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oldf3llatc

48, chelmsford

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Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Casual, See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Self-employed
Education:  Bachelors Degree
Eye Colour:  Blue
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Agnostic/None

Looking for Female between the ages of 36 and 48

Star Sign: Gemini
Last Active: Message him before he's gone!

About Me:

Update: soz not being rude but cannot message back as not paid for subscription.

This is a first for me, nervously excited, but taken the plunge....take me by the hand and lead me in with a smile on your face!

I am relatively happily married with kids and do not want to change the situation or rock my boat or yours. However as with every long term relationship, the sexual element has become jaded...I say jaded, what I really mean it is non-existent for sometime with a dependence on my laptop relationship 😉. On a serious note, I am passionate and have a high sex drive so decided that life is too short and the situation requires a NSA affair!

I believe I’m charming, easy going, well dressed, off the cuff and being a Gemini I love meeting interesting peeps and flirting on a night out, however I do get bored easily so need social, mental and sexual stimulation, excitement, adrenaline and a horizon of potential to keep me hooked!

I come from a working class background but have worked hard and educated myself to become a self-employed professional and cannot risk losing this or my family...so discretion is a must!

Sexually I am happy to try anything (except S&M – just not my thing!). Love the risk of being outside or being teased all day with regard to what you are or may not be wearing, building that excitement before a meeting where the air will be fizzing with tension!

So lets chat and see where we head...

Now the T&Cs

Weekend/evening meets will be difficult – not impossible with planning but need a decent excuse to leave the house and avoid suspicion. However work will allow daytime meets if I am clever. If you are after a weekly meet, this is not going to happen - but imagine 2 weeks and the butterflies, enough said!

Initial chats are fine, but I am old school from the days of going out, meeting a girl, dancing and getting a number to call. So I would like to chat initially, exchange photos but ultimately I need to meet you (us boys pay for this messaging delight and so we need a conclusion).

This is the real world and we may not be compatible – lets be honest and respectfully to let the other know, even if that’s a little way along the line – I can live with rejection, its life.

I am on the wrong side of forty (I feel 30 and think I look around 40 – but that’s my opinion), so although I am fit from running and sports, I am no beefcake and like my wine at the weekend so a little squidgy around the waist (not over weight, but I am not completing planks and Joe Wicks routines to solve this) – sorry that’s me.

Right then, lets do this thing!

Ideal Partner:

I don’t really have preferred type, age or shape – its how you use your strengths, engagement the way you make me fizz.

The only caveat is that I don't do Diva's.

Other Interests:

Music - Rock, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Tennis / Racket Sports, Travel / Sightseeing, Food and Wine

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