Mister-Grieves

About Me:

I want to do things so wild with you that I don't know how to say them.
-- Anaïs Nin

Like most people here, I'm married and not looking to change that. But there's no real intimacy in my life anymore. I've had an affair before so I know how it works.

I'm a well educated professional working in IT sales. For fun I love to travel, cook, see live music (especially punk, heavy metal and alternative)., and nights out with friends.

I'm a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Because of my job I scrub up well when appropriate and look good booted and suited. I'm not much of a clothes horse though. I could use a new wardrobe, perhaps you could help me pick some things out.

I've decided to make some positive changes in my life. I've lost weight, quit smoking and am starting on a fitness journey. Getting in shape again has increased my sex drive. I thought I had made peace with my dead bedroom life. I've come to realise that's not going to be possible.

I'm looking for a woman who is in a similar situation to me and is looking to do something about it. Someone to share knowing glances, secrets, sex. A partner to sneak away with for a cheeky cup of coffee, afternoon hotel dalliance or a weekend away. Or sexting and chats when we can't meet in person.

Ideal Partner:

Nothing entered

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Music - Alternative, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Cycling, Athletics, Ice / Snow Sports, Computers / Internet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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