what it's like to know me, and will show me you've read this. I've chosen my profile picture carefully, as a way of encapsulating what it can be like to be with me.

I like traditional masculinity and femininity, and wants us very much to contrast in that way. If you don't like the idea of putting on a dress or skirt, then I'm not for you.

I'm also approachable and encouraging, and able to go gently with someone who's new to this.

All my relationships have been kinky in varying degrees, and I'm in a kinky relationship now. Those relationships involve all the same ups and downs as vanilla relationships. I'm not looking to change my relationship status or yours.

I'm interested in all sorts of encounters, and will happily dominate you by setting rules for you when we're not together if you're open to that, as well as when we are together. I'll explain what I mean if you're interested.

Ideal Partner:

An intelligent, submissive, feminine woman who wants to be with an intelligent, decisive, authoritative man. I tend to get on with shy and anxious women, and women who like to have decisions made for them and to be told what to do.

I don't like bratting, or mix well with brats. I want an uncomplicated "Yes, Sir!" attitude from you.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Literature / History, Dancing, Computers / Internet, Water Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Food and Wine

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