Zander

About Me:

So, the difficult sell. . . . OK well actually I'm a pretty regular guy, in a relationship but my inner demon just won't let me sit still . . . and a part of me doesnt want me to stop him . . . .clearly.

Like everyone, I try to look after myself and I appear to be achieving - not chubby, not skinny. Strange times we are living through and I'm managing to navigate it ok I think.

Average height, blue eyes, light brown/fair hair. Clean shaven, non smoker. Reasonably well educated, travelled and experienced. Worked in the middle east and other places. . . . You may get to find out - got loads of tales to tell.

As hackneyed as it sounds, I'm reasonably happy with my lot ( and to a point, so should you be) but that little inner thing, just makes me seek the intimacy that is missing for me . . . no judgements required or welcomed and I would expect the same in return. That fair?

We are, what we are.

Oh and just in case you had any illusions you cannot 'get to know someone first' by PM's or email etc . . . you have to meet. Be an adult and be honest, if your not for me and vice versa, that's absolutely fine.

I am generally available weekdays, but I have some flexibility. Weekday evenings generally ok. Weekends with some planning now and again.

I'm Essex based . . .

Ideal Partner:

I understand well that we all have our types and that is just the way it is. Curves are great and you certainly dont have to be athletic. Everyone likes someone who can hold an intelligent conversation and I am no different. You can only really tell if you find someone attractive when you're face to face.

Obviously sexual attraction . . . .again, let's be honest were here for intimacy and everything that comes with that, but equally surely we have to like each other too! It wouldn't work for either of us if we didn't find each other intellectually attractive as well as physically so . . . and hopefully you think the same. Sexually, I'd describe myself as open - happy to discuss any particular kinks you may have . . .and we all have our predilictions and that's fine.

Of course a great dresser, but you dont have to dress up . . . casual can be equally as attractive.

One request. My pics are recent ( to be honest they're not great ones, but you'll get the idea) and hopefully yours would be too.

I would hope I'm not coming across too blunt, but orchestrating time to arrange a meet, to find you actually look and come across nothing like you portray is disappointing at best. I'm honest and hope you could be too.

Please, please don't have terrible phrases like 'rocking boats' in your profile or use the 'generator- because its rubbish.

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