girlfriday2020

About Me:

Update November 2023: Oh my god, here I am again = nothing has changed. Still seeking. YOU must be out there somewhere???? ;-) ;-)

One thing I have learned - local-ish is good for me as I'm not a one-off and like to be able to meet up for drinks as much as sex.
Secondly, there really are some weirdos on here and I was stalked by one of their partners and it was pretty scary so play nice - if you're here you should be here for the reason and not just give up details????...

Update 2022: Here I find myself again.... :-)
Please make my day by understanding who I am x



Hello.....

Okay, trying to work out how to best get down what you (probably) want to know and also what I want to say whilst remaining witty and sensual (which I am) but also saying what I actually want *because I'm a little older and I kind of just like to say it how it is and save all the messing around....

I am originally from London, based in Chelmsford now, I'm long-term attached with responsibilities that mean I can't always call or video chat when you might want to. So you need to know that, up front. I have been leading a little separate life of my own for a while now to meet my needs and have met some lovely and fun people - but it is time for me to meet some more! A special one would be ideal, but I know they are few and far between.... To be really honest and put this into context, I had a very special one that lasted 10 years (we're still great friends) and my last special one ended unexpectedly and suddenly a little while ago --- so whilst I am a bit sad, I know I need to move on and that door has closed......and I need the intimacy and the extra level of sex a special connection brings.....

I have a professional job in the boring, corporate world, a fun sense of humour and like to play (often play hard ;-)). Life can be too boring too often so I need this little separate life to keep me going through the boring days.

I don't want to marry anybody :-) but I like some sensuality and emotional investment alongside the other stuff and am looking for something regular - otherwise would just go to the local and find my dark deeds there! I like the idea that things would progress beyond a one-off and appreciate the mind-play as much as the other ;-) Actually, I know me - I REALLY like the mind play..... I like to text a lot during the in-between times to get to know you better.

I am naturally submissive so somebody with a firm hand who is willing to treat me like a whore in the bedroom, but a lady outside of it would be perfect. I like the social side of things too so please don't expect me to give it up in your car before you've got to know me a little over a drink or dinner. I like the flirt and can be very good at it with the right chemistry - and it can make everything so much more hot ;-)

I can't be as spontaneous as I would like and a little planning is needed for me to meet up so you need to have an understanding of this and be a little patient. That said, I am always contactable on phone so texting is never out :-)

Anyway....if you're liking the profile, I do have photos I'll share if you interest me......

Don't be shy, but please no one-liners..... I want to be a little invested in whatever I'm getting into.....

For the record, I think I'm quite attractive, I can hold a very decent conversation and flirt and I have a really funny side....

Looking forward to hearing from you ....

GF x

PS - I'm sorry if I can't reply to all of you. If I don't it probably means that we are really incompatible geographically (Near Chelmsford is ideal for me and can work some London magic at weekends). Or that I don't get a flutter when reading your profile or email - let's face it, we're all looking for something a little more than platitudes.....

And I CANNOT meet daytimes during the week. I so wish I could but I have a full time job and it's just not practical...

Think that's it :-) :-) :-)

Ideal Partner:

In my ideal world.....

You need to have a sense of humour, be clean in all the right places, able to hold a decent conversation and not just want a quick one-off.

I like the flirting as much as the doing, so a natural flirt with a twinkle in their eye who knows what they are doing where it counts would be much appreciated.

Please don't lie - there's no point on here after all

I like people who are reasonably fit but am not looking for a metro-male-model :-) …. I like real people who are confident in themselves and don't mess around. There are far too many time wasters in this world on so many levels (been there, done that and don't want to repeat it).

I like a dominant male who takes control in the bedroom - if you do that right, you will find me very obliging. Although I would prefer to be taken for a drink first to flirt across the table and indulge in that lovely build up.....

Other Interests:

Food and Wine

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