MLJ Sublime

About Me:

Where do I start? Well, I am a 43 year old married woman, in search of a ‘Friends with Benefits’ arrangement (for want of a better phrase!).

I am well read, well travelled and articulate. I’m quite dry witted and quick to banter. I love to laugh and can be silly at times. My interests and passions are varied and I suppose I’m difficult to pigeonhole - I don’t quite fit other people’s idea of who I should be....

I’m not hideous nor am I a supermodel, however beauty is very subjective and attraction does not always make sense.

My physique (5’7 UK16 and curvy... boobs and bottom, thick thighs, small waist), fits neither into the slim/athletic nor the BBW categories. Yes, I’m carrying some extra pounds but I’m far more confident in my own skin now than I have ever been.

My reasons for joining this site are particular, though maybe not rare. My husband and I are incompatible and have more of a co-parenting friendship than a loving marriage.

I have no interest in wrecking my family life or anybody else’s. Of course it goes without saying that trust and discretion are of paramount importance.

I’m not looking for one night stands or a string of partners; I’d like to make a real connection with one man. I’d like us to enjoy one another’s company, make each other laugh and really look forward to the times we are able to spend together.

I would refer to myself as a ‘Kinkster with submissive leanings’. As such, it would be a bonus if you’d like to explore your more dominant side...

I should mention my ethnicity at this point - I am black (UK born and bred) but the ‘race’ options on this site are pretty poor! Some of you will be running for the hills at this point. I know that I am very much a novelty in these parts but hey, who knows... you’ve read this far, maybe something has piqued your interest?

One last thing of note; I am a radio 4 listening, Guardian reading, quinoa eating, wine lover. I have been known to add raw kale and pomegranate to salad but also love a good steak! I’m a ‘Snowflake’ I guess (a black snowflake... what a novel idea). I am unlikely to be compatible with anybody who’s world view is heavily influenced by The Daily Mail.

Thank you for reading my (full and unabridged) profile. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, or indeed just want to say ‘Hello’!

M

Ideal Partner:

I am attracted to highly intelligent men. It would be a bonus to find a well educated gent however I am of course aware that education is not always indicative of natural intelligence or a keen mind.

I would prefer somebody in their 40’s/early 50’s. I am willing to be open minded and of course much would be determined by any rapport we build.

I am not too bothered about height/ethnicity etc. Intelligence, openness, sense of humour and similar ‘kinks’ hold more weight. Of course attraction is important but it’s also very difficult to pinpoint - it is either there or it’s not.

I do not want endless messaging, however I would prefer to establish an online and phone friendship of sorts before meeting in person.

I am based in the UK, in a small town but I travel to major cities in the UK and various European cities for work fairly regularly.

Other Interests:

Nature, Museums / Galleries, Hiking / Camping, Literature / History, Dancing, Travel / Sightseeing, Cooking, Food and Wine

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