Nate2023

About Me:

Hello! I'm an outgoing, cheery, optimistic person to be around and always up for a drink and conversation and seeing where things might go. Maybe food/pub to see if we click, or just meeting up for something quicker and more spontaneous if the chemistry's there. I like to laugh, chat, and I don't take things too seriously once we get going. I also love walks in wild nature and on the coast, the arts, most sports, and keeping relatively fit. If you were to meet me you'd (hopefully!) say I'm smiley, friendly, confident and am interested in giving space to hear from others.

I'm in a marriage and have a family where all three people (partner included) require needs-based care, alongside also working full-time myself. I feel like the best of me is spread very thinly and there has been no sexual spark for a few years. I'm very much ready for some excitement, the thrill of a secret, to build up the anticipation, to recapture that feeling of meeting somebody where the atmosphere can get electric through those first looks, laughs, conversations and connections. I'm happy to travel to do this if meeting the right person means some effort (!) and if they like the spark of sharing pics/messages to keep the flame alive in-between times (and building anticipation).

I'm not interested in disrupting my own family dynamic but I am interested in having a space in my life that is utterly separate, playful, exciting and fun for the anticipation and feeling of what might be around the corner in our next meeting. All good things start over a drink and a chat so let me know if you want to meet and see what we make of one another!

Ideal Partner:

I'm looking for somebody who is also after some excitement, something outside the rest of their lives, need a bit of escape, some intimate connection and the thrill of meeting somebody new to whom they're genuinely attracted - or at least wanting to explore their feeling of attraction. Some things grow over time and some are instantaneous, so I've no preconceptions about how all this should work - it's about you and me and what we want to discover about one another.

I like women who are outgoing, curious, have a sense of confidence about them, and enjoy both a dry and a silly sense of humour. I love interesting people with something to say and a relaxed outlook on life. I don't really have a preferred body type or height or hair colour or anything - which isn't to say physical attraction isn't part of it, but I do believe it grows out of and is part of how people connect. Which all sounds a bit deep and serious (!) so why don't we just start it off and see where we go?!

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Hiking / Camping, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Tennis / Racket Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Cooking, Food and Wine

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