Casper72

About Me:

Some general information: I'm 5’ 7’’, fit/active (BMI 23) with greying hair and green eyes. Clean shaven, and no body art or piercings.


I’m open-minded for sure but want a real connection with just one special person. Someone who enjoys conversation and getting to know each other - someone who is intelligent, imaginative, lighthearted, sensual, tactile and fun. And likes to laugh and kiss, lots 💋 (but not at the same time, please 😏).

I would like someone who will message on a regular basis, ideally keeping in touch on a daily basis. And would wish to arrange meetings on a fairly regular basis - when mutually convenient, of course.

I am definitely looking for a long-term, old fashioned affair with a genuine connection and friendship - I will NOT consider a ONS.

Oh, and Casper is a real nickname from my school and uni days. It came from my ‘ghosting’ out of position on the rugby field to intercept a pass.

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My tastes and interests are genuinely eclectic - from Period Dramas and Game of Thrones and some SciFi, to Romcoms and comedy series like The Big Bang Theory. But prefer other activities to watching TV!

I really like new music, and new talented artists such as the singer-songwriter Billie Eilish:

🎼 🎶 🎶

I've been watchin' you, for some time
Can't stop starin' at those ocean eyes
Burning cities and napalm skies
Fifteen flares inside those ocean eyes
Your ocean eyes

I've been walkin' through a world gone blind
Can't stop thinkin' of your diamond mind
Careful creature made friends with time
He left her lonely with a diamond mind
And those ocean eyes

Please don’t ask me to sing it, though! Trust me! (And that is something that you would be able to do).


Love animals: 🐕 🐈‍⬛ 🐎 (not necessarily in that order).


My friends describe me as reliable, balanced, friendly and easy going. Serious at work as a high-profile professional, but need a bit more down-time fun. Happy to message at first to see if compatible, but keen to meet early on as this is the only way to know if we click.


I'm university educated, and work in both higher education and healthcare. Had covid (luckily, I was asymptomatic - good ol’ immune system) and have since had the double Pfizer ‘shot’ and third booster, of course. I now sweat pure antibodies!

I do have a lot of transferable skills. First-class in anatomy & surgical knots 🪢, and possess a rather nice collection of silk ties, which I now rarely wear 🤔. I’m told I look good in blue scrubs, though 😊 😇


Would wish to meet and chat, become friends, and want the highest level of discretion, and would offer the same in return (think Bletchley Park!!).

I’ve added one of Shakespeare’s sonnets at the end of the profile for your pleasure … it’s about a man fantasising about kissing a woman … 😉

I really enjoy walks in the countryside and quiet cosy chats, but I’m also quite adventurous and like travel, skiing and horse-riding.

Are you up for some outdoor fun? Not afraid to get dirty … before finding a quiet country pub?


Having read quite a few profiles, I’ve decided I should perhaps add a few words on my sexual preferences. I’m a natural leader, and quietly dominant in all aspects of my life, and this extends to my sex life as well. I prefer to lead and take control, but never in a domineering or controlling manner. Strongly ‘GGG’ with a romantic, imaginative and caregiving philosophy.

Fulfilling your desires will fulfil mine … once that all important emotional rapport is established, of course.

You should also know that I’m completely relaxed and happy to discuss all aspects of sex, likes and dislikes, and explore any fantasies, within our respective boundaries and limits. Ultimately it’s about consent, respect and maximising trust and pleasure within the relationship. And yes, the silk ties do come into play … being both imaginative and sensual!
Don’t be put off - I’m not Christian Grey!!!
Ok, I do ride horses so I do own a schooling whip!!!!!


I update my profile off and on, when I get chance. Do you update your profile occasionally?


Sonnet CXXVIII (128)

How oft when thou, my music, music play'st,
Upon that blessed wood whose motion sounds
With thy sweet fingers when thou gently sway'st
The wiry concord that mine ear confounds,
Do I envy those jacks that nimble leap,
To kiss the tender inward of thy hand,
Whilst my poor lips which should that harvest reap,
At the wood's boldness by thee blushing stand!
To be so tickled, they would change their state
And situation with those dancing chips,
O'er whom thy fingers walk with gentle gait,
Making dead wood more bless'd than living lips.
Since saucy jacks so happy are in this,
Give them thy fingers, me thy lips to kiss.


J'espère que tu trouveras ce que tu cherches …

Amuse-toi bien et bonne chance! 🤞

À bientôt! 🥂

Ideal Partner:

Easy going with a friendly, warm personality. And smart (in all senses). I am quite sapiosexual.

Slim or moderately curvy, and maybe an hour-glass figure, but classic looks are really not that important to me, although a nice smile used frequently would be good. If you have attentive eyes, which also smile and sparkle, even better!

Must be non-smoker, though (my only pet hate).

I’d like to find someone with a similar personality to myself: relaxed, funny, easy to please, chatty, discreet, affectionate, tactile and an adventurous spirit (comfortable on a horse at canter? Ok, not essential!) - oh, and up for romantic country walks, etc … beware, I enjoy lighting fires! 🔥

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Gardening, Music - Alternative, Music - Pop / R&B, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Gym / Aerobics, Ice / Snow Sports, Computers / Internet, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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