SparkleHB

About Me:

I am 37 voluptuous with very brightly coloured or mixture of colours hair.
I have a few chronic pain conditions which mean I am disabled and do need to be picked up and taken home as unable to take public transport and do require either a walking stick or rolator for stability due to pain levels.
Nope I don't let it hold me back, I'm stubborn and determined and I get far to bored to be stuck at home doing sweet fa. More than happy to over do it and pay for it with extra pain and recovery time than to just be forever bored.

I am just as likely to be entertained being silly and clowning around with someone who makes me laugh as I am to be in deep discussion about quantum biophysics, archaeology, the mysteries of the universe, psychology, philosophical debate, ethics and all sorts.
May not be religious but am somewhat spiritual, yet scientific with my approach to it.

Animal lover (especially my therapy dog Spencer), far to understanding and empathetic.
Gin connoisseur/lover/collector just pick one.

Before becoming disabled I was always a professional photographer, now I'm unable to do that I channel my creativity into crochet, calligraphy and a little bit of jewelry making amongst learning other things here and there.

Having been though some terrible abuse I would like to be spoiled and treated well, however I find it hard to let people treat me or spoil me. I have spent much of my life in the swinging scene, but it doesn't define me. I am happy as long as my *cough* needs *cough* are satisfied being full swing, soft swing, a unicorn, mistress, or fully monogamous.
I am massive bundle of contradictions, but then I find all the best people are ;-p xxx

Ideal Partner:

The only thing I would say is that as long as we click then off we go, that's what's important.
Chemistry makes things awesome.

The one hangup I do have is that more than long stubble is a no go for me.
I'm afraid beards are just out. Due to my PTSD no matter what ive tried I just can't get intimate with someone with more than long stubble with out triggering the PTSD. Which really doesn't go well.
Not a pogonophile, just unfortunate circumstance I have tried to and can't change. X

Other Interests:

Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Cars / Motorcycles, Gardening, Music - Country, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Music - Latin, Music - Pop / R&B, Music - Rock, Literature / History, Shopping, Singing / Playing Instrument, Dancing, Theatre / Ballet, Travel / Sightseeing, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Yoga / Meditation, Cooking, Food and Wine

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